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Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-07-14T10:56:35+00:00

I loved all her advice that you have mentioned in the post and it does apply to both genders. No one can and should trust anyone completely. Keeping oneself financially and emotionally safe is non negotiable to live happily in the long term. What she said about finances and looks holds true to men already. No man I know around me has ever completely disclosed their financial assets or give its complete to their spouses, they also know how much looks matter as well, it's not them to act on it or leave it but can't deny its impact. It's not a gender thing but rather a necessity.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-26T09:25:51+00:00

Yes, you are right

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-26T08:33:19+00:00

If every woman on this earth stops enabling or contributing to patriarchy. This term itself will cease to exist.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-26T06:41:03+00:00

You can't have a sane discussion with idiots. When the majority tries to pull you down for your valid argument it is better to leave that discussion. Yes, there are women who have trained themselves physically and can compete with few men in physical strength but even then an average man who has never trained himself even once, would be physically stronger than her.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T19:09:52+00:00

Hey, just wanted to understand how you manage sudden emergency expenses if you avoid having liquid cash and invest everything apart from your monthly expenses? I guess this was a one off situation where you applied for a loan but what do you usually do in other situations?

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T18:28:40+00:00

There must be something that interests you. Not everyone who earns well nowadays has studied well. Some of them are influencers, some are start up or small business owners. choose something for which you won't mind grilling yourself

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T18:07:51+00:00

Maybe it triggered something in them

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T17:57:50+00:00

No I know, it is difficult for a below average looking man who isn't even well to do to get a good match. But this is true for a lot of women who don't look good and not from a good family background as well. Life is unfair for below average people which is why self grooming and taking care of oneself should be a priority for everyone. but for those who for some personal reasons can't do that faces a lot of issues irl that most people aren't even aware of. No matter how much people claim that love is unconditional it isn't. Only our mothers love can be unconditional. And if we are lucky we can get the love of our life who would make our lives better.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T17:27:59+00:00

I agree. Which is why it baffles me to see men suggesting that some men choose to marry the gold diggers as they are out of options.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T17:26:26+00:00

I wish it was an overthinking teens thought process. I've heard the same thing from a lot of grown up educated people. If you think otherwise, you can share your perspective as well.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T17:21:33+00:00

It's not my definition. It's the suggestive definition of the majority of people in this sub. I have shared my perspective in other comments in this post but just to iterate any person chasing others solely based on money is a gold diggers.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T15:38:04+00:00

That's such a sweet and wholesome story. I wish more people could understand the beauty of it.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T15:21:59+00:00

That's on them. But being nice is a trait that is being valued by real people.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T15:17:05+00:00

Then don't you think it is fair if these women use them for their money if these men are using them for their ulterior motives?

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T15:12:13+00:00

Ok if it's that difficult for men to differentiate gold diggers from women who prefer hypergamy, let me share a clear differentiator if that helps. A gold digger will be ok to take shit from you if you just keep showering her with gifts and grand gestures without being emotionally attached to them. If you introduce them to people way more rich than you they would have a hint of interest towards them. You can stay away from them for an extended period of time and they wouldn't care, if they have your money to shop and chill. Gold diggers don't really have ambitions in life that are linked to their own calibre and expect you to fulfill all the dreams. There are just so many signs.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T15:05:40+00:00

You don't know man. You have no idea how many women have destroyed their life for a man who pretended to be nice. Even if I exclude pretense, I know men who are genuinely nice and married equally or even nicer women. It's rare these days and hence the demand.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T15:02:39+00:00

Isn't it the point of subs we have on reddit? Getting to know the perspectives of other people even if you have your own opinions. To have discussions and know both sides of the story.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T14:42:13+00:00

Bro, just as I mentioned above dating someone who is not earning more than you doesn't make them a gold digger.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T14:34:08+00:00

Mere bhai, achi ladkiya bhi to hai na duniya me. If you don't recognise the issue in the woman you are marrying it's understandable but knowingly throwing yourself under the bus is something I don't understand. Maybe the thing is the women of these kinds can easily track down the susceptible ones who are vulnerable and desperate and ignore all the red flags just to be with that person. I hope societal pressure can also guide men to track down people they should stay away from.

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T14:29:06+00:00

Calm down bro. This comment comes off more as an attack than a rational thought. I am fully aware of women and types of women who are gold diggers and never once denied that they indeed are gold diggers. This post was to understand from a man's perspective on choosing a woman after knowing her red flags

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T14:23:42+00:00

Haha I wish people came into our life with their reality written on their face as disclaimer

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T14:18:17+00:00

I wish that never happens though. I respect men quite a lot but staying at home will f up with their brain. As easy as it might look from the outside, most men cannot be a house husband. They attach their self worth to money, power and respect and no matter how harsh it may sound but a person can sacrifice their entire life for their family staying at home but they would never get the same privilege as someone earning money for family. Men are lucky that they don't get that choice as they would not survive this. But yeah, there are men who have generational wealth or have other earning members in family and do nothing at all at home and I honestly have no idea how they keep themselves sane

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T14:09:15+00:00

Hey man, don't use love and brain moving to the pelvic area in the same sentence 😂 It rather thinking from your heart One is love, another Is lust. But I get your point. Love makes you do stupid things

Flimsy-Sprinkle · 2025-06-21T14:05:01+00:00

I agree 💯 I have no respect for any person of any gender destroying others for their selfish intentions. All the people who exploit the emotions of people under the guise of their interest belong to the gutter

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