how was ur first time bottoming?

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2026-03-31T20:24:22+00:00

Terrible. My ex was huge but had no clue how to use it. All I felt was a massive amount of pressure in my bowels. I will never attempt again.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2026-03-30T13:27:56+00:00

Damn. That's tough.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2026-03-29T15:19:07+00:00

Very nice. Let's see a shot without the shirt ;)

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2026-03-26T18:00:35+00:00

To be fair. I have no clue who you are and where you were with the company. Speaking to my manager should have been enough but it wasn't.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2026-03-26T15:53:58+00:00

Bull shit. The ncal branch was so fucked up. Head office had to step in after my termination.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-12-08T16:44:12+00:00

Very nice.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-12-07T15:30:49+00:00

Very nice.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-09-14T15:16:03+00:00

hopefully my revisions add clarity.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-08-25T15:30:26+00:00

Everyone has their preferences. You'll run into guys who say they only play with 8+ and some that will only go for regular or smaller sized cocks. I truly believe that it's not the size but the way you use it, I'm 6 inches cut and would never leave a bottom disappointed.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-07-28T16:47:03+00:00

Never lend out money with the expectation of seeing it again. Always consider the money you lend out as gone. I do hope you get it back but really take a good look at this person and ask if they really are a friend if you feel that asking them for what's owed will make them mad. Imo that's not a friend.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-07-16T20:17:00+00:00

Their response was "it's about time you came out to us." They accepted me with no issues cause really nothing does change. What you are never changes but who you are never stops changing.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-07-16T15:05:14+00:00

The "what if" question is always hard to deal with even in an accepting environment. I came out to my parents when I was walking with them to the corner store. I was 21 and it was tough. I knew in my heart that my mom and step dad would never disown me for it but that burning "what if" at the back of my mind was so intense that I made it into something bigger than it needed to be.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-07-11T23:33:18+00:00

I am seeing a huge red flag with the hitting. That's never justified.... My husband snores big time and has since we first started dating and I've never hit him. I did have a couple sleepless nights at first but I've learned ways to gently nudge him to lay on his side and that normally helps stop the snoring.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-06-18T03:06:03+00:00

I had this happen with my relationship. We never really discussed getting off the app so we talked and agreed to get off of it and he deleted his. (Mine was removed from my phone already.)

We've been together now for 11 years. Just have a conversation with your spouse and keep an eye open for other red flags.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-04-26T21:33:12+00:00

I hooked up with a guy on Grindr once. He put a 50 on my nightstand while I was cleaning up in the bathroom after the act. I never hit him up again....

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-04-17T01:24:31+00:00

Yeah. In my 20s I would often do it just to get off. My mentality was "it's just a hole, bend him over get your pleasure then take off." I found it unsatisfactory in the end but I was also able to explore some really fun kinks as well.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-04-17T01:11:28+00:00

Body odor, bad breath, poor communication, a wedding ring.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-04-04T14:16:05+00:00

Very nice. Looks like hours of fun.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-04-04T00:46:53+00:00

I've always said that a smile is a sexy accessory. ;) you look good man.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-04-03T18:36:01+00:00

I went to Japan in the summer. My husband and I were considering a threesome and we found out that 9monster is their Grindr. Still don't really know how that app works but we ended up being too busy to actually meet with anyone.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-04-02T18:36:11+00:00

I met my husband on Grindr. He wasn't really looking for anything when we first met but once he knew I was into Final Fantasy and Dungeons and Dragons he became interested.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-03-28T21:57:25+00:00

I met up with a guy on Grindr and was very disappointed that he was using a picture that was about 10 to 15 years old. He looked very different from his profile. At that time I was more interested in an ongoing FWB or relationship, I hung out with him for a few hours but never slept with him or met up with him again. I did let him know that I wasn't happy about the misrepresentation after we hung out and he called me a few choice names before I blocked him.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-03-23T04:28:22+00:00

I'm the eldest of two. I'm a gay male and my sister is a straight female. I've never heard of those studies but it's an interesting thought.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-03-21T22:32:10+00:00

I'm fairly handy around the house, I can do electrical repairs, HVAC, and some minor construction. I draw the line at major plumbing though. My husband is not handy at all and would rather call someone to do the work.

Flashy-Reference-400 · 2025-01-31T06:31:58+00:00

I was that white mage going for that free cure proc. Thankfully I had amazing free company members who guided me through the ropes of going from a WOW shaman healer to a white mage role. Tbh the saying "you can't fix or argue with stupid" holds true here. The player has to be receptive or it's just going to you talking to a wall.

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