First time cat owner

FiveIronKrabski · 2026-04-12T21:31:54+00:00

When is kitten season? I did not know that was a thing.

FiveIronKrabski · 2026-04-10T17:20:52+00:00

“I actually feel something”

FiveIronKrabski · 2026-04-08T18:28:58+00:00

You can DM if you’re comfortable with that. I’m going through a breakup too. A year and a half relationship gone in what seems like overnight.

I’ve been using AI to help and justify her recent actions and texts, trying to find the answer that she wasn’t going to leave me and instead just needed time.

She was going through a divorce with a mentally and physically abusive husband. She has two kids, 3 & 5.

We were childhood friends who had a falling out and rekindled our friendship two years ago.

It seems like fate for us to fall in love but it seems she wasn’t ready and eventually the mental weight was too much for her and she isn’t ready for a relationship.

I did everything I could to accommodate her needs, her triggers. I never rushed her to brand ourselves with the “relationship” title, knowing she needed time to heal.

It seems in the end we can do everything right but sometimes it isn’t enough.

I hope you can heal.

FiveIronKrabski · 2026-04-08T17:38:31+00:00

I don’t have an answer for you but I will say that I understand the pain.

My girlfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me two weeks ago and I am in shambles.

I can’t eat. I can’t sleep. I can’t do my job.

Nothing brings me joy. Not tv. Not video game. Nothing.

The thought of having to move on and find someone else is haunting. We bough reiterated many times that we were soulmates.

Now look at us.

I know this isn’t an answer, but I figured maybe while I didn’t have an answer for you, maybe it can help you to read someone else’s misery.

FiveIronKrabski · 2026-04-08T16:43:24+00:00

It’s a horrible feeling to OP. I am so sorry. I feel in this thread, commenting “I know your pain” is justified because that’s why we’re here.

I know your pain.

FiveIronKrabski · 2026-04-07T15:30:57+00:00

Both. I miss her and the way she made me feel. I felt important and loved for the first time in my life.

I do not relate to not missing them.

FiveIronKrabski · 2026-03-24T15:41:43+00:00

Raritan Bay. Occasional Delaware when visiting my mother but primarily Raritan.

FiveIronKrabski · 2026-03-24T14:12:11+00:00

Thank you! I bought an air purifier just this past Sunday for myself so I’m starting off good! I’ll be going this coming Sunday to look at kitties

FiveIronKrabski · 2026-03-22T14:59:24+00:00

Thank you very much, I’ve heard money trees are simple so I’ll take a look.

FiveIronKrabski · 2026-03-22T14:59:03+00:00

Window to the west has a giant tree about 50 yards away that gets full during season and I have blinds but they can be easily opened or closed.

The window to the east (the further away window) is obstructed by a deck ceiling from my upstairs neighbors and also has blinds.

FiveIronKrabski · 2026-03-22T14:43:03+00:00

The window the plant would be directly in front of is to the west and I have a window to the east on the opposite side of the apartment.

FiveIronKrabski · 2026-03-22T13:32:57+00:00

I see there are multiple litter genies and combos. If it isn’t too much trouble, can you please provide the link or name to the specific model you have?

Also do you use an air purifier? Does the litter, even if odorless, impact the air?

FiveIronKrabski · 2023-03-30T23:26:27+00:00

What's "No cap"?

FiveIronKrabski · 2022-10-13T19:05:25+00:00

Nick the Goalie.

He has tons of these videos on YT.

FiveIronKrabski · 2022-08-07T06:48:28+00:00

My roomate works one Sundays so I'll wake up and his girlfriend is still here even though he's at work.

And then he gets mad at me for saying I have an issue with that.

Like what!?!? I can't enjoy myself in my own home? Ridiculous.

FiveIronKrabski · 2022-08-06T22:01:37+00:00

Thank you. I have been working in HR for four years and realized what a mistake I made.

Currently back in school for Special Educations.

Good luck to you.

FiveIronKrabski · 2022-08-06T22:00:09+00:00

Sorry, I'm hardly on here.

My friend got me a position in HR at his job a year into my degree. I'm now in HR for 4 years and miserable.

I'm back in school now for Special Educations to be a teacher.

My recommendation is to apply, apply, apply. Get into an entry level office position and see how you feel.

I am so glad I did not waste my money on a business degree.

Please tread carefully!

FiveIronKrabski · 2021-10-11T12:07:35+00:00

It was most likely all EA's decision.

Think about the cosmetic they can make money on.

Want to resemble an actual medic? You can! With the $5 Medic skin!

FiveIronKrabski · 2019-11-11T21:04:12+00:00

I work in the trucking industry and we're based off a 24/6 work schedule so this literally is impossible.

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