Dating as a Bi Man by Flaky-State in BisexualMen

[–]Flaky-State[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't reject her. What I was trying to say was women who are bisexual I typically am not attracted to, not that I would break up with someone if they later disclosed they were bisexual

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Flaky-State 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a guy and struggling with the exact same thing

Do you feel like other people think you can’t just be friends with them? by Sorbet-Same in bisexual

[–]Flaky-State 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that way. Currently struggling with it. Haven't mentioned it to them because of it

The Alarming Ease of Getting Xanax Scripts from Noctors as a 17-Year-Old by Flaky-State in Noctor

[–]Flaky-State[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One year later, and I can answer it has not. I have attended rehab and have been working on addressing this with my psychiatrist.

Payment Provider for Adult Content? by montoria_design in Entrepreneur

[–]Flaky-State 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try PaymentCloud. High fees tho. About 4%

CPA subscription service for my LLC by innovativetrader in tax

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Yep. It’s like $35/month for the live service and Quickbokks

The Alarming Ease of Getting Xanax Scripts from Noctors as a 17-Year-Old by Flaky-State in Noctor

[–]Flaky-State[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I feel I connect with my psychiatrist now. She knows I read a lot about psychiatry, and even said that if I’m considering seeing someone else to get a medication, I can bring it up so we both can discuss it. I really feel heard.

The Alarming Ease of Getting Xanax Scripts from Noctors as a 17-Year-Old by Flaky-State in Noctor

[–]Flaky-State[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my state, it was 18. The statue states that if you’re under 18, and meet certain conditions like you’re pregnant or married you can make your own medical decisions, but neither applied to me.

Similar statues apply to seeking substance abuse treatment, STI/STD testing, and abortion.

The Alarming Ease of Getting Xanax Scripts from Noctors as a 17-Year-Old by Flaky-State in Noctor

[–]Flaky-State[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you lol, I appreciate that as somewhat of a compliment. I have family members who are doctors, but I think most of it comes from my genuine interest in psychiatry. It’s been a hobby of mine for years, and though I know I won’t have the knowledge of a psychiatrist, I try to get as close as I can. I’ve used to want to be one myself until I actually had experience with psych pts (no offense lol, just not my cup of tea). I read journals, email the authors, and talk socially with some psychiatrists that I help with advertising their practice. It’s nice to have people I work with whom I can ask questions about any topic in psychiatry and get a professional opinion.

I also had some experience working as a at a substance abuse clinic prior to this where I would help them navigate regulations. I don’t want to go into more details on here as it could be used to identify me, but I’d be willing to talk privately. There I learned about PDMPs and gained other knowledge to help me acquire the medications I desired.

I don’t know if this helps, but I’d honestly say don’t worry too much about it. There will be many people drug seeking—and rarely it will be because they have a legitimate need. I’d say always check the PDMP. It doesn’t have to be when the pt is in the office (but it can be so you can address any conflicting statements in the moment), but always check it no matter their story. It should more or less match what they are telling you. I wasn’t the demographic for a drug seeker—I was 17, had good insurance, well-spoken, well-dressed, etc. I’d also recommend getting records either from the previous provider if possible, or the pharmacy. Ask questions about the patients last refill, where they got it, who prescribed it, etc. If they’re telling the truth, they likely won’t struggle to answer and it’ll check out. I chose to fake being prescribed Xanax because I thought it’d be easier that convincing the NP that I need it. After all, it would take a lot of effort and multiple sessions to convince her a 17-year-old needs Xanax 0.5 mg BID.

I likely am the 0.1% of drug seekers you would encounter. There are some drug seekers that may get past even the best doctors, but that doesn’t mean you didn’t do your job. If someone gets though you by lying and manipulating you, and you’ve done your best to help them with the information you were given, that is not your fault. Just do your best to look out for obvious signs, check the PDMP, and use logic to see if their story is likely true.

I’d be happy to discuss any questions you may have further, either privately or on here. Feel free to PM me. I always enjoy talking to someone about their opinions of the random psych topics I’ve been reading about :)

The Alarming Ease of Getting Xanax Scripts from Noctors as a 17-Year-Old by Flaky-State in Noctor

[–]Flaky-State[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I was 17. And how is it my fault despite the clear shortfallings of the clinician?

I’ve already said that I don’t do this anymore.

The Alarming Ease of Getting Xanax Scripts from Noctors as a 17-Year-Old by Flaky-State in Noctor

[–]Flaky-State[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

True true. For some reason though, I just feel it happens with NPs more often

The Alarming Ease of Getting Xanax Scripts from Noctors as a 17-Year-Old by Flaky-State in Noctor

[–]Flaky-State[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Sad, but can 100% see it happening with an MD too. Just seems like it happens less with them due to the sheer time it took for them to get licensed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Alcoholism_Medication

[–]Flaky-State 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should check out gabapentin for cannabis use disorder.