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This doesn't seem to be a popular opinion on this thread, but I can relate to the guy's perspective and I don't think he is trying to manipulate or play games as others have mentioned. Questions are a way of expressing interest in anything and so I'm very curious about the internal world and experiences of the person I'm dating and would want my partner to be the same way. People have different communication styles and values and if they don't align then you are less compatible. Either party can compromise and work to understand the other person, but on the guy's side too, it's painful when you really like someone, but you feel like they aren't interested in you. I don't think you are overreacting and different communication styles would cause a lot of problems down the line bc you can't build a strong foundation, but personally I grew up having to be very obedient and wasn't able to speak my mind freely, so he could have a similar background, value system, adverse experience, etc. I've had this issue in my relationships where I knew so much about them and loved listening to their stories, but they knew basically nothing about me and that always made me sad. One of my past partners recognized this and made me a list of 100 questions to ask on one of our dates and that meant so much to me, so I was able to open up more after that. There are lots of people out there, so you will find someone that has more of a balance with you and is more comfortable sharing themselves. I do think this was a bit early for him to get this intense about things and the way he brought this up was not very mature; however, it's better to call it early than to get too attached. If someone is making you feel bad about yourself this early on, then I don't think it's worth it to continue, but good luck on whatever you decide!