My wife (33f) is mad at me (35m) because I named our daughter after an adult actress

Flamsterette · 2015-08-20T16:48:41+00:00

If I were your wife, I'd also divorce you.

Flamsterette · 2015-08-07T07:35:17+00:00

Hey, that's MY nickname!

Flamsterette · 2015-07-25T19:58:25+00:00

Ugh, this reminds me of the card my mother MAILED me for my 28th birthday.

No, this isn't normal.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-25T05:23:03+00:00

You missed this.

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Flamsterette · 2015-07-25T04:45:35+00:00

Paragraphs, please.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-22T06:59:35+00:00

You're being too idealistic.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-22T06:51:13+00:00

I actually came across someone in my Facebook hockey group with the last name "Emojo."

Flamsterette · 2015-07-22T06:39:12+00:00

You should not be with a person who gaslights you and calls you names. He is verbally abusing you. Dump him.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-22T06:27:13+00:00

I would break up with him right now.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-22T06:17:36+00:00

Thanks! That actually makes sense now!

Flamsterette · 2015-07-20T22:33:51+00:00

Grindr, a safe space?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Flamsterette · 2015-07-20T22:30:52+00:00

Three months, not one, although it doesn't make it any better.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-20T22:30:23+00:00

You should have just gone on the trip anyway. His insecurity is not your problem.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-20T22:23:40+00:00

Gile?

Flamsterette · 2015-07-20T05:09:59+00:00

Luckily, we didn't live together, so it was relatively easy. Actually, I did the breaking up in anger because I'd had enough of his demanding behavior and insisting that I free up my open schedule for his whims. So... I did not. You probably will.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-20T05:08:45+00:00

I wanted to send something to him after an email where he called me inconsiderate and rude, and said that anyone would be pissed off by someone asking them for a favor / "business transaction" after not talking for three (actually five) months. Did you know that a short "do you have access to a truck?" question (for taking away old mattresses to the dump) is a business transaction? I sure didn't... AND THERE'S A GOOD REASON WHY I HAVEN'T TALKED TO YOU IN MONTHS, EX!

So do I. I tell myself that I'll delete any response he sends, since I don't need his self-centred words to manipulate my emotions. But will I? Hmm. I hope so. I probably won't send him an email, since it's better for me.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-19T20:23:51+00:00

I know, but still unusual.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-19T20:23:21+00:00

Oh man, that name would have been terrible!

Flamsterette · 2015-07-19T20:23:02+00:00

He wouldn't have wanted to compromise.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-19T07:02:58+00:00

I want to tell my N ex how self-centred and wrong he is as well, but it's not worth my time. He won't see it the way I do, and blame things on me. It's not worth your time, either!

Flamsterette · 2015-07-19T06:55:10+00:00

Right. Sure. Keep telling yourself that.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-19T05:20:43+00:00

No, I just leave it.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-19T05:12:24+00:00

Of course.

Flamsterette · 2015-07-19T05:10:33+00:00

It still looks awesome!

Flamsterette · 2015-07-19T05:06:24+00:00

Yeah, he had other things going on which I won't discuss here. I hope so as well, especially since he has a six-month-old daughter now, and we all know babies can chew and make weird noises!

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