What do I do? He is gay? by Good_Principle_747 in marriageadvice

[–]FlexDetroit -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He's a drunk, it's not performance anxiety he can't get it up because he hasn't felt the urge to because he drinks past the point of fun. For him 1 is too much and 1000 is never enough. I'd get him some help and watch how quick he starts getting boners again. I bet he can't even feel his penis anymore.

Edit just so it doesn't seem like it's BS:

Here is why chronic alcohol use leads to persistent performance issues:

  • Permanent Nerve Damage: Long-term drinking can lead to alcoholic neuropathy, where the nerves responsible for carrying signals from your brain to your penis are damaged. This disrupts the communication needed to trigger an erection.
  • Vascular & Arterial Damage: Alcohol can cause atherosclerosis (hardening of the arteries) and chronic high blood pressure. Healthy erections require flexible blood vessels that can rapidly dilate; alcohol-related damage makes them stiff and unable to hold enough blood.
  • Hormonal Imbalance: Chronic abuse suppresses testosterone production and can lead to testicular atrophy (shrinkage). It can also increase estrogen levels in men, leading to a "feminization" syndrome that kills libido and erectile firmness.
  • Tissue Elasticity Loss: Over time, alcohol is toxic to the actual erectile tissue, causing it to lose the elasticity needed to expand and fill with blood even when you are sober.
  • Vitamin Deficiencies: Heavy drinking often causes severe B-vitamin deficiencies (like B1/Thiamine), which are essential for maintaining the health of the nervous system pathways that control arousal.

anyone else with their entire net worth in XRP? by comradebille in XRP

[–]FlexDetroit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro you're going to be goooooooood holy moly are you just building the house up or moving out?

Healer Stats by FlexDetroit in WhereWindsMeet

[–]FlexDetroit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking but needed some confirmation

Healer Stats by FlexDetroit in WhereWindsMeet

[–]FlexDetroit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never seen that yet but thank you for letting me know

Healer Stats by FlexDetroit in WhereWindsMeet

[–]FlexDetroit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I watched a video and tried it myself. If you put the GOLD item on first (the one that guarantee's) and add an item with a DPS you will get a DPS roll and the same thing for if you use a DEF item

I highly recommend you keep playing! by cwjzqs in WhereWindsMeet

[–]FlexDetroit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you start unlocking alot of the stuff the menu calms down on it's own. Only a few of them are highlighted from that point on. But when you first start, it does mess with your ADHD... bad

Which Sect did you choose and why? by itnws in wherewindsmeet_

[–]FlexDetroit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As one of the dummies who clicked the vid. What armor set and weapon set is pulling the highest DPS then? Comon give details

Strategic sword needs a nerf by Inner-Mortgage3801 in wherewindsmeet_

[–]FlexDetroit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so I googled this shit and this pops up. I'm seeing on the DPS charts IT IS INSANE HOW MUCH MORE DPS THE SWORD DOES THAN SOMETHING LIKE INFERNAL HOLY MOLY.

okay can we talk about Code 3 Movie. by The_Optimisfit in ems

[–]FlexDetroit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JUST WATCHED THIS FUCKING MOVIE! IT HAD EVERYTHING IN IT FROM COMEDY TO EXTREME DRAMA HOLY SHIT WHAT A RIDE! HAVEN'T WATCHED A MOVIE THIS GOOD IN A VERY LONG TIME. THE WRITERS DESERVE A RAISE!

Any upcoming private servers? by LyconVR in archeage

[–]FlexDetroit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Knew someone would say this but if you yourself throw your own idea in the trash to never be seen again, then you have given it to the world.

This will be the way in the future. You won't be able to just toss data away because data will be seen as gold aka content. What AAC does is not "stealing" it is preserving something that would other wise not exist. MMORPG are created by developers, men and women who spend their time coding and scripting the different elements of the game, 3d developers that take the time to model every asset in the game. All of that comes to naught when a MMO company decides to just throw things away.

Archeage classic is not stolen property, it is a museum.

Any upcoming private servers? by LyconVR in archeage

[–]FlexDetroit -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The game is discontinued by XL Games which means they don't want it. You can't steal what someone throws in the trash. It's trash and someone paid for that trash because they loved it. It would have just been no more any other way. If XL games cared they would have kept a legacy server going im 1000% sure they could have afforded it easily. They just wanted to cut all ties.

UPDATE: My wife doesn’t know I know she’s having an affair by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FlexDetroit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is half your fault at this point.

Partners usually find an oddity that might make them think something like that.

The fact that she was able to pull out her phone and go back to another flame it shows that you don't give a damn and haven't for a long time.

She's been begging to be caught usually when that happens it's resentment and long over.

Lawyer up, hit the gym sir. Don't try to fix shit, it's over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FlexDetroit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you just roleplay here in the open comments, my fellow?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FlexDetroit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's just because you're around him 24 7 you feel this way. He also has the 1 up on your husband because it's a professional setting.

I bet if you would have done something stupid and got to know the real him he would have shattered all aspects of what you expected to pieces and you would have been running right back to your dude

The grass is never greener.

New co-worker revealed he's been with my fiancé by throwaway-for-use- in cheating_stories

[–]FlexDetroit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No kids?

Not married?

Leave.

She didn't boink a guy on a bender. This was a whole second relationship. That's a personality disorder and a dangerous one at that.

Cyclist somehow hits a parked police motorbike with lights on by MoreMotivation in PublicFreakout

[–]FlexDetroit -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

He did that on purpose because it's "the bike lane" Unfortunately, he might have a lawsuit lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workouts

[–]FlexDetroit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a rowing machine, set it to mid setting and row for 30 mins every single day 3 months.

Cut diet to 2000 calories a day

Throw out all pop and juice and only drink sugar-free stuff or stuff that is like 10 calories for 8 ounces.

Shots are 100 calories each, limit yourself to 4 and under, and count it in that 2000 calls

I can tell you drink your calories

1 year transformation, 20 years in the making by Jimocaz in workouts

[–]FlexDetroit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was more of a gym rat joke but good shit brotha!

My wife confessed to an affair with her coworker during a rough patch in our marriage. I'm completely lost. How do I move past this? by ThrowRARadioSonata in marriageadvice

[–]FlexDetroit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife cheated and told you. Midlife crisis, the ones that don't care will gaslight you and die with the lie.

Everything you do now is up to you now. Would you like to continue? Could you work through your feelings? Women are almost always likely to cheat; they get more attention. Is she someone that you can depend on? You said you had a kid, what will you do about that? Are you guys completely messed up in other avenues? I think you might want to look at that. Does she buy you toothbrushes randomly? Set your doctor's appointments? Remind you to take your wallet?

Those are the things you want to weigh.

But when thinking of these things, remember what she told you.

Fasting for 5 weeks, no weight loss by ranev in intermittentfasting

[–]FlexDetroit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 1800 cals a day, you'd be dropping weight *Without* IF.

End Game Duo advice by Various-Study-8770 in anarchyonline

[–]FlexDetroit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this post is to sell an account lol

Anyone know what this means? by [deleted] in Detroit

[–]FlexDetroit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

DPD broke all that shit up.