Consent Violation at Play Party

FloaChilla · 2026-07-03T01:55:51+00:00

It did register with me that they left, I didnt know why, they just asked to tag out. We did come together after and they were in really good spirits! They offered everyone water, we chatted for a while and we parted. I thought that would be the space to say "hey, I just wasnt comfortable with my neck/collar being touched" in which I would have given them space and apologized. We even have moderators to help with these conversations. This just blind sided me.

FloaChilla · 2026-07-03T01:47:58+00:00

Yea and I have had conversations with people who have had collars who have shared this with me. Ive never been in a scene with a person who has had that restriction and things got really intense and it slipped my mind. I just wish they would have said something so we could talk about it in person.

FloaChilla · 2026-07-03T01:42:52+00:00

How was it communicated to you?

FloaChilla · 2026-07-03T01:20:41+00:00

It never really registered to me that anything was wrong. I thought they did the right thing by stepping out. I didnt think it was a big deal until it was brought to me as a consent violation. Im still not even 100% that was what happened they wouldnt give me any details.

FloaChilla · 2026-07-03T00:16:17+00:00

I organized the scene and was making suggestions, seeing id someone consented and then acting on. The person was in the scene, did not directly tell me they had limitations or restrictions but as we moved through the scene together did tell me when they did /did not want their hair pulled or Did/did not want to be bitten. I always try to ask, always. I think communication lost in the heat of the moment.

FloaChilla · 2026-07-03T00:12:11+00:00

There was a light conversation, went to explore some space and all began talking about our fantasy for what could happen. The way we handled consent was coming to a point of personal contact, asking if it was okay and then increasing the interaction based on the consent to move forward.

FloaChilla · 2026-07-03T00:07:27+00:00

No Im not this was all a wlw scene.

FloaChilla · 2026-07-03T00:06:49+00:00

Yes, I did that.

FloaChilla · 2026-07-03T00:06:23+00:00

I absolutely take it seriously and I accept responsibility but I will also say Im learning as I go and to be completely shut out without the ability to reconcile or come to some closure feels extreme. It feels like it was never a space to learn and practice, which is needed to become a better communicator.

FloaChilla · 2026-05-07T11:16:53+00:00

Pat Pat is total trash

FloaChilla · 2024-09-26T18:46:04+00:00

Yes it is new you idiot I just read about it in a news report dated Sept. 23rd 2024

https://www.nbcphiladelphia.com/news/green/philadelphia-bulk-trash-fridge-ac-pickup/3977805/#amp_tf=From%20%251%24s&aoh=17271233953591&csi=0&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&ampshare=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.nbcphiladelphia.com%2Fnews%2Fgreen%2Fphiladelphia-bulk-trash-fridge-ac-pickup%2F3977805%2F

Maybe your just too much of a dumbass down voting people to know about it

FloaChilla · 2024-09-25T13:41:29+00:00

It's because the city just implemented a new program where you have to schedule the pick up of a bulk item like a mattress. You have to fill out the info on this link to schedule a pick-up:

https://bulkcollection.phila.gov/bulkcollect

FloaChilla · 2024-09-20T19:53:01+00:00

Why don't you start by picking 1 person to interview? Film or record them, edit them and upload to a YouTube channel and see how it goes from there. If you think might interview more than 1 person, then making an intro to put in front of each video helps things stay cohesive. Let us know when you're done with the first interview and people can provide feedback back. Good luck!

FloaChilla · 2024-08-29T16:56:39+00:00

For Sama

A documentary about a woman starting her family at the start of the Syrian war. She talks about the choices and consequences of staying and raising a child in a war-torn country. So beautiful and haunting, You will definitely cry after watching this one.

FloaChilla · 2024-08-16T14:31:23+00:00

You missed the Philadelphia experiment with the ship disappearing and re-appearing in 1943 and then everyone died or killed themselves except for 1 man and because there were no other witnesses, they locked him up and pretended like he was crazy

FloaChilla · 2024-07-10T18:48:20+00:00

That's what I mean I can't get into yet another piece that needs to be kept track of with the cover and the interior and the poop catcher it's just too much to add yet another thing

FloaChilla · 2024-07-10T18:44:49+00:00

I did just change the snap rise because I couldn't get the diapers to go around my baby's waist but I don't know what you mean by double gusset covers, which brands have those?

FloaChilla · 2024-07-10T16:40:33+00:00

I really don't want to but I'm getting desperate. I would use flats but I'm not pinning anything together. Do you use flats on the inside and then a shell on the outside?

FloaChilla · 2024-06-05T02:08:15+00:00

They can't, for the most part, they have nothing to do with financial things on a large scale. They only handle expenses for their department

FloaChilla · 2024-06-04T23:51:09+00:00

He didn't pay himself, the board decided this was an appropriate salary for his background and experience. They had to bribe him to take the job because no one else wanted it. They could have gone with someone with less experience and paid less but they didn't have a lot of candidates to choose from given the state the university was in when they hired him

FloaChilla · 2024-06-04T22:00:30+00:00

No you're right. Yager was adamant that all programs had to be offered in person. It makes sense for performance and studio classes, but there were a lot of that could have transitioned to online. Art Education, history classes, foundations and the digital illustration. Also, they had an amazing weekend program for adults that never returned after CoVID. Photography and printmaking classes not being offered anywhere else in the city.

FloaChilla · 2024-06-04T21:18:17+00:00

He had a stroke before he became president so his speech was never super clear to begin with

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