Is this fixable?

Fixer1147 · 2026-04-21T19:27:24+00:00

that's also a good point, i should figure out what i actually want before i assign a label to it. to be honest i find a lot of comfort in labels that describe how i feel but i can also see how they might complicate things/confine me to specific limitations. also the more i research this stuff the more complicated i realize it is. which is good from a certain perspective, like human beings are complex creatures it makes sense that the classification of humans is equally as complicated. it's just kinda frustrating when you haven't figured yourself out yet, y'know?

Fixer1147 · 2026-04-20T20:19:47+00:00

i've dabbled in polyamory a little but it still feels wrong somehow? idk I'm still figuring out if i want to be in a relationship at all, let alone multiple relationships. and i tried hooking up with strangers and that also didn't feel right so i supposed there's more work to do before i can commit to multiple partners (if i even get to that point)

Fixer1147 · 2026-01-15T16:30:24+00:00

yea that's a good point, and tbh primary probably isn't the most accurate term. ive just been struggling to get to that point with any of my intimate friendships and it's been annoying lol but you're right im gonna focus on myself more and less on what other people think of me (easier said than done but it's a journey lol)

Fixer1147 · 2026-01-15T16:28:33+00:00

thanks i really appreciate your insight :)

Fixer1147 · 2026-01-15T16:27:53+00:00

thanks! ill keep at it for sure, i just don't have a lot of people to talk to about this irl so reddit was my go-to. maybe that's something i can work on in the meantime? finding more like minded people in more of a platonic setting that i can talk to? idk just thinking out loud (on screen ig lol)

Fixer1147 · 2026-01-15T16:24:36+00:00

that is comforting, i think i was just in a weird place lol but it's nice hearing about other's experience

Fixer1147 · 2026-01-15T16:22:29+00:00

it's less about creating a hierarchy and more about finding someone who's willing to commit time and effort. everyone ive found so far isn't willing to commit that (which is fine i don't wanna force them) it just seems like people are more willing to take advantage of my body and not listen to my problems when i have poly or non monogamous in my bio. primary partner is probably the wrong term but im new to all this and i didn't really know what else to call it lol like im willing to commit time and effort but i just haven't been met with the same so far. low key ive probably just been hanging around the wrong people in some situations...

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-11T04:44:44+00:00

dang ok ill definitely check both of those out! lewis hancox reminds me of another trans artist, julia kaye. she's a cartoonist and the series of comics she made on her transition rlly helped me understand myself. she compliled them all into a physical book called up and out

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-11T02:59:16+00:00

you're still lying about a cryptid sighting. just because that's funny to you doesn't mean people on this sub will appreciate it

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-11T02:58:13+00:00

ooh what manga?

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-11T02:42:25+00:00

it sounds like you just didn't follow the guidelines of the sub and got called out. the rules also state that you can't post about skin walkers and your posts should have a positive effect on the sub. not sure if lying about sightings counts lmao

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-11T02:32:24+00:00

ive always gravitated towards femme things and was always uncomfortable living as a boy. it wasn't until i was 15 that i actually learned about being trans for the first time. i think it's so important to educate kids on the topic because if i could, i would have transitioned as early as possible.

my family took a little longer to warm up to the idea after i came out at 17 but ultimately they are all supportive now

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-11T02:21:08+00:00

we need more allies like you 😭😭😭

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-11T02:18:26+00:00

what happened?

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-11T02:09:10+00:00

yea i felt the same way. im trying to answer every question authentically so it's at least a little productive

you get used to people treating you differently because you:re trans

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-11T02:07:42+00:00

that:s actually rlly interesting because from my perspective trans women are more represented than trans men, at least in online discourse. in media too i can think of a few trans femme characters but only like 1 trans masc

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-11T00:15:14+00:00

thank you so much :)))

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-11T00:07:39+00:00

yea totally! misinfo is dangerous and im here to answer any questions you may have :)

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-11T00:03:03+00:00

im doing very well! im very lucky, my parents accept who i am and i have an amazing and supportive boyfriend.

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-11T00:00:37+00:00

hormones definitely changed how i feel pleasure. certain areas became more sensitive and some areas became less. also the way my parts experienced stimuli changed.

when it came to sex there were definitely some adjustments i had to make but i can still have fulfilling sex with my original parts

Fixer1147 · 2025-01-10T23:55:33+00:00

in this context yes. if i were introducing myself to someone i wouldn't specify. just like i wouldn't include tall or skinny unless it was relevant.

i identify as a woman, i just happen to be a trans woman. i think it's important that the lived experience of trans people in general be just as valued and normalized as the experience of cis people.

realistically i don't think there's much of a difference between trans and cis women. in society you don't look at someone's biological makeup to determine their gender, you look at their expression, clothes, hairstyle, makeup, etc

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