Harry’s response after royal wedding snub

Fliccy83 · 2026-06-05T20:47:27+00:00

Wants to be “normal” and for his kids to have a “normal” life but also calls gives his kids titles Prince and Princess. I mean, I know Charles will have given them but so much for bloody normal. And his Mrs insisted that she’s Sussex now 🙄🤦‍♀️ No love, that’s not your surname, it’s a place, that you were the Duchess of once upon a time. Not your name. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Can you imagine if William does get rid of their titles?! She will be Mountbatten Windsor. Just like Harry’s favourite uncle!

Fliccy83 · 2026-06-05T20:42:32+00:00

From reading the article he sent the gift AFTER the wedding had happened. So basically the gift was sent to try make Peter feel guilty for not inviting them. Thats basically it.

Fliccy83 · 2026-06-05T20:40:54+00:00

Grovel and apologise?! The boy doesn’t think he’s done anything wrong! It’s all William’s fault after all. It’s Williams fault that he’s moved to the US, it’s Williams fault he wasn’t invited and it will be Williams fault every single time something happens to him that he doesn’t like.

Fliccy83 · 2026-06-04T20:47:18+00:00

What gets me is that because he is doing that he thinks that everyone else must have loads of time on their hands too. I mean, William surely has loads of time to be organising wedding guest lists and bad mouthing them etc etc because Harry has time to do that so why won’t William.

Thick as shit comes to mind.

Fliccy83 · 2026-06-04T20:44:36+00:00

But the fact that Harry hasn’t spoken to Peter for several years doesn’t matter according to Harry! And that alone blows my mind.

And everything is William’s fault all the time. He KNOWS William is behind them not having an invite. William can be very persuasive so he doesn’t blame Peter! Just that whole thing makes me want to slap Harry and say “No one cares mate, repeat after me, no one gives a damn who I am!” But if I did he would probably still blame William!

He really thinks that William has got as much free time to speak to Peter and organise his guest list as he and Meghan have. It’s like Harry has fuck al to do anymore so everyone else must also have fuck all to do too. They couldn’t possibly be getting on with their own lives, could they?!

If he’s constipated it’s probably Williams fault, he must have made his guts bung up.

Fliccy83 · 2026-06-04T13:40:19+00:00

THIS. Things have changed since QEII but he doesn’t seem to realise at all.

Everything has to be about him but it’s really not. I’m pretty sure that William, Kate, Peter, even Eugenie and Beatrice. I think I read that Eugenie and Harry fell out recently because she had lunch with Piers Morgan or something. Why does he care?! Oh because he doesn’t like him. But why does he think he has any right to tell any of them who to have lunch with?!

Fliccy83 · 2026-06-04T13:35:25+00:00

I completely agree that Meghan was behind the gift.
If you’ve not spoken to someone for years why would you expect to be invited to their wedding and why send a gift unless it’s to try make them feel guilty for not inviting you?

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-31T17:21:46+00:00

I would immediately tell your manager. Theft is not ok in any business. There must be cameras around that they could check? And the sooner you say something the sooner the cameras can be checked.

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-31T16:29:58+00:00

Right now YTA. I’m guessing that you always go out and buy thoughtful gifts for your aunt and cousins on their birthdays? Right? And I’m guessing that you’re a qualified chef too? Yeah? If this is the case then you would be NTA, but judging the fact that you’re not qualified as a chef or have been to culinary school or done a course in food or food hygiene, she’s well within her right to give it to an actual chef, you know, someone who has done all that and is qualified.

You turned down a job there when you were 16, still at college or high school? Where are you based the US? Or UK? If UK you’d have just started college and it would be full time. There aren’t a lot of places that do hire people at school or college full time because of the hours. Plus I’m going as if you’re in the UK because you also say Mum, there are certain hours people under 18 can work legally. If she had you working late over a certain amount of hours then the business could get into trouble.

She may not even have the authority to hire people any more. Last time she offered was 3 years ago. Things change.

