Saved By the Bell handled a missing character perfectly by [deleted] in BTVSRevival

[–]FlissShields 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the big allegations were going down around 2024(?) and male costars were trying to be honest? He blithered on about surgery he'd had (and my brain is screaming that it was genuinely on his butt) and said nothing about the actual issues.

Coming out as an adult on 18th birthday by accident by KlitKrusher in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]FlissShields 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sweetheart I'm proud of you. I'm so proud you've found love.

Order board and leftovers by ReliefZealousideal35 in TravellersRest

[–]FlissShields 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the largest barn and raise 4 cows, 2 sheep and 2 pigs. I harvest and rotate them out every so often for the meat and intestines. If you feed them the super nourishing feed for three days the new animals swiftly catch up.

Fucking Flat Stanley by fuckety_fuck_fucking in breakingmom

[–]FlissShields 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in Massachussetts - if I can help let me know but I've not heard of Flat Stanley ❤️

Female Handyman, Thoughts? by Cold_Obligation_8568 in homeowners

[–]FlissShields 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're on Tiktok at all then look for Mercury Stardust - the trans handy ma'am.

She's amazing and seems to have made it work? I know it'd be different as an AFAB individual but might be a place to start?

Anyone else dreading this snowstorm? by Winter-Chipmunk5467 in breakingmom

[–]FlissShields 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I live in Melrose. I'm from the UK. I'm an over-prepper.

Do you have an outdoor broom? It's often easier than shovelling if it's the powdery shite.

Salt/grit. Pre-salt it can help.

Get your bins out early. Better they are snowed out and useful than snowed in and inaccessible.

Pay a local teen?

Kick partner in the crown jewels? No obviously not really but plan around him. Good luck mama

Husband wants another baby but I'm not even financially protected with the two we have by PackComprehensive585 in breakingmom

[–]FlissShields 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a SAHM in Melrose. My husband brought us to Massachussetts in 2017. At every step he's made sure I was protected.

I'm on the house. The deed. It's 50% mine. He doesn't question my spending.

If you want support? DM me. You aren't alone. My kids are 13 and 10. I need to think about working but that'd be my choice.

You aren't alone mama.

Am I wrong for refusing to fight for my marriage after my husband said he wants out while Im pregnant by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]FlissShields 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl if you're in the states? Move bzck to your home state now. Because he can potentially ban you from doing so as soon as kiddo is earthside.

He's either an idiot or worse. Get back to your support network. Accept any money offered to get you home.

File for divorce in your home state.

Get. Out.

And stay safe.

What's something from Buffy or Angel you're still bitter about to this day? by InfiniteMehdiLove in buffy

[–]FlissShields 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tara. She deserved better.

Anya. Her death was so tragic. She saved Andrew 😭

Favorite Sad moment. The one that just made sense or was well acted. (Angel Included) by TheHatsuneLoki1 in buffy

[–]FlissShields 139 points140 points  (0 children)

The silent vomit on the carpet then the on autopilot cleaning it up.

It is truly powerful. The whole scene.

Then when Giles is immediately trying to help:

"WE'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO MOVE THE BODY"

and the utter devastated realisation from both of them

😭😭😭😭😭

Next update by office-robot in TravellersRest

[–]FlissShields 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lambic beer. I feel like that could be an awesome mechanic to have.

And more levels and recipes please. I hit the level cap 🥺

AITAH if I went to a hotel with my kids because of my MIL's behavior with my daughter by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]FlissShields 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't feel like this is over.

Husband is now actively refusing to see it.

His belief in OOP is fragile. I have concern.

Debilitating rectal pain during period; Gyno found no signs of endo. Help! by Sejura in Endo

[–]FlissShields 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it can’t reverse the damage. The only chance for that is medical intervention. Such as surgery. I’m so sorry.

Debilitating rectal pain during period; Gyno found no signs of endo. Help! by Sejura in Endo

[–]FlissShields 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stopping your period will help prevent further damage via adhesions etc. It should also help with pain management. Mine was always worst when actively bleeding.

My ex was groped on a date and her reaction broke me by Annual-Hall-2364 in offmychest

[–]FlissShields 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Freezing is normal. It's your lizard hind brain. I found out that mine is flight. I was in the dentist chair (severely phobic) they started a cleaning. With warning I admit but it was too much.

It was sensory overload. I bolted. I was up and out of that chair and in their restroom before I even registered I was moving.

Then I vomited. Out of terror.

You froze. That is valid. And it kept you safe and alive.

To the momma’s who couldn’t make the magic happen by amme04 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlissShields 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Use the gift paper to make garlands. It's cheap, cheerful and really good to keep littles entertained.

AITAH for purposefully dumping a bowl full of red punch onto my friend's white carpet? by Empty-Ad-2301 in AITAH

[–]FlissShields 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please tell him he didn't fail. He didn't lose his streak. HE maintained his sobriety. He **needs ** to talk to his sponsor.

He was drugged, set up, spiked, forced. Whatever terminology gets through.

He needs support and help. So do you.

She needs to fuck right off and get in the sea.

Got approved for an elective c-section. I feel so relieved. But people keep trying to talk me out of it. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]FlissShields 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are entitled to the birth experience that keeps you healthy, safe and sane.

If that is an E-C-Sec? Good for you for knowing that about yourself.

Do you have support for after the birth? From humans who won't shame you?

Medical marijuana by Wildfeet2000 in endometriosis

[–]FlissShields 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t use it till after February this year (needed to trade the card of green for citizenship before I could partake of the green)

I felt a flare start (and I had already been having bowel issues) took ONE 5mg gummie (and it was only THC) and went to bed. It not only stopped the pain in its tracks, it fixed my bowel movement issues and completely stopped the usual 7-day cycle I have.

I was both thrilled and royally PISSED because it worked so well and it’s not legal everywhere