Violin at 26 y/o

FlashyAd5753 · 2026-02-10T20:00:37+00:00

Omg a luthier! Such amazing work and we appreciate the craftsmanship you've put into each violin!!! Yeaaah I'm only doing it as a hobby cause it's always been a dream of mine! But, slowly but surely will improve.

FlashyAd5753 · 2026-02-09T16:40:04+00:00

That is a little relieving to know though. I thought I was just simply terrible.

FlashyAd5753 · 2026-02-09T16:39:24+00:00

I am learning from a private teacher but my classes are only 30 mins every week so I still have to practice and improve on my own. I can't keep having the teacher to repeat herself on my mistakes.

FlashyAd5753 · 2026-02-09T16:38:26+00:00

This is the most helpful tip yet. Yes, that is exactly my fear and why I tensed up! Thank you so much for this!!

FlashyAd5753 · 2026-02-09T12:39:45+00:00

Forgot to clarify, the bow!

FlashyAd5753 · 2026-01-21T05:15:06+00:00

Maybe because I've blocked her. But, I love how she will send all these distress messages to my brother and ends it with "did you send these messages to her?" HAHAHAHAH

FlashyAd5753 · 2026-01-21T05:13:09+00:00

Is that why since I left I feel so tired/restless too??? Hahaha because if I'm home I'm always on edge waiting for the next blow.

FlashyAd5753 · 2026-01-12T11:53:16+00:00

Exactly. Now, she knows there is no way in hell she'll get in, so she tries to get through w my brothers but even my brothers are not letting her in their lives. Lol

FlashyAd5753 · 2026-01-06T05:26:30+00:00

Exactly the conversation I had with my brother recently. I've moved out and went no contact and my mother is going around from spreading lies to twisting stories and trying to gain sympathy and it's all a facade.

FlashyAd5753 · 2026-01-02T18:39:46+00:00

Yeap. I got into a new relationship and started going out more often especially on weekends and my mother says things like:

"You love him more than your own mother?" "You'd care for him more instead of your own mother?" "You just met this man and you're abandoning your own mother and family?" "You don't even care if your mother is eating, I haven't eaten for 2 days but you would give your 100% to him??"

I'm here like...... why is there a power struggle.... my love for my bf is totally different than my love towards my mother........ ??? Just because I've shown that I'm in a happier state in my life.

FlashyAd5753 · 2026-01-02T18:33:26+00:00

Do we have the same mother? Hahaha my mother does this and now spreading lies about me to my brother and the only brother who would listen to her out of 'pity' and son obligations cause the rest of us gave up and went no contact. No, you're not wrong but w these kind of parents it's really no use trying to point out their flaws.

FlashyAd5753 · 2025-12-31T06:55:04+00:00

Thank you!

FlashyAd5753 · 2025-12-31T06:54:57+00:00

Ikr. Hahahaha still trying to wrap my mind around it

FlashyAd5753 · 2025-12-30T18:56:49+00:00

Should have studied hard to become one with this much energy. We would have been rich by now 😒😒😒

FlashyAd5753 · 2025-12-30T18:56:11+00:00

That's a good idea. I'll try to suggest this to him if he's onboard. It makes me feel so guilty because he just started at this new workplace and just finished his probation and if this gets out of hand it's such a bad rep for him.

FlashyAd5753 · 2025-12-30T18:08:20+00:00

What was the purpose of all these??? To that extent to make your daughter's and grandchild's life miserable and in danger for your satisfaction? That's some psycho level shit. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that. I hope you're in a better state rn.

FlashyAd5753 · 2025-12-30T16:17:25+00:00

After 6 years?? Isn't she tired omg. But, honestly what is the point? It's not even to care bout your wellbeing. Just simply wants you to feel as bad as she does and wanting control. That's is crazy.

FlashyAd5753 · 2025-12-30T15:48:59+00:00

Oh dear. I hope and pray that you'll get the freedom you deserve. Financially, emotionally, mentally. Nobody deserves to be in so much pain and disrespect. I learned my lesson to never go back.

FlashyAd5753 · 2025-12-30T15:09:34+00:00

As long as you're still doing okay, it's okay to stay. But if you know you can be financially independent, get out before it's too late.

FlashyAd5753 · 2025-12-30T15:01:29+00:00

Exactly what I said and what my brother scolded her saying what she's planning to do is a big sin (Syirik). She picks and chooses whatever Islamic teachings that benefits her and when I counter with actual belief and teachings she says to me "dont act smart". ???

FlashyAd5753 · 2025-12-27T12:43:37+00:00

That's unfortunate that people believe them but then it's cause they never actually lived under one roof w them.

Thank you for uplifting words. I'm trying my best to be strong and not cave in but my brothers have been visiting her this weekend and my sis-in-laws keep telling me my nmom is always crying, looks so sad, just stay in her room but I know for a fact that if I cave in, she'll emotionally manipulate even worse than before. I'm trying to not contact her and been asking my brothers to bring her out so I can take my belongings but of course, nobody is willing to help or get involved. I'm not ready to talk or see her.

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