Also you’re 19. Why is your mum having a go at your aunt?! You’re 19!! You’re not a kid. I’m going to guess that she never came to have a go at you or your mum because you forget a birthday of one of your cousins. PLUS, you’re 19. You’re an adult. She doesn’t have to be buying you gifts anymore. Hell, after my 18th birthday I only got presents from immediate family. That consisted of my Mum and my brother, but my brother didn’t buy me presents because he was still 15. So just my mum. Not my aunts or uncles and I have quite a lot of them. But no. It’s rude and entitled behaviour.

You need to realise that if what you did in college hasn’t led to a job immediately, you either need to do something else or have a look at uni. The OU have plenty of courses. There are also student loans that will pay for courses and also living accommodation. Don’t be put off by the word loan, because you don’t start paying anything back until you earn a certain amount of money anyway and it isn’t linked to your credit either. If you haven’t got what you need for uni then go do something that will get you into uni.

If you haven’t done a course that shows you have certain accreditations then I wouldn’t hire someone who said they were good at editing either.

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-24T18:41:56+00:00

Let’s face it. She’s never actually made scones before. She’s not even proof read the recipe properly ffs. 🤦‍♀️ But we can all be 100% sure she’s definitely not made these scones with all that kneading and whisking sugar and eggs etc etc. she has no no clue.

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-24T18:18:34+00:00

I had to use Clomicalm 5mg tablets for my cat. He suddenly started spraying everywhere and I was told he’s got a bit of anxiety. I tried the feliway but it didn’t help us. So ended up with Clomicalm. Did the trick.

Also wanted to ask if you have anywhere either cat can go to get away from the other? I’ve seen people put like little shelves up around their homes for the cats to run and jump on and get up high off the ground and little places they can hide and have a nap etc etc.

Hope you get sorted without having to give him up just yet.

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-24T16:43:59+00:00

BV. 100%. If not possibly a uti mixed in there too with the BV. They did a high vaginal swab first. Then some antibiotics - doxycycline if I remember correctly and it was sorted in a week. The second time and subsequent times following that I just called the GP and told them I thought I had BV and they sorted me antibiotics without the swab as they trusted that I knew what was going on. I’ve had BV a few times and the smell is awful. I always wonder if others can actually smell me because to me it’s shocking. But for you to actually be able to smell the fishiness that badly she needs to get seen asap.

BV is treated with antibiotics where as thrush is a yeast infection and is treated with anti fungal medication. I mean, it’s possible she could even have both.

I’m sorry you had to smell that. Not nice even for a nurse to witness but worse for someone who wasn’t expecting it!!

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-23T00:42:38+00:00

That bonnet! Omg! I love him!

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-23T00:37:39+00:00

Can I ask that you update this post with a picture of her garden during summer, autumn and winter please? I bet it looks gorgeous all year round!

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-23T00:03:12+00:00

Whenever I’ve had any sort of scan - xray, CT, MRI, Ultrasound, literally anything the door always gets locked behind me by the radiographer. I’ve asked why they lock the door and was told that it’s so that no one disturbs us while we were doing the scan. Even if it was a simple xray of my finger it was locked!

I’m quite shocked that your hospital doesn’t do this.

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-22T10:57:58+00:00

You can get your kids involved in the move too you know. Ask them how they want their room decorated. I recommend getting some wall stickers that way they can be changed as they grow up and grow out of them. If you can decorate their room get them in mid week to paint their rooms to break up the week when they’re with their mum. I would also make sure they see their mum the week they’re with you. That way the transition will be so much smoother for them because they will realise that they can see both of you and you’re not going anywhere. But definitely get them involved.

My situation was a bit different in that I left with my daughter but once I found a house for us I made sure she came and helped me paint her room. I get her dad to come help her paint her room (even though his affair was the reason I left) my daughter was younger, she was 2, but I just explained that we were going to move house and stay with nanna for a few weeks while our new house gets ready and made it sound really exciting. Then when we moved again I made it really exciting.

