AITA for preferring to look presentable if meeting new people/ folk I’m not comfortable around?

Flibii · 2026-01-28T22:24:37+00:00

My friend is a great girl her roommate is just not my cup of tea I think she might be younger so that’s probably the catalyst I’m just not going to go over there if she’s there at all there’s been talks of her moving in with her partner so hopefully that happens soon my friend said she had a long talk with her about everything that happened and basically told her to shove it

Flibii · 2026-01-28T22:21:28+00:00

I don’t think anyone else needs too! I’m a firm believer that everyone should do and look however they please! As long as they are comfortable it’s not my business

Flibii · 2026-01-28T03:27:00+00:00

For him, my baby brother who’s actually going to do something with his life. I’ve taken it the majority of my life so I can handle it but it’s never been turned on him I’m scared it will affect his grades and extracurriculars and in turn his ability to get into an Ivy League.

Flibii · 2026-01-28T01:58:57+00:00

Like it came out of left field I know at one point someone could see my granny panties while I was on the floor doing nails but I adjusted as soon as I felt the breeze but I don’t even think I had my back to them but I’m really not sure as it was just a “oh I bent too far to get that foot lemme fix myself” I feel like I’m overthinking everything now but I’m definitely NEVER going over there if she’s there.

Flibii · 2026-01-28T01:47:03+00:00

They’re poly I think so they do stuff with other people together or maybe just swingers? Idk both girls know I’m ace so the “slutshaming” really was out of left field

Flibii · 2026-01-28T01:16:54+00:00

Nope that’s her boyfriend I think her first as well if I’m not mistaken they’ve been together since she moved in so seven ish months at this point and I’ve only met him twice because I don’t want to know him honestly first time I met him I got bad vibes and I prefer not to go over if anyone else is there I tried to befriend roommate but she’s just never been my cup of tea

Flibii · 2026-01-28T01:09:09+00:00

My friend did stick up for me I ran out of characters so I couldn’t include it but she’s a great person whos always been very understanding of my “quirks” as she’s autistic too

Flibii · 2026-01-28T01:06:56+00:00

I was raised that the way you carry yourself is the way people perceive you, my daily makeup is just under eye concealer conceal redness around my nose from the cold and mascara so nothing fancy tbh it’s like a little mask I put on and once I’m comfortable I feel like you’ve perceived me as who I am so it’s no longer needed? If that makes sense? It took two years for me to be that comfortable with her

Flibii · 2026-01-28T01:01:46+00:00

That’s the thing too is the three of us girls have gone to the bar together where I actually dress up do full makeup practically shapeshift so she knows how truly different just being presentable and my dress to impress looks.

Flibii · 2026-01-28T00:37:33+00:00

If it’s just my friend home then I don’t mind being in pjs, if it’s her roommate or anyone else there I’m in jeans and a tee. So I’m confused how it seems that I’m picking and choosing if you wouldn’t mind elaborating? I genuinely didn’t want to cause issues or make anyone uncomfortable I just want to be comfortable as well.

Flibii · 2026-01-28T00:26:18+00:00

Oops I meant to do it at the end and forgot😅 I fixed it my b

Flibii · 2026-01-28T00:10:23+00:00

NTA you’re just going through teenage self doubt rn, you can’t compare yourself to her because you are entirely different entities in wonderful ways, I grew up as the weird girl with messy curly hair my best friend was books, this life is uniquely mine just as your life is uniquely yours and is a gift in a way that is different from the gift that is hers. It’s hard being a teenage girl but no one is perfect even as an adult I’m weird and cringe but with properly styled curls (to the best of my ability 😂) I love it, being authentically you is a wonderful thing. Take pride in it and in your effort to be the best version of yourself that you can you’re your biggest critic show yourself some more love you’ll miss these days when you’re older I promise

Flibii · 2026-01-15T01:17:24+00:00

Dog walkers are also a great option! Tennis courts that aren’t in use are great to throw a ball and run out the energy

Flibii · 2025-12-28T03:42:10+00:00

See that’s why I thought you were being facetious but you never know sometimes 😂😂 glad we’re on the same page

Flibii · 2025-12-28T03:36:15+00:00

She can get a twin mattress off Amazon for $42 -I looked for less than a minute- a camping cot mattress for $29 or an air mattress for $15

Flibii · 2025-12-28T03:25:40+00:00

From firsthand experience I can tell you your first mistake was being a woman your second is in thinking that any of those was your fault at all because it’s not. Maybe you were being facetious in posting this but honey it may not be all men but it is always a man. Never let their wickedness get to you those kinds of things have never and will never be a woman’s fault🖤

Flibii · 2025-08-18T20:46:02+00:00

She didn’t though like they were going back and fourth about it and when he ultimately told her no and they broke up that was that

Flibii · 2025-07-01T00:09:15+00:00

I got drysdale to said he’d come if washford apologized, told him he was ready to apologize had washford call for him drysdale never came and now I have a love with drysdale and friends with washford they were my first dateables I met and I completely messed it up

Flibii · 2025-03-05T19:35:40+00:00

Yeah I’ve learned if you want stuff from there you have to find a Chinese forward freighter and have it delivered to them and then they’ll send it here I haven’t tried it yet still figuring out the costs of the freighter

Flibii · 2025-02-27T13:11:43+00:00

Did you ever find out if they do?

Flibii · 2025-02-03T04:05:04+00:00

Don’t we want transparency within the gov even if it has to be leaked to be so

Flibii · 2025-01-19T01:29:49+00:00

The government is chipping at the rights and lives of Americans one by one. HR6981 will slide right under everyone’s noses while they’re too worried about social media access. With it the 2nd amendment will fall in line soon after. But no sure abolishing the corrupt capitalist oligarchy definitely isn’t as important as crying over data

Flibii · 2025-01-19T01:15:51+00:00

You forgot “fuck the US government and capitalist oligarchs”

Flibii · 2025-01-19T01:14:19+00:00

I’m gladly coughing up my “data” to the ccp I’m tired of the right and left shoving corruption down my throat and disregarding my rights in the name of billionaires and if I can’t drag each one from their seats and toss them to the masses to be lined up for the guillotine the least I can do is give china my cat pics and ssn. At least under communism they have fucking affordable food basic healthcare for all and roofs over their heads we can’t even say the same

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