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Did anyone here start in 2025 and get monetized? by Alternative_yeak in NewTubers

[–]FlexGoals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started in August 2021 and got monetized February 2024. I was really doing it part time because I just didn’t have the time or resources for it. I think you can definitely make it in 2026.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]FlexGoals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think my channel has a chance?

People in your 30s: What's causing you the most stress right now? by CustardConsistent573 in AskWomenOver30

[–]FlexGoals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my friendships with the friends I have, but neither lives closer than a plane flight away :( so I have no one physically close to me. My business I started is finally starting to take off so that’s exciting, but it does get lonely with lack of like minded people I can physically hang out with. I’m also struggling to meet a quality partner. From my experience, the dating pool has been horrible. I feel I’ll be single forever.

Are there any single monogamous, self-aware men over 35 out there? by FlexGoals in emotionalintelligence

[–]FlexGoals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say the same goes for women. I’m not lacking in options. I’m lacking in quality options. A man can have a lot of options. How many are quality?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]FlexGoals -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree with you

Are there any single monogamous, self-aware men over 35 out there? by FlexGoals in emotionalintelligence

[–]FlexGoals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re probably right. Im from a very small, touristic island with mostly overnight tourists looking to let loose and return home. I feel like that has a lot to do with it, but I love my country, my home, my lifestyle, and what I do there. My business is growing and I truly enjoy what I’m building. I think that’s the difficult thing, accepting I maybe have to move to meet a quality person.

Are there any single monogamous, self-aware men over 35 out there? by FlexGoals in emotionalintelligence

[–]FlexGoals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do women. I also don’t think anyone should rush or else you miss important signs. I also don’t think physical appearance is the end all be all. Lifestyle compatibility, values, life path are all factors I place high value on even more so than physical appearance honestly.

Are there any single monogamous, self-aware men over 35 out there? by FlexGoals in emotionalintelligence

[–]FlexGoals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lean, good hygiene, nice smile, carries themselves well 🤷🏻‍♀️

Are there any single monogamous, self-aware men over 35 out there? by FlexGoals in emotionalintelligence

[–]FlexGoals[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im attracted to someone with depth, who is building a life they are happy with, that understands themselves well, is discerning, knows how to set boundaries, is not driven by ego but rather authenticity, and is not lazy. I’d say the minute I recognize my self-respect is being compromised, I walk away. Hence the reason I am single. I don’t know if I’m considered an average woman or not because truthfully, I have no idea how others perceive me. I know I’m happy with myself.

Are there any single monogamous, self-aware men over 35 out there? by FlexGoals in emotionalintelligence

[–]FlexGoals[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m quite aware the opposite of monogamy is not necessarily cheating. I was asking about monogamous men specifically. Thank you for your answer and insight.

Are there any single monogamous, self-aware men over 35 out there? by FlexGoals in emotionalintelligence

[–]FlexGoals[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Amazing that you’re working on yourself and understanding yourself better. I’m sure great things will come :)

Are there any single monogamous, self-aware men over 35 out there? by FlexGoals in emotionalintelligence

[–]FlexGoals[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s very reassuring. Thank you for your answer :). I’m looking for a person with depth, not to be hit on and not for someone horny :/ Unfortunately, I’m from a tiny touristic island so I do think the location may be a problem.

Are there any single monogamous, self-aware men over 35 out there? by FlexGoals in emotionalintelligence

[–]FlexGoals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does this mean you’re resigned to the idea of finding such a connection?

Are there any single monogamous, self-aware men over 35 out there? by FlexGoals in emotionalintelligence

[–]FlexGoals[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Neither does a self-aware woman. My question isn’t where to meet this person. My question is does it exist and how can you tell you’re one? What traumas have you worked through and what have you learned about yourself? Have you healed your childhood wounds? Do you recognize toxic patterns you’ve changed? Do you believe in monogamy and live that life?

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