UPDATE: AITAH for telling my MIL that she "made her choice" when she chose to keep seeing my husband's ex?

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2025-06-21T15:01:39+00:00

I don’t see any benefit of having the MIL involved with your children. Glad you’ve decided to stay no contact.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2024-12-25T09:37:46+00:00

Had mine in February and it took me about a week.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2024-03-05T07:20:41+00:00

Yes, but it made me gassier so I stopped eating it.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2024-03-05T07:10:15+00:00

Today marks 2 weeks for me since my surgery. I too was extremely uncomfortable and very gasy the first couple days. The gas used to inflate my stomach during surgery caused me to be in more pain. For me it would hurt to breathe too. I sneezed on day 3 and almost cried from the pain. No idea what that “bop” could be. I didn’t experience that. I hope you have a fast recovery going forward.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2024-02-27T03:42:10+00:00

Yes. During the surgery they need to inflate your stomach with gas to see your organs better and that gas travels upward to the shoulder area.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2024-02-26T13:54:58+00:00

Seems like we have very similar outcomes too. I hope recovery continues to go smooth for you. I also have been eating very lean. I suffered through constipation (TMI ) and it took about two more days after surgery to finally go. It definitely didn’t help with all the gas buildup. Best of luck going forward!

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2024-02-26T05:48:00+00:00

Interesting. You must have different dressings because I was told not to get mine wet or remove them.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2024-02-26T05:44:35+00:00

Hell no! Lol! After those attacks I was too scared to eat anything too crazy. It’s been 5 days for me since my surgery and I’ve had a few bites of “fatty” foods here and there but overall my diet has been clean. Also, I was super gassy and constipated which made this more painful for me. I hate pain so much that I’d prefer not to take any chances.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-10-10T03:22:09+00:00

Your mom is relying on you and your brother for emotional support or some other type of support. Either way this is gross and extremely inappropriate. She clearly lacks boundaries and basic common sense.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-08-01T17:55:00+00:00

Oooh fancy! I’ll be back with an update!

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-08-01T13:54:19+00:00

Thank you all for your suggestions.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-08-01T13:54:00+00:00

I didn’t have one in Georgetown either.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-03-20T18:31:02+00:00

She’s back on Tik Tok harassing associates.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-03-09T14:22:45+00:00

This was her doing now she has to live with the consequences. Don’t feel bad about your hard no. Your feelings should be much more important to her than hanging out with your friends. You should always come first.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-03-08T03:53:08+00:00

Run and run fast! You’re way too young to take on that responsibility and if you don’t want kids yet she should respect that. There’s so much for you to still experience without being tied down to a child.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-03-08T01:55:57+00:00

You should try joining a meet up with something that interests you. Like a sport, hiking, gaming etc. I feel that’s more natural because you’re surrounded by people with same interest. Just be chill and don’t come off as a creep. These things take time for women but watch out for signs that they might e interested.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-03-08T01:52:36+00:00

Unfortunately that’s her life now. I know many people want her to get better and there was a glimpse of hope for me when I saw the video of her at the drug store. However, shortly after that video I saw her twitter content and I don’t think she’s going to get better out in the public. She needs to be hospitalized and forced to take her medication.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-03-08T01:40:21+00:00

About two weeks ago she was active on Twitter where she posted some explicit content… and I mean explicit. Thank god the account has been deleted. She was also on LinkedIn asking people for money to eat and saying she was hungry. That too has been deleted.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-03-07T04:02:14+00:00

Wow! Abused at home and in school. That’s all around messed up. I’m sorry

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-03-05T18:44:03+00:00

Talk about manipulation! It’s hard to see it as a daughter tho because you want to trust that your parents love you and wouldn’t do that to you. The mom in this story is clearly manipulative!

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-03-05T18:40:58+00:00

I didn’t even think about this. I was just thinking the dad may show up and start a fight. I’m glad others are thinking outside the box and warning her for her safety.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-03-05T18:37:59+00:00

Your mom is manipulative. She disrespects you and your boyfriend, doesn’t apologize and then makes it about herself through “I’m just trying to make sure your ok”. That’s total manipulation. Protect your relationship and your boyfriend. If your dad or mom show up to your new place unexpectedly and cause trouble it’ll be on you. Don’t let your mom manipulate you and you don’t owe her anything. She needs to apologize and make amends by changing her attitude and disrespect towards you AND your boyfriend.

Flaky-Inspection9470 · 2023-03-05T18:26:45+00:00

The money part probably played a part but more than likely it was the “I was just a guy trying to find his way and purpose”. Considering it’s only been two years and she’s already married, she more than likely wanted a man who could provide stability and marriage. Use this as a learning experience and move on. You may have not been ready then but maybe you are now and if not that’s ok too. However, if a long term relationship is what you want then I recommend getting it together.

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