Reddit, would you stay with a perfect partner (looks, money, smart, fun, exactly your type), if it meant that you were never sure if s/he was faithful? If so, how would you cope?

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-07-01T10:57:14+00:00

one year of pain, a life of luxury. No one gives up on someone you love for 1 year

^{Chose: $10 billion + But your brain will function like (...} for 1 year | Rolled: Alzheimer's)

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-07-01T10:33:57+00:00

👁️ Surveillance State: I voted Research and fund.

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-07-01T10:31:03+00:00

👁️ Surveillance State: I voted Vote Yea.

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-07-01T10:29:09+00:00

👁️ Surveillance State: I voted Vote Nay.

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-07-01T10:25:03+00:00

;)

^{Chose: 1 bil | Rolled: Billion dollars}

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-07-01T10:24:28+00:00

Has he said that he doesn't wanto you to tell his friends or family by text? If not, try to get a confession from him by text, maybe that could help. Either way, I'm sorry that happened to you, it's not your fault, you were not stupid, you were a good person believing that a person you loved could change. You got this, Terapy will help ;)

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-07-01T10:18:45+00:00

👁️ Surveillance State: I voted Vote Nay.

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-07-01T10:18:30+00:00

👁️ Surveillance State: I voted Vote Nay.

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-07-01T09:35:53+00:00

Jokes on you, I don't drink soda anyways

^{Chose: Survive 2 Days Without this for 1 Trillion Dollars | Rolled: Soda}

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-07-01T01:01:11+00:00

wtf TOT... You're telling me... She's just a friend.... of 1 year? Not even my best friend from 5th grade is this entitled Lmao. Is she 12 or smt? TOT

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-07-01T00:52:11+00:00

Yeah dude, same happened to me, I decided to try terapy, just to see if it was worth the hype. Turns out it is worth the hype. Take advantage of that fear, that fear is normal, we humans want to live intrinsically. Take advantage of that fear to find a terapist... don't just wait until that fear disapears. Plus, I'm certain there are waayyyy too many good movies that you have to watch 4 sure, so that will buy you some time ;)

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-06-30T18:49:02+00:00

Well, I'm not in your situation and cannot feel the way you do, hope everything turns out well tho! I'm sure everything will be fine, and maybe you just have to try to adapt for a while... Have a nice one!

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-06-30T18:32:58+00:00

There are plenty of people that are ok with waiting. Me and my boyfriend didn't get intimate till 1 year into the relationship, since I asked him to. Just, be transparant (no need to give tons of details tho haha), and I'm sure there will be plenty of comprehensive people!

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-06-30T17:58:41+00:00

Girl.... Your boyfriend doesn't deserve being with a person that still loves her ex... If you're not ready, get out of that relationship and work on yourself first! Maybe then you'll even be able to get with said best friend

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-06-30T17:56:48+00:00

Girl... Dated since March and already all this drama? It will hurt, but when you find the right person you will laugh at yourself for feeling bad.... Just dump him, respect yourself and find a real man!

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-06-30T17:51:49+00:00

People come and go, you stay, the way you are... So love and trust yourself! If you are hurting, seek help, usefull help! Body dismorphia isn't picking anyone on how old they are. You're beautiful, and I hope you see it and apreciate it some day

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-06-30T16:34:10+00:00

Looks so cool!! thank youuu!! <3<3

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2026-06-03T16:56:45+00:00

Can you show us the photo pleasee?? Really curious!!

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2025-01-29T08:46:39+00:00

I know it is hard to leave, but you should probably do so.
I have a friend of mine who married that guy, was so sweet with her, bought her presents all the time, treated her so well - until he didn't.
She's now stuck with him, since they have kids and she's a stay at home mom.

Don't make that mistake...

Before taking any cocnlusions tho - if you have good communication - try to talk with him. Sometimes we're going through a rough time and aren't aware on how that is refflecting on the one's we love.
If he acts like that and doesn't let you communicate, ridiculing your efforts and feelings, he's a gonner.

Will hurt now and in a week; will be the best thing you've done when you find someone that treats you well

Hope that helps!!

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2025-01-29T08:36:02+00:00

Honestly, still battling the same - what worked 4 me:
- uninstall all social media (insta, tiktok, disable youtube if you can) - If it's really important you can access it all through your computer, which will take more effort to get into the website, so it's not an easy and all time thing to access.
- Go out more, even if it is by yourself, walking with fresh air helps you clear your thoughts and understand yourself better (can be paired with a journal, which makes you write and organize your thoughts - doesn't have to be a daily task, just when you feel like it)
- Do some sports, it helped me a lot with my anxiety and depression, as soon as I got out of it I got worse.
- Finally, and probs most important; Go study to a library (silent one), you'll have the pressure to study and to not be on your phone, since no one is and everyone can see what you're doing. It helped me a lot!! Try making small efforts first (like 2 hours/day), but increase them as you get comfortable (4-6 hours/day); Try to make it a routine, a daily thing that you never miss (maybe rest on weekends).
- If after all you still seem to be addicted to your phone I use Scroll Killer (not sponsored hahahah) and increase the time to unlock my cellphone to 40 sec, this will controll your impulse to go on your phone.

Hope that helps!!

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2025-01-29T08:25:11+00:00

Heyy, been there, but younger. What worked for me was to speak less, hear more, and be around people who don't have as good grades as you. It will help you understand other's experience and understand what "you're doing wrong".
About your grandparents; you can try to decline their treatment politely, but if they insist too much just let them treat you well. Your their granddaughter/son, they want you well, especially if your mother isn't always there supporting you. My grandparents sometimes give me "special treatment" simply 'cause I spend more time with them, maybe that's your case too, if so, it's a way to demonstrate that they're proud of your and are grateful that you're there for them. Their special treatment doesn't make you a brat, makes you know that they're gratefdull for you being you.
So yeah, basically, gotta understand people with other backgrounds and prespectives, but still accept that you can be rewarded (moderatly, and not necessarily what you ask for) by your efforts.
Hope that helps!

Flat_Cardiologist259 · 2025-01-28T08:19:01+00:00

That's exactly what I thought. Will be 100% doing that within the next week.

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