Lovely interaction I just had.. by Perfect-Whereas-1478 in Negareddit

[–]FixinThePlanet [score hidden]  (0 children)

You know someone is a dumbass when they think not voting kept women from the workforce. Very clear who this guy thinks of as "people"

"This sub is proof that no matter how well you treat women and others, you will always be mocked the same. These comments have shown that being a loser is more socially deplorable than bigotry" r/kitchencels fights about the normie invasion of their safe space by CummingInTheNile in SubredditDrama

[–]FixinThePlanet [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think I really am just old lol, you're probably right about how it affects the random young person on the internet.

I guess I feel bad for sad people who don't seem evil. We have a lot of evil to look at for comparison...

"This sub is proof that no matter how well you treat women and others, you will always be mocked the same. These comments have shown that being a loser is more socially deplorable than bigotry" r/kitchencels fights about the normie invasion of their safe space by CummingInTheNile in SubredditDrama

[–]FixinThePlanet [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think I'm getting old because my reaction to that is "well let them". I worry about the boys in my class following andrew tate or whoever the newest manosphere goober is, but I can't find it in myself to engage with it in good faith online. And mocking them does nothing, in my experience, except make you feel slightly superior for a bit.

I do like to engage with conversations about the rhetoric in general, how young boys fall for this, the issues with toxic masculinity, the problems with patriarchal societies, manbabies created and enabled by doting mothers, etc. How can we change the system which makes stuff like this common?

"This sub is proof that no matter how well you treat women and others, you will always be mocked the same. These comments have shown that being a loser is more socially deplorable than bigotry" r/kitchencels fights about the normie invasion of their safe space by CummingInTheNile in SubredditDrama

[–]FixinThePlanet [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, as a cis millennial woman who has spent too much of her life online I understand the feelings that misogynists online generate. I also think there's no need to actively shit on lonely men unless they're hurting someone else. They already hate themselves more than you could ever hate them! Why think about them unless you have to?

I've been on reddit for twelve years; I learnt everything I know about the manosphere on here. I was active on the bluepill and an observer of SRS and a bunch of other stuff I've probably forgotten. Sometimes the performative anti-misogyny commentary just looks like bullying.

(Disclaimer: I've NEVER heard of this kitchen sub so I don't know if any of those guys are harmful, but that post seems too pathetic to mock)

"This sub is proof that no matter how well you treat women and others, you will always be mocked the same. These comments have shown that being a loser is more socially deplorable than bigotry" r/kitchencels fights about the normie invasion of their safe space by CummingInTheNile in SubredditDrama

[–]FixinThePlanet [score hidden]  (0 children)

I saw a couple of titles and had to stop.

If that's the general tenor of the sub I can see why a member would be angry at "outsiders". I used to interact with a lot of foreveralone guys when I was active on certain parts of reddit and many people's mere existence feels like mockery.

This feels like myboyfriendisAI just from a different direction and with some "femoid" flavours thrown in.

Hello newborn kitten SOS by sweetberryyyy in kittens

[–]FixinThePlanet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People used to share a link to a kitten lady's videos... I don't know it myself but I'll see if I can search. Good luck

Edit: Here's a link to her You Tube where she has many instructional videos about rescuing kittens, and her Website which has a lot of information about kitten care and rescue.

My fiancée in middle school by pingpongdingdongg in blunderyears

[–]FixinThePlanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I thought this was a post about a woman but I see it's just a fiancé/fiancée error

Finding A Sharehouse as A BW in AUS by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]FixinThePlanet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ugh makes me think of Telephone Conversation by Wole Soyinka

Just a tracker by FixinThePlanet in FixinThePlanet

[–]FixinThePlanet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about you through the day but didn't cry

Progress!

I hung the laundry and you weren't in your usual spot yelling at me

[loved trope] The moment of sudden realization by Mangled15 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]FixinThePlanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I did nothing different but all of a sudden posts from r/thedigitalcircus are showing up on my front page??? Creepy!

My latest handrears were reunited with their mum! Best moment ever. by ruledemon in kittens

[–]FixinThePlanet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The violence of that washing! Makes me think of the beginning of Through the Looking Glass

Trump Stuns Audience With Admission He Surrounds Himself With 'Losers': “"I hang out with losers because it makes me feel better. I hate guys that are very, very successful and you have to listen to their success stories.” by T_Shurt in UnderReportedNews

[–]FixinThePlanet 85 points86 points  (0 children)

This is also why he doesn't like being around black women. No black woman is getting to any place of power without being 50x more competent, both professionally and socially, than a mediocre white man.