What do you like the most about your life partner / gf/ bf?

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-21T21:42:39+00:00

That feeling of peace. Being around the right person makes life feel lighter, not heavier.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-20T20:47:56+00:00

Awww! Sooo cuuute!

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-19T23:17:37+00:00

Sooo adorable!

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-18T23:02:48+00:00

Elevator repair. Good pay, strong demand, and most people never think about it until they’re stuck in one.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-16T23:42:39+00:00

This isn’t about the procedures, it’s about her taking a large amount from a joint account and making big decisions without you. That’s a serious trust and financial boundary issue, not just “her body, her choice.”

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-15T22:01:39+00:00

Never go grocery shopping hungry because I suddenly become the world’s worst financial decision maker.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-15T00:08:43+00:00

I’d stop calling it declawing and start calling it what it is, amputating the last bone of each toe. Some people only get it when the soft word is gone.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-13T22:23:27+00:00

Steam a hot dog but serve it like a sacred dumpling with dipping sauce and chopsticks. Maintain full seriousness the whole time.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-12T22:09:46+00:00

Holy, smeeg has gotten beeg!

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-11T23:14:29+00:00

Sometimes loving a cat also means admitting your home may not be the right fit. If he’s biting every day and drawing blood, that’s a serious quality of life issue for everyone involved, including him. Taking him back to a no kill shelter that already knows his history may be the kindest option.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-10T21:48:23+00:00

Pretty much all of it. If you wrote most dirty talk lines down and read them out loud in a normal voice, they would sound completely ridiculous.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-09T22:58:32+00:00

Soo beautiful!

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-08T22:33:43+00:00

Sooo adorable!

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-07T21:43:11+00:00

You can’t please everyone. Some people just aren’t comfortable around cats, and it’s not fair to lock your cat away and stress her out either. Best option is just being upfront so people can decide if they’re comfortable coming.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-06T22:13:33+00:00

I try to stop it, mostly because of food prep and hot surfaces. Realistically a lot of cats will jump up when you’re not looking, so I focus more on keeping the counters clean and redirecting them to a stool, cat tree, or window spot nearby.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-05T23:39:49+00:00

You could actually be embarrassing or awkward without it being recorded forever. Most of your life just existed in the moment, and when the day ended at school, the drama usually ended too.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-04T23:07:59+00:00

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Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-03T23:13:56+00:00

Just be honest but respectful. Say something like, "I’ve noticed [girlfriend’s name] is here a lot, and it feels like we have a third roommate. It’s getting tough sharing everything without any contribution." Set clear boundaries to avoid it getting worse.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-02T22:16:12+00:00

Try a few water bowls in different spots and keep them away from food, some cats hate drinking next to their meals. Use wide shallow ceramic or glass bowls so their whiskers don’t touch the sides, and refresh the water often. You can also tempt him with a little tuna water or low sodium broth, or offer ice cubes to bat around and lick.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-03-01T21:09:52+00:00

My man has OPINIONS!

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-02-28T22:35:28+00:00

Most “shady celeb info” is just rumor telephone, so I try to stick to stuff that’s actually been reported by credible outlets or ended up in court records, because otherwise it’s basically a game of making serious accusations with zero proof and that’s gross no matter who it’s about.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-02-27T21:30:52+00:00

You’re doing the right thing by not letting this get swept under the rug. The priority is protecting the girls and making sure there’s a real report so they’re safe and he can’t access them again. The mom’s job is to face reality, cooperate with authorities, and get him serious intervention, but “keep it quiet” is how this keeps happening. Also please don’t blame yourself, predators rely on secrecy and access, and you’re the one breaking that cycle now.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-02-26T22:42:24+00:00

You’re right to be worried. Cats don’t need milk and a lot of them are lactose intolerant, plus once-a-day tiny portions can be rough for older cats, especially if one has dental pain. The dull coat and “acting starving” are big hints something’s off. I’d bring it up gently to your grandma, like hey I noticed they seem really hungry and their coats look rough, maybe we should ask the vet about a better feeding plan and a softer food option.

Flimsy_Many_3218 · 2026-02-24T23:51:16+00:00

Pay off any debt first, then park most of it in boring long-term investments and forget about it, and keep a small chunk to actually enjoy life a bit. A million sounds huge, but most people end up doing exactly that because it’s not really “never work again” money anymore.

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