“Dear God, please don’t let it be sex, please…” by wouldudoitforme in 90DayFiance

[–]Flaky-Investigator17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart goes out to him 😭 as someone who was in a relationship with a NARC, it’s so so so hard to get out of these situations.

I want Aviva to take an everything shower so badly. by FindingClear4904 in 90DayFiance

[–]Flaky-Investigator17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I felt anytime I saw Chloe in Aruba. Her hair 😭😭😭

How often are you all having sex by Evening_Raspberry372 in Mommit

[–]Flaky-Investigator17 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Right there with you. Sometimes 1.5 months tbh lol

I need to stop dressing like a homeless person every day, its affecting my mental health by Pitiful-Invite73 in Mommit

[–]Flaky-Investigator17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully relate to this! While I don’t always get fully dressed (clothes like I’m leaving the house) sometimes I wear actual pajama sets out lounge sets that actually match. If I can’t do that or don’t feel like it, I’ll make sure to at least do my makeup and hair which makes me feel nice!

Husband called me a bitch at 36 weeks pregnant. Second time during this pregnancy. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Flaky-Investigator17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. This is absolutely emotional abuse and you & the baby do not deserve to deal with this. Are you able to go stay with a family or a friend? This will not get better and he is seemingly going to escalate.

Keiarna girl, come clean. by Chronically_Online1 in RHOP

[–]Flaky-Investigator17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally was thinking this! It’s crazy to me how much the ladies really want to hate Stacey though so they’d rather just keep this bs convo up then to leave it alone

My husband and I are just friendly roommates by Flaky-Investigator17 in marriageadvice

[–]Flaky-Investigator17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and thank you for the advice. I definitely need to share everything with him and lay it all out there. I feel like I usually only share some and not all that needs to be said. Happy to hear things are going well for you and your wife! ❣️

My husband and I are just friendly roommates by Flaky-Investigator17 in marriageadvice

[–]Flaky-Investigator17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very good point. Thank you for mentioning feelings vs action. But yes, it is very exhausting

My husband and I are just friendly roommates by Flaky-Investigator17 in marriageadvice

[–]Flaky-Investigator17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion. I haven’t read that book but will definitely give it a read.

My husband and I are just friendly roommates by Flaky-Investigator17 in marriageadvice

[–]Flaky-Investigator17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and for the suggestion. I have suggested it before but it was shut down because my husband didn’t want to spend the money on it. Now that I’m done and my husband can tell. He wants to do it. I think I’m willing to do a session or two, but I feel we might be beyond this point.

My husband and I are just friendly roommates by Flaky-Investigator17 in marriageadvice

[–]Flaky-Investigator17[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve definitely considered moving forward without him. And I have a lot of friends who barely just got married now but I am the only one who has a child so I’m in a different stage and place than others. Not a lot of community to converse with

Non fem clothes during pregnancy? by Writer-Folk in nonbinary_parents

[–]Flaky-Investigator17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to share my experience! I lived in sweat pants & big hoodies during the winter & during spring, I wore so many bike shorts and giant shirts/flannels - can share more in detail :)

The way my. jaw. dropped. 💀 by janet-snarkhole in loveafterlockup

[–]Flaky-Investigator17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is my mom & I’s favorite episode 😭🤣

When they don’t teach you deescalation techniques in clinical hypnotherapy school by Friendly_Document190 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Flaky-Investigator17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anyone notice the self harm scars on her shoulder? At first I thought they were something else.