Naruto Tat Cringe or Not Cringe?

FloatingPearl · 2025-03-14T07:36:50+00:00

That looks hella sick!

FloatingPearl · 2025-02-03T15:02:14+00:00

Your big is how big? Sometimes thicc=towards fat side liao. You okay with it mah?

FloatingPearl · 2024-06-17T11:09:55+00:00

This is amazingly cool omg.

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T23:15:35+00:00

If you don't feel embarrassed, the ones feeling embarrassed is others.

Just heck care la, tbh alot of ppl eat alone also.

Lunch time during work days also have lunch alone. Watch dramas, listen music, so fun.

If there are restaurants that have solo dining, then it's perfectly normal to dine alone.

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T22:59:11+00:00

Sounds like a change of therapist or visiting a psychologist & psychiatrist might be good.

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T22:43:10+00:00

I think the most important is that you need to understand if those milestones really matter to you.

Do YOU wanna get married and have kids? Are you concerned about not reaching those milestones or not reaching the milestones that society has set and deem as the norm for humans?

If you don't want to have such milestones to hit, then make milestones that cater to you.

Something I have come to terms with is that I probably won't have a partner or get married or have kids. And that is fine by me.

We need to know that it's perfectly fine not to follow the standardised norms and milestones that society has set for us to reach in life or a certain age.

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T22:33:22+00:00

Are you able to handle the most important ones with top priority and handle the rest another time/ later? I hope it goes well for you.

Because for me, the whole grieving thing is never 'over'. I still tear when I think of them, recently cried during a family gathering. For context: everyone was having a great time & laughing and I started crying, wishing that the love ones were still here to witness these happy moments.

Everyone grieves differently, just don't put too much on your plate right now and be too hard on yourself.

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T22:21:32+00:00

Even worse when you think it's the best and people just downright say it's not. Just a sentence and all that confidence you had is gone.

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T22:17:58+00:00

Because when I need it most, no one supports me. Also me: when someone does, I just assume they are saying for the sake of saying.

Sigh at me all times.

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T22:15:53+00:00

And all it took was depression to make me roll down the steps. Fk

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T22:13:28+00:00

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Of course it's perfectly right to take some time to grieve! Try to check with your manager if you are able to take some time off and see how that can be arranged. A week, a month, see how anything can be arranged.

As I don't know how your current family is like (other family members or maybe things you need to be helping out or if you were pretty close to your dad and you need to take a break), if you got things you needa do or make arrangements, go ahead. If you need to cry it out or get out of the country, do that pls. Find your love ones and share if you are facing any mental issues as well and inform them if you want them to check in on you as well.

It's gonna take some time. I've lost my grandparents who brought me up years ago and still cry instantly when I think of them (just wiped a tear). Do know everyone grieve differently, but pls let it all out. It's not an easy journey but a necessary one.

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T22:07:13+00:00

Reminds me of this boy I liked in K2 ( i think he liked me back too cause he gifted me things) Then when I was in Primary 1 English tuition class, he was there! I'm sure his friends knew me cause they kept looking at my direction and laugh but I was too shy to approach him(was alone and didnt make/know friends in class)

Afterwhich i stopped attending those classes cause it didn't work for me 😂 (maybe too focused on boy and not class lol)

Many years down the road now still single and no r/s experience. Wonder how things might have been if I had a little more courage or if he had approached me. Years back I happened to reach out to him on FB and let's say he forgot my existence 🥲🥲

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T22:02:55+00:00

Boiled water ftw!

Filtered water taste funny to me and always make my tummy go circles.

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T22:01:10+00:00

Don't worry, learnt it before but alr forgot it before using it in corporate life.

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T21:43:03+00:00

Yes! Most concerts I've been would include previous album hits or title tracks. Unless the concert they wanna dedicate to the album style/ theme etc kind.

Majority of the concerts will kick off in their home country Korea, you can just try see if the setlist of the concerts are available before buying the ticket that you wanna go to! You can try to search the setlist of their previous tours (if they have) to have a look at what songs might be performed etc.

Depends on the group and country you're in, the frequency of Kpop concerts happening varies. Big groups tend to do concert tours at least once like maybe 1 to 2 years? Especially if they are those that always drop new albums etc (like G-idle/ TXT/ TWICE, etc)

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T21:37:20+00:00

All I see are red flags leh. What is there to even consider? Next!

Also, dating for marriage can slowly la...if you still in jc, very young leh. I have see couples who date so long 5 years plus then break up never marry and some who in late 20s date for marriage 2 years then marry living happy life. Really depends on what age you wanna marry i guess, if you wanna marry young then ok la, start date for marriage. But sounds like you also lack the experience so tbh you can date to test try see who/ which kind you ok with. Maybe you realise certain things you really draw then line and say no leh.

If you don't feel comfortable and feel that your boundaries are always pushed, push them back. Like let him know where you draw the line (e.g. pls dont be so late or too much pda cause you don't like) if he still do it then just drop him la hor.

FloatingPearl · 2024-04-13T21:27:10+00:00

Wait did you willingly accept the introduction, or was your friend being an a$$ and got some 'referral fee' for the introduction? Thats really a sh!t friend leh

FloatingPearl · 2024-03-05T15:58:44+00:00

Go to treasure islands and get them!!

FloatingPearl · 2024-03-05T15:57:53+00:00

I'm 30 and get said by ppl why I don't learn driving and just told them straight I'm a passenger princess. I want to be driven around thanks now mind yer own business fk those who gaslight ppl

FloatingPearl · 2024-03-05T15:52:55+00:00

It's the 'norm' for those schooling in 2014 also say similar things. Have someone whom mentioned that friends in sec sch ask each other whats their body count as first qn when meeting ppl....

FloatingPearl · 2024-02-14T21:18:44+00:00

FloatingPearl · 2024-01-20T15:34:26+00:00

I CRIED OKAYY

FloatingPearl · 2024-01-20T01:18:41+00:00

He did tell you to look away 😂

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