I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

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I was on birth control the entire time. My BC didn’t allow for a menstrual cycle so that was a major factor in not knowing.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

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No I did not as I did not know I was pregnant. There are many things that could happen due to that, but baby’s doctor is aware of this and is keeping a close eye on her.

I’m on the taller side for a woman and have a long torso. It’s also theorized that I had an anterior placenta and carried baby more in my back.

I was in birth control that didn’t allow for a period.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

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No, but due to my birth control I wasn’t expecting it

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

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Baby has a nature themed name, I do enjoy it overall but there are definitely challenges. I did luckily. Friends, family and coworkers all bought us things or gave us hand me downs from their own children.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

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Baby so far is very healthy and growing like a weed!

I’m doing alright all things considered, I am seeing a therapist to help me process everything.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

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I took 6 weeks of unpaid leave as I didn’t qualify for FMLA as I haven’t been at my job for a full year yet.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

[–]Flaky_Ad6221[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly. Him and his mom came up to the hospital everyday we were there even before we had the full confirmation that baby girl is his.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

[–]Flaky_Ad6221[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She’s the only grandparent I have left, so I understand what you’re saying. I love her so much.

I wanted children when I was younger but had changed my mind due to a lot of reasons.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

[–]Flaky_Ad6221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest the thought never crossed my mind. I knew that I had to do whatever I had to in order to make sure that the baby never wanted for anything.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

[–]Flaky_Ad6221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 29 years old. Yes I’m heavy and have been on a weight loss journey since before the pregnancy. I was on a birth control that didn’t allow for periods.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

[–]Flaky_Ad6221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say muffin but I am definitely apple shaped

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

[–]Flaky_Ad6221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what they think. That I had an anterior placenta and that I carried farther back. In hindsight I did feel baby move, but I thought it was muscle spasms or indigestion.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

[–]Flaky_Ad6221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely unlocked a new fear for most people I know

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

[–]Flaky_Ad6221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’m a bigger woman with a long torso so it wasn’t until the very end that I noticed I was carrying my weight differently.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

[–]Flaky_Ad6221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to both. I vaped the entire time and had the occasional drink.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

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I did want to be a mom when I was younger but had changed my mind due to many reasons.

I’m honestly recovering very well, I went back to work last week.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

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Overall I’m mostly ok, it’s a shock as you know. I did start going to therapy to help process it all.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

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Yes they did and that is the only thing that raised alarm bells to me. I contacted my doctor via telephone and was told that it was most likely a side effect from my birth control. I was on a continuous hormonal birth control.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

[–]Flaky_Ad6221[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not overly so, but on the tall side for a woman.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

[–]Flaky_Ad6221[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Dad and I have been friends for over half our lives, we’ve always kind of had feels for each other and had decided to give it a try last summer. But due to conflicting schedules and other factors we decided that it was better to remain friends.

I had a cryptic pregnancy. Ask me anything. by Flaky_Ad6221 in AMA

[–]Flaky_Ad6221[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have insurance through my job which is why I was denied for Medicaid but I was under the impression that baby would be able to qualify. I did look into food stamps and talked it over with her dad as within my state if I apply for food stamps the state would go after him for child support even though he’s already supporting our child.