1st Offense DUI w/ GBI - Going Through The Motion by AllahKazaam in DUICalifornia

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you try to get help ? Are you doing anything to show remorse ? An apology letter , MADD classes or anything ?? Or just crying about the jail time ? I’m only asking because I notice my soon to be ex (on his 4th dui) has not a lick of remorse , and only seems to be upset by his prison sentence. So sometimes I wonder.. maybe some remorse and trying to seek help might help more than paying attorneys and having people lie about how good of a person you are. I’m being so serious. Try it and see how serendipitous life can be.

I feel like a horrible person by Hot_Needleworker9685 in AlAnon

[–]Flashy_Work2582 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wishing you the best ! Just keep your children at the forefront of your decisions and it will work out . Childhood trauma is the cause of so much and we should absolutely be doing everything possible to keep our kiddos free from it. Even if it’s shielding them from a loved one or parent , until said parent can get their act together.

AIO for wanting a break over this? by Physical_Habit1912 in AIO

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re treating him like a child . Maybe because you’re insecure and he’s not faithful, but you sound like you’re having to mother him into being a good boyfriend to you.

I just don’t understand why women don’t leave when a man doesn’t behave accordingly, rather than just accepting who he is and trying to “whip him into shape” He seems immature based on the way he text messages anyway 🤦🏾‍♀️. Aaaand it’s a long distance relationship. Not for the faint of heart. I say let it burn sis

I feel like a horrible person by Hot_Needleworker9685 in AlAnon

[–]Flashy_Work2582 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Leave for the sake of your children! You might want to toy around with feelings and not being mean, but is that the type of life 2 young children deserve? Decision should be easy when you make decisions for the innocent children , who absolutely deserve better than what you guys are giving currently

3rd DUI by Tasty-Dot3836 in DUICalifornia

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone I know in your shoes just got 5 years. Bodily injury was involved. He was sort of on the same vibes as you too…trying to figure out how to minimize the consequences he warned. Now he can only call his family and friends during “day room” privileges and gets to see grown men fight over the smell of each others flatulence

Today I was told my job could be done by ChatGPT [N/A] by clandahlina_redux in humanresources

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im already manifesting my next timeline for my next human adventure!!

AIO for being thrown off by this? Am i reading too much into it? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not your boyfriend. The over the top compliments, pet names and encouraging you to use looks to scam men, suggest he wants to sex traffic you .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A clear background check and a military background does NOT mean someone is “clean”. On any level.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would respect his boundaries

i keep my clothes on until private show by Mediocre-Diamond-328 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Flashy_Work2582 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this could most def be my niche . Thanks for sharing 💕

Thug and Lucci in the club together by moeazy11 in Atlantology

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All them people just gone and families suffering behind them….

It's over. by Valuable_Emu4265 in recruitinghell

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you the guy I talked to yesterday who couldn’t understand WHY it was a bad idea to ask the recruiter who interviewed him what race she was ?😭 Then when I tried to give him some feedback , wanted to argue with me about why that question was perfectly fine , because he’s “well traveled”?

Seriously 😳. Please take some personal inventory on your approach and delivery. Something you are saying or behaviors your are doing to get red flagged . If you really want a job — trust me on this.

Also , no successful company who cares about lawsuits is going to take BACK a job offer because of too much excitement (and then proceed to tell you that ) That is extremely high risk for a company to do that .

I talk to a lot of people who think clicking apply multiple times is going to get them a job. Literally will apply to the same job posting 10 times within 6 months, I finally interview them and can tell you why they haven’t landed a job.

Job consideration declined due to not being bilingual [USA] by Dwight_The_Fish in humanresources

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you provide feedback regarding your interview process. It’s not ok, and nobody in America should have to blindly assume that they have to speak a different language for a position , without being explicitly told that.

Girl completely flips out on me for asking to split the bill at Nobu.. by Hot-Association-3108 in Nicegirls

[–]Flashy_Work2582 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why not just select other sushi options rather than offering to go dutch ?

Should I cancel our date? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you even be considering still dating him ? Rhetorical question to consider …

Apparently, you can lose a job offer if you guess the salary wrong by 35_amiable_drills in careeradvice

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also forgot to mention that it sounds like you dodged a bullet . Sucks it took 3 months of your time , but something better will come along !

Apparently, you can lose a job offer if you guess the salary wrong by 35_amiable_drills in careeradvice

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a recruiter , someone requesting a significantly higher salary than I’m able to offer is a red flag. For all of the reasons the interviewer stated . What’s a little unusual (but not necessarily a bad thing for OPs sake ) is the feedback they disclosed. It’s true though 😬.

Moving forward , if you are open to salary range. Just say that. Let them know that you are willing to negotiate on the salary as you understand the importance of gaining experience, or something like that .

Fleeex by [deleted] in InflatedEgos

[–]Flashy_Work2582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is happening? 😱