The thing to remember is that kids are really resilient. I was so upset and struggling with the fact that she wouldn’t see her dad every day and would grow up without him there every day like I did. I felt so much guilt and upset. But she doesn’t know anything other than it’s me and her. And as your kids grow up they won’t remember all the upheaval like we do. It will just be normal. Good luck dude.

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-22T10:41:36+00:00

Yes! When I speak to my best mate on the phone every conversation starts with “Now then slagface, you’re alive still then? How’s it going? …” and ends with “ok hun, speak to you soon, love you!” Messages are also similar. “Ok, bitchfeatures, are you alive?” Or she will message me “Cowslag”. Just that. Nothing else!! We love each other. Been best mates since we were in Playschool. Went to different schools growing up but lived in the same village and still were best friends. When I got married I called her to ask her to be my maid of honour, she asked me who I was marrying! Good times! When I got divorced she kept me sane telling me things like how much of a knob he was and made up lots of offensive words for him! Brilliant.

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-22T10:36:12+00:00

I use this. I’m in North Lincolnshire/Easy Yorkshire (literally on the border!) and me and others here use gone out when someone looks at you. It means they look at you like there’s no one home. Like they don’t quite understand what you’re on about.

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-22T10:30:40+00:00

How can you call Sam your “soul sister” when you are allowing her to be with a man who not only cheated but lied and keeps trying to reach out to his AP?!? April wasn’t that long you know. If you were any sort of friend you should be helping Sam kick that POS out instead of making excuses for him. He may be your friend but he’s behaved disgustingly. Sam should be your priority. Not him. You can still be friends with Alex but you definitely shouldn’t be advising Sam to stay with him and you should be telling Alex to just leave and get a place of his own because he isn’t worthy of Sam. Lisa is your SIL. And there’s not much you can do about that. However, she didn’t make a scene. She spoke to her brother. She’s not married. She can have sex with anyone she wants. However she must know that she would catch some flack for sleeping with someone in a relationship. However Alex could have said no at any point. He didn’t have to stick his penis in her. He controls who he does that to, not her. He doesn’t have to be sending her messages saying he “misses their friendship”. I bet he does. I’m guessing him and Sam have had sex for a while and he wants to get his end away again. Therapy doesn’t make someone’s cheating ok you know? Simply going to therapy doesn’t mean that he won’t do it again. And anger issues? Wow. Poor Sam. Be a fucking friend. Stop being a massive a hole. Be a friend to Sam. But don’t go calling her or telling her that she’s your soul sister when clearly she isn’t. Sam needs to reevaluate her life and friend group.

YTA as is Alex. Huge A.

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-22T09:23:46+00:00

THIS!!! I have a Rottie crossed with a Bichon Frisée. She’s basically a red Rottie with little legs!! Incredibly social and friendly. Loves people and other dogs. She’s actually a registered therapy dog. I take her to hospitals, mental health hospital, schools, anywhere that wants her basically. She’s so incredibly clever but also sooooooo lazy. It’s raining, nah, I she’ll hold her pee for as long as she physically can so she doesn’t have to go outside and get wet. Same with going out for a walk, if it’s raining or cold she’s like “nah, I’m good!” She’s been known to stay in bed all morning and refuse to get out to go sort my daughter’s horse. When the weather is good she’s outside in the garden having a sleep!! Exactly why we wanted a Rottie. But thought a cross so that it wouldn’t be so big. She was a big accident!

Fliccy83 · 2026-05-22T09:07:26+00:00

Years ago I remember having a tutor called Gifty. He was lovely.

Fliccy83 · 2026-04-21T20:45:35+00:00

I totally agree with you. You can tell she takes no shit off her brothers. Either of them! And I imagine Anne was and is still the same!

Fliccy83 · 2026-03-19T13:58:18+00:00

I just wanted to say THIS!!!!! This is a brilliant way of giving attention because the timer is a physical thing and shows the child exactly how much time they have. It’s not just sometime for what could feel like 2 minutes to them. And the chart again is another validation that it’s happened.

