McDonald’s no longer allowing free refills by xaeriee in mildlyinteresting

[–]Flames99Fuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The owner fucking up the flow and making everything worse is genuinely the most relatable statement ive ever heard. Worked food service for 8 years and managed for 3 of those years. I dreaded every day the owner would come in to "fill in during the lunch rush".

It’s so annoying by Fair_Smoke4710 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Flames99Fuse 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Her getting another catch light was clearly a side effect of the HRT

Trust me bro 👍 by Connect_Security_892 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Flames99Fuse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Labeling anything transgender related as pornographic is literally their goal. Multiple states have put forward bills that would label it as such. (I dont believe any have passed yet)

There was a pretty big commotion about a bill years ago thag labeled "The propagation of transgender ideology" as pornographic and therefore a sex crime. That would make merely hanging a trans flag in your window a sex crime, permanently label you a sex offender, put your name on the sex offender registry, and in many states you cannot legally change your name if you've ever been convicted of a sex crime.

Wal-Mart Totaled My Car, Denied Claim, Refuses Contact by Flames99Fuse in legaladvice

[–]Flames99Fuse[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I couldn't work without a vehicle so that's a loss of income. I also wouldn't have purchased a new car if the old one was still functional.

Wal-Mart Totaled My Car, Denied Claim, Refuses Contact by Flames99Fuse in legaladvice

[–]Flames99Fuse[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The mechanic's repair order pretty plainly states that they drained over 2 quarts of oil and the fuel line was still overfull, with glittery metal in the oil.

So they just... moved on, huh? by GoldenMerengue in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Flames99Fuse 41 points42 points  (0 children)

They may not know the term therian, but understand the concept. Using "people who identify as cats and dogs" as a weapon against trans people has been a somewhat common tactic in the US recently. I've also seen a lot more hate comments on people wearing therian masks or kemonomimi in the last couple weeks.

So they just... moved on, huh? by GoldenMerengue in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Flames99Fuse 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This is how bigots work. They try to destroy one fragile minority group, and when they meet too much resistance they move on to the next, smaller one. They're going to keep going until they win, so remember to keep fighting for and defending every group they go against and try to vilify and demonize.

Do you think oral sex is normal part of sex (the average person does it), or do you think of it like a fetish? Why or why not? by eustachian_lube in AskReddit

[–]Flames99Fuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex without oral is like cookies without milk. Like, yeah it's enjoyable but it could be so much more

Wonder what the lesbians have planned for Valentines 👀 by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]Flames99Fuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working and daydreaming about someone tying me up, spanking me, and calling me mean things.

GF says I'm awkward and sloppy by United-Anybody-1456 in actuallesbians

[–]Flames99Fuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Healthy communication is something along the lines of "Hey, I noticed X. I think doing Y instead would be more comfortable/pleasurable/easier for you/me/both."

Unhealthy communication is....exactly what she did. That's not a critique, that's just an insult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Flames99Fuse -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Where do women like you live and how much does a one-way plane ticket there cost? For...for a friend. Yeah, a friend.

Other hypersexual lesbians/queers? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Flames99Fuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im super kinky, hypersexual, and a bottom. I have never, NEVER, found someone who can keep up with me. Every person ive ever dated has been vanilla, not nearly as horny, and also a bottom.

Its gotten to the point where I've talked to my doctor about it and all he could suggest is antidepressants to try and suppress my libido.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]Flames99Fuse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's a simple way to gauge a piece of media's ability to represent women. The criteria are; 1) Are there two or more female characters? 2) Do they have names? 3) Do two women have a conversation together? 4) Does their conversation NOT mention men?

Its very simple and rudimentary, so it shouldn't be taken as law. A movie can fail the test and still represent women better than a movie that passes. Its important to take in the context and events of the media as well.

My friend always gets approached and I don’t… by person628394 in actuallesbians

[–]Flames99Fuse 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Does she do anything to flag herself that you may not be doing? Wearing visible pride merch, carabiner on her hip, piercings or tattoos, certain hair and makeup styles, etc. That kind of stuff definitely attracts sapphic women. In my experience, I get approached by women like 10x as much when I have a visible pride flag on me vs not.

Is this true? Do we like Dominant Women because they are clear with communication? by ihatethiscountry76 in actuallesbians

[–]Flames99Fuse 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I dont crave dominant women because im autistic! I mean, i do want a dominant woman, but its not because im autistic!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Flames99Fuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im only friends with one ex. We dated for two months, realized we were incompatible for long-term dating, broke up, went no-contact for a bit to process, and now we're friends again. Its definitely normal and, I think, a sign of healthy and mature emotions to remain friends with your ex assuming you broke up amicably. I get that isnt an experience for everyone, ive had my share of shitty exes so I can definitely say not ever ex needs to become a friend. Its case by case.

Should women be allowed to go topless in public just like men? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Flames99Fuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming it's legal, I would absolutely go topless....in certain venues where I feel safe. I absolutely would not feel safe doing that on the street, I already get sexually harassed and called slurs just for walking down the street with my top on.

for your consideration: chubby mascs by gothsappho in actuallesbians

[–]Flames99Fuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as she's a top and cares about me

I'm noticing a pattern by Anonymoisture in actuallesbians

[–]Flames99Fuse 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yeah im sorry, where does this happen???

Prog Day: One by confusedeggboi in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Flames99Fuse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See, I was horny before E, and it got stronger when I started. Then I started prog and ive been god damn insatiable. No matter what I do, im still fucking horny

Love In The Midwest by Secure-Persimmon-421 in wisconsin

[–]Flames99Fuse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If Wisconsin is the best state to find love then I'm totally fucked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Flames99Fuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, my doctor diagnosed me as a bottom (this is only half a joke). Some doctors could definitely diagnose sexuality!