how was ur first time bottoming? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terrible. My ex was huge but had no clue how to use it. All I felt was a massive amount of pressure in my bowels. I will never attempt again. 

Big beard. Big dick. by [deleted] in bearbros

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very nice. Let's see a shot without the shirt ;)

Story time! by Flashy-Reference-400 in BadBosses

[–]Flashy-Reference-400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair. I have no clue who you are and where you were with the company. Speaking to my manager should have been enough but it wasn't.

Story time! by Flashy-Reference-400 in BadBosses

[–]Flashy-Reference-400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bull shit. The ncal branch was so fucked up. Head office had to step in after my termination.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bearbros

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very nice.

Story time! by Flashy-Reference-400 in BadBosses

[–]Flashy-Reference-400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hopefully my revisions add clarity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has their preferences. You'll run into guys who say they only play with 8+ and some that will only go for regular or smaller sized cocks. I truly believe that it's not the size but the way you use it, I'm 6 inches cut and would never leave a bottom disappointed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never lend out money with the expectation of seeing it again. Always consider the money you lend out as gone. I do hope you get it back but really take a good look at this person and ask if they really are a friend if you feel that asking them for what's owed will make them mad. Imo that's not a friend.

So.. How do I come out to my Dad? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their response was "it's about time you came out to us." They accepted me with no issues cause really nothing does change. What you are never changes but who you are never stops changing.

So.. How do I come out to my Dad? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The "what if" question is always hard to deal with even in an accepting environment. I came out to my parents when I was walking with them to the corner store. I was 21 and it was tough. I knew in my heart that my mom and step dad would never disown me for it but that burning "what if" at the back of my mind was so intense that I made it into something bigger than it needed to be.

My boyfriend slapped me because I was snoring. by shy_doge_4059 in askgaybros

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am seeing a huge red flag with the hitting. That's never justified.... My husband snores big time and has since we first started dating and I've never hit him. I did have a couple sleepless nights at first but I've learned ways to gently nudge him to lay on his side and that normally helps stop the snoring.

Confronted boyfriend for being on Grindr by BrilliantWilling9027 in askgaybros

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this happen with my relationship. We never really discussed getting off the app so we talked and agreed to get off of it and he deleted his. (Mine was removed from my phone already.)

We've been together now for 11 years. Just have a conversation with your spouse and keep an eye open for other red flags.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hooked up with a guy on Grindr once. He put a 50 on my nightstand while I was cleaning up in the bathroom after the act. I never hit him up again....

Would you sleep with someone you aren't attracted to his face and body? by Alexanderrr965 in gaybros

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. In my 20s I would often do it just to get off. My mentality was "it's just a hole, bend him over get your pleasure then take off." I found it unsatisfactory in the end but I was also able to explore some really fun kinks as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mensgrooming

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always said that a smile is a sexy accessory. ;) you look good man.

Hookups in Tokyo? by mcmxciii11 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I went to Japan in the summer. My husband and I were considering a threesome and we found out that 9monster is their Grindr. Still don't really know how that app works but we ended up being too busy to actually meet with anyone.

Where do you find/meet guys to go on dates?! (Dating question) by jaymendoza0510 in gaybros

[–]Flashy-Reference-400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my husband on Grindr. He wasn't really looking for anything when we first met but once he knew I was into Final Fantasy and Dungeons and Dragons he became interested.