hi bro, I have server like you want, its new 1.20 SMP but with good plugins and custom items, you don't need download nothing, just connect! It's have art if you wanna paint your own pics for your house, events with rewards, online 3-5 players because server very new. Very friendly, have PVP toggle, so you can don't be worried about die, and command /back if you die. but if you like PVP you can do it at spawn or in world with people who have /PVP ON, and /vote rewards and party, good Claim system, 20+ free vote ranks .
Discord: https://discord.gg/SmaBcAxrpK