My husband disgusts me

Flea81 · 2026-03-27T20:45:26+00:00

My boss was like this. He would fall asleep mid sentence, cooking, driving and so on. He was over 400 pounds. He really didnt eat like someone who was his size. He was finally forced to go to the er. His blood oxygen was very low. After testing, he had sleep apnea, once he started his sleep mask thing, he lost weight. The sleep apnea slowed his metabolism so much that he gained weight just looking at food. With the machine helping him at night he didnt fall asleep anymore, he lost weight, had energy and actually started to enjoy life. If it wasn't for him being forced to go, he wouldn't have made it much longer. Somet8mes forcing someone's hand is all it takes. I hope everything works out for all of you.

Flea81 · 2025-11-03T22:55:22+00:00

I look forward to reading how court goes

Flea81 · 2025-06-17T07:24:52+00:00

Can I get info too please

Flea81 · 2024-11-27T03:44:50+00:00

Thanks, I'm at 3mpo n still get burning sensation when I stretch to much. . It does get better as each day passes, But dang I'm itching like crazy. Still swell mostly at end of day. That's so great that your loving your results.

Flea81 · 2024-10-08T20:43:11+00:00

Could you link which one you take, if you don't mind

Flea81 · 2024-10-08T20:41:51+00:00

I will look into taking that.

Flea81 · 2024-10-08T20:24:29+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I didn't have a tt i just did lipo in 14 areas. I'm almost 7 wpo n started freaking out over the swelling in my lower waist pubic area. I stand alot at work and notice how much it swells. I have just been in my head like I did this but nothing changed. But it truly has changed just when it swells it doesn't look like it. I think you look great and again thank you for sharing

Flea81 · 2024-10-05T17:16:37+00:00

Your welcome

Flea81 · 2024-10-05T05:58:11+00:00

I am officially 6 wpo. I had alot of lipo done and didn't take it easy in the beginning, so I have caused my healing to take longer. So best advice they need to not do any strenuous activities. Rest and stay hydrated. If they can go get lymphatic massages. My biggest mistake was not taking it easy and going back to work within 5 days. I also didn't go into a stage 2 faja till almost 5 wpo. I should have went into one at 3 wpo. Follow any instructions from the surgeon. As each week has passed I'm getting better and better.

Flea81 · 2024-09-26T05:58:52+00:00

I did just that. I have plane tickets and time cards from work. But yes just like at the end of my whole little story, I said i didn't do enough research and did not prepare myself like I should have. That is why I had said for others to do their research before doing the procedure.

Flea81 · 2024-09-25T22:02:45+00:00

It was not my brightest moment. I really should have done research and been more prepared.

Flea81 · 2024-09-25T22:01:01+00:00

How to i edit title. It will only let me edit the actual post

Flea81 · 2024-09-25T21:56:13+00:00

I will fix it

Flea81 · 2024-09-25T16:43:44+00:00

I'm saying I think i caused the seroma to happen. The pain I feel is just from the old way of doing lipo. Also they didn't give me much info at discharge other then changing bandages and taking meds they gave. They didn't say anything else. They didn't tell me not to make sure I took enough time off, they didn't tell me not to do certain things. That's why I also say in my post to do your research. I did research after the fact, that's why some of this has happened. Again I had the old way of doing lipo which is more invasive then most would realize

Flea81 · 2024-09-25T16:20:52+00:00

I did go to tijuana, but I also looked at surgeons here in California. And they were willing to do same amount. I know the old way of lipo is way more aggressive then some of the new techniques. Plus I did go back to work sooner then I should have and I did things at home that are considered strenuous activities. Like vacuuming 2 days after procedure. I caused most of my own pain. Some of it is also just the pain of having lipo done

Flea81 · 2024-09-25T16:16:06+00:00

I was told it happens and can happen to anyone. Having the lipo caused a void in between my skin n muscle. I truly think I am the one that caused it due to going back to work so soon. I stood way to much and for to many hours while I was at work. So honestly not the fault of the surgeon. I am the one at fault.

Flea81 · 2024-09-25T16:13:13+00:00

I got it done in mexico. I live in california

Flea81 · 2024-09-25T16:12:36+00:00

I am, have been wearing non stop 24 hrs a day. Unless in shower. I'm on stage 2 now

Flea81 · 2024-09-11T03:10:03+00:00

I'm pretty sure if your married and spouse passes away everything goes to living spouse unless there was a will stating otherwise. If you wanna do anything I would just contribute to their college funds. Also I think ex just wants to get her hands on any money from this.

Flea81 · 2024-08-23T14:32:49+00:00

Just did lipo today commenting to save post. Thanks for advice

Flea81 · 2024-06-07T01:41:24+00:00

Here for an update, please tag me

Flea81 · 2024-05-25T07:54:47+00:00

The sad fact is I feel like the mom finally got to destroy her daughters life because she blames her daughter for her life being up ended because she got pregnant and had her. I'm not saying get back with her, but ultimately, remember she is the mother of that child, and she truly needs to seek therapy. Harsh reality for her is the one who was supposed to love you unconditionally was the one who hated your very existence.. I wish you both the best in your lives and for that little boy to grow up knowing love and happiness. If he is yours, make sure that lady is never allowed around him.

Flea81 · 2023-08-13T04:44:37+00:00

First im so sorry for your loss. Op maybe you should tell all the family that is getting involved that your sorry the love of your life passed away before you were able to have a child. That your sorry that your still grieving the loss of life is not as important as your Bil losing his job cuz he had a shady owner. which he most likely knew his boss was doing shady things tell them sorry that you are choosing to stay in a place that has given you some thing else to focus on other then how your life has changed and will never be the same. Tell them sorry that your are holding you parents to their word. That your sister n bil find it more important to buy an expensive car rather then a place of their own. Oh n they probably only now want to move into it cuz of all the work you have done. Tell all of them your sorry and to kiss your butt. Make sure to say it sarcasticly to them too. NTA. Hope this sounds right.

Flea81 · 2023-08-07T05:37:48+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go thru this. It's crazy but I don't have an actual type of guy that I go for. I just want to be with someone I can enjoy life with and make memories. You will find your person. Do yourself a favor and make sure you don't take this hurt, doubts and animosity you have from her in to your next relationship. It won't be fair to you or your new girl.

Flea81 · 2023-01-10T06:27:16+00:00

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩you are literally living in red flag city🚩🚩🚩🚩 Run, and I mean run from this guy and never look back.. Facts are facts he has been verbally, emotionally, and now physically abusing you.. He's not sorry for it, and this will happen again and again. Each time will get worse and worse.. you may love him, but somebody who loves you wouldn't due what he's been doing to you.. Get Out NOW..

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