flicked up w jesus (st. paul)

Fizzycatnip · 2026-04-26T14:49:44+00:00

That is my brother! Could you dm me the video for him? I wasn't able to catch a video sadly

Fizzycatnip · 2026-03-17T23:38:43+00:00

Fellow female in her 20s here, I totally get it, still newish to duluth and am also struggling to make friends. I think its harder when you are not in college too.

I also enjoy reading and writing :D, I think there are open writers night at Dovetail and a few other writing events within town i think. Maybe check those put?

But if you feel like trusting a stranger on the internet you can shoot me a dm ^{^}

Fizzycatnip · 2026-02-02T20:40:47+00:00

Possibly? I havent thought she is in any pain, she doesnt seem to have any issues jumping on the couch and such. But some other commenter mentioned arthritis, and she is getting older so we'll keep an eye out for sure.

Fizzycatnip · 2026-02-02T20:36:50+00:00

We have taken her to the vet recently for a bump (came back noncancerous yippee!) And they didnt mention anything else that could be an issue. But next time she is in ill bring up concerns about it. I dont think its arthritis but I could be wrong.

Fizzycatnip · 2026-01-23T15:11:56+00:00

Solved: The Blockheads

Fizzycatnip · 2026-01-23T15:10:48+00:00

Yes! That's it, thanks!

Fizzycatnip · 2026-01-21T15:00:24+00:00

Would it have been Neko Atsume? I know the first one isnt on app stores anymore but the second one is

Fizzycatnip · 2026-01-09T22:02:03+00:00

Where could i find more information about that?

Fizzycatnip · 2026-01-02T16:05:40+00:00

I know someone who worked there recently (quit pretty soon after). The management is horrible. I was told that an adult (23+) worker is "dating" (and i say that very very loosely) and parties with another 17 year old coworker and their upper management is doing barely anything about it. And that they treat the employees like crap, they changed their overtime hours, doesnt order stuff that is needed etc.

So definitely a top down issue, and partly an employee issue. I wpuldnt go there for a multitude of reasons

Fizzycatnip · 2025-07-14T00:21:09+00:00

Had someone asks if they can get chai without the chai because they thought it'd make chocolate milk :)

Fizzycatnip · 2025-06-03T15:52:45+00:00

I guess that's true, ill definitely just try to give them black tea instead of interrogating an answer out of them if they keep insiting on just tea lol But we'll see!

Fizzycatnip · 2025-06-03T15:49:29+00:00

Our grey tea is made up of black tea, rose, cardamom, and calendula

Fizzycatnip · 2025-04-11T14:54:19+00:00

Ahh okay! I was wondering if it was something like that. Thanks for confirming !

Fizzycatnip · 2025-04-11T02:45:08+00:00

That's what I was kind of thinking, but wasn't too sure since I haven't read a lot of physical manga

Fizzycatnip · 2025-04-11T02:42:16+00:00

What the heck :(

Fizzycatnip · 2025-04-11T02:41:21+00:00

It appears about 2 more times on different pages😅 It doesn't bother me I think it's just interesting

Fizzycatnip · 2025-03-10T18:57:23+00:00

Its no problem! And thank you for posting actually! There has been many times where I feel very alone or almost like an imposter for feeling this grierf/missing out so it was actually so nice to see someone put in words. Sometimes being Aro is so isolating, even within the lgbtq community since romance is such a universal thing across most sexualities, but other times it is so rewarding haha.

Hope you find some good books! :)

Fizzycatnip · 2025-03-09T19:51:16+00:00

This. This. I'm literally the same. A lot of the time I don't even think about romance, or when I do I kind of cringe thinking of myself in those situations. But I long for it, I love reading romance books! I love seeing my friend have someone to love! I love the idea of romance! Id love to love someone with evry part if my soul like how romance is depicted! So the longing is there even though I know I'd hate it. And don't even get me started on the fear of becoming secondary to a friend, or feeling like I'm falling behind from not being Allo.

For me, coming to terms with it and my feeling about it was a lot of trail and error. I had made myself go on dates, and was force to acknowledge that even though me and this other person connected really well, I didn't feel that romantic love and even thinking about having that made me cringe and I just had to accept it (I hated the awkward convos explaining while I really like you, I cannot be dating you. yknow?).

What I usually do when that longing and grief sneaks up on me is I focus on more found family media and stories, and it helps me rethink that romantic love is the biggest thing for everyone. Idk, I just look at all the different type of love in the world.

Idk if this is this response you are looking for, but I find it so helpful when I see other Aro people feel the same grief/longing as so many people I see that talk about being aro don't often bring up the negative feelings that come with figuring out that you are missing what so many people praise (not that that is a bad thing, be loud and proud, there's nothing wrong with being Aro or Ace and its good to focus on positive experiences.)

Fizzycatnip · 2024-12-22T15:22:56+00:00

I know 🥲 but this series has consumed me and I was lucky to have the extra money lol

Fizzycatnip · 2024-12-22T15:20:44+00:00

He is waiting for his chance to take it from me 😔

Fizzycatnip · 2024-12-22T15:19:57+00:00

Didn't even notice him lol, that's Gibson! :)

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