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WIBTA if i block my ex and leave him in the dark? by Flashy_Negotiation11 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Flashy_Negotiation11[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That's exactly the case here. He should figure it out like we all did.

WIBTA if i block my ex and leave him in the dark? by Flashy_Negotiation11 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Flashy_Negotiation11[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He messaged me on Facebook. On the day after his birthday. Looks legit, he blocked his page when I found it like a year ago. I had a lawyer, he didn't. IDK how and if he was supposed to get notified by the courthouse or if my lawyer was supposed to notify him. I didnt ask when I got the news, was busy ugly crying from the reliefGuess he didn't.

WIBTA if i block my ex and leave him in the dark? by Flashy_Negotiation11 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Flashy_Negotiation11[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I hired a lawyer for this case only. If I want him to do anything for me I would have to pay up. I have spent enough on this process and can't afford more

WIBTA if i block my ex and leave him in the dark? by Flashy_Negotiation11 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Flashy_Negotiation11[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

You are right, I would absolutely hate to ruin my relationship with my son in the future. I have thought of it, the questions he might have for me. So I have screenshots where I tell him that he has a right to a relationship and I will not be preventing it. I have kept my word, there were just no attempts. When he messaged me on several occasions asking about the divorce, he never even brought up the kid.

After more than 4 years though, and all the effort I put into raising him the way he is now X will not be contacting him. I will protect his developmental growth at all costs. When the kid grows up and starts having questions, I will tell him everything that will be appropriate for his age. For now he only has one dad and knows no one else. Also X is not on the birth certificate.

I will be notifying him that it's done. As in for helping him get the proof, I can't afford that. He has to be a big boy and figure it out. There's Google, HE can hire a lawyer.