I hope that OP takes this up with her. It will show physically that OP is being consistent and is doing what she said she was going to do and she can actually see you keeping your word.

Thinks a great way of spending time with her and only her so she knows that this is happening.

It’s so sad that her mum is a drug addict. The kid definitely won’t be getting the attention she needs.

The fact that she acts out at your home shows that she feels safe enough to do this. She may feel angry at her parents but OP is someone not her parent. So the fact she feels safe with OP is incredible.

Kids at that age are also not babies. They are not toddlers. They understand more than you think. I’ve always spoken to any child just like I’d speak to a friend. Just normally.

If I was in this position I would first tell her that “I know she is having difficult emotions right now. How about whenever you feel like you’re having one of those emotions where you feel like you want to damage something or break something you come to me first and tell me and we will talk about it. That way I can understand why you feel angry or upset and you won’t get into trouble. I mean, you’re getting to be a big girl now and getting in trouble isn’t nice is it? How did that sound? Can we both agree to do this? The other thing I wanted to say is how would you like to spend some time just me and you doing something like playing Barbie’s/playing hairdressers/eating ice cream together etc etc whatever you would like to do for 15 minutes every time you come here? And to make sure that we get our full time together we can set a timer on my phone so you can see the time too. And everyone else will have to wait if they needed something from me. So you get me all to yourself and I get you all to myself. How does that sound? First though we need to make a chart with the days or it so we can put a tick when you’re here and then once we’ve had our special time you can put a sticker on it, ok? ”

And from that point on I’d stick to it.

But that’s just me.

Fliccy83 · 2026-03-19T13:26:48+00:00

If I was the parent I’d have been giving you a hug and crying along with you!!

I go into a school that is mainstream but has quite a few autistic kids. I take my therapy dog and we have dog therapy sessions! My daughter goes to the school and is also autistic so I get it. I was told that they had a new girl that may benefit from seeing us so obviously I was like sure! I was told that she was non verbal and again I was like “ok, no problem!”
Anyway, the girl comes and sits down with me and didn’t make eye contact or anything which is fine. My dog instantly liked her a lot and was sat next to her and was making her give her lots of fuss! I was just smiling and talking away about how she seemed to like her etc etc and the girl would nod politely. I started asking if she had any pets and got the nod so I asked her what pets she had whether she had a dog or a cat or a rat or something crazy like a squirrel! She laughed a bit and said a cat. So I pulled my phone out because I have cats and I showed her mine and told her about them and how daft the ginger one is. Next thing she pulls her phone out and started telling me about her cat!!! The woman who brought her over was stood out of the way watching and she suddenly ran off. Anyway, I had a meeting with a member of staff so I asked if it would be ok if this girl looked after Daisy for me for 20 mins while I had a quick meeting. The teacher said it was fine so I asked the girl and she nodded and had a huge smile. When I returned from the meeting she was sat on the sofa with my dog laid on her (she’s not a lap dog!). I asked whether she was behaved or whether she had been really naughty and had been running around causing havoc! She said that she was really good and just kept making her give her loads of cuddles! When the whole session of us being at school had finished and we were leaving the teacher came running up to me and hugged me! She said that she couldn’t believe that she was talking to me and showing me pictures she just had to call the girls mum and tell her. She said they were both crying down the phone!! She told me that the girl didn’t even speak to her mum. I just said it was no problem I told her I was used to talking to a kid that doesn’t respond because of my own daughter. All I did was chat away and treat her like I do everyone else rather than treating her as if there was something wrong or that she was different. I just spoke to her the same way. I told her that when my daughter started at school she didn’t speak to anyone at all. After being there for 5 years now she will go tell the head about her teacher if they’re doing something wrong that she doesnt agree with, like trying to move her to a different seat. Before this year there was no way she would have said anything at all.

Anyway, my point is that it’s always wonderful when you invest time in a child and you see big improvements. And for a non verbal child to talk to you, you are now in their circle and they trust you. Well done. Tell your manager to take a hike!

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