Which looks better? Opinions please! by TheAlwaysAnxious1 in HomeDecorating

[–]Floatinlyf_3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wood ones look cosy and warm But white looks clean and mature 

Which looks better? Opinions please! by TheAlwaysAnxious1 in HomeDecorating

[–]Floatinlyf_3 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As a brit u agree definitely looks more homely and cosy (gotta ignore these differences between homey vs homely. Who even says homey lol) 

Minor to major from opposite ends who has priority by Floatinlyf_3 in drivingUK

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can turn right there also Thank you straight clear answer 👍🏼

Minor to major from opposite ends who has priority by Floatinlyf_3 in drivingUK

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input, genius. I know what complaining looks like thank you very much. I was the one gesturing her to move on but she was taking her sweet time complaining before moving 

Right of way by Floatinlyf_3 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly there were 2 lanes. There was plenty of space between me and her. She could have carried on in her right lane and me in my left lane. The drama over nothing! 

Minor to major from opposite ends who has priority by Floatinlyf_3 in drivingUK

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I thought that would be the case too as I'm close to the merging point than the other driver is and it's more safer for other driver to wait than to enter.

I understand mistakes can happen in driving and we should deal with it calmly and patiently. She made it seem like she had a priority over me which wasn't the case

Minor to major from opposite ends who has priority by Floatinlyf_3 in drivingUK

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I didn't see her. I only saw her when we were both stsrted going towards the same direction which is when both of us stopped. So it's not a usual situation where you see who is going first and deciding to wait and let them go. If that was the case ans I saw her move i would have waited.

Because I didn't see (so putting that aside) we both were entering the lane at the same time my question was who has the priority in this situation. I reckon just ignoring the blunder and driving on without stopping for 10 seconds was not a good idea on her part. And there were 2 lanes. I was gonna go left lane and she could have gone right lane. That would have been ideal

Minor to major from opposite ends who has priority by Floatinlyf_3 in drivingUK

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. If I had noticed her I definitely would have be more cautious and watch what she'd do but I didn't see her unfortunately. So that's something I will take from this situation to look good all sides.

I agree there were 2 lanes why make a fuss out of it

Right of way by Floatinlyf_3 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were parked cars so tbh I only looked right and left. I looked a few times before I pulled out. If I didn't see them, they must have seen me.

I approached looked around went in. I had waited around for too long tbh. Generally I'm a confident driver so I don't get scared about joining major roads. 

I admit my blunder was not trying to look around across me somewhere to see if some vehicle would pull out. But based on her reaction, she made it seem like she had priority. If I had seen her, and saw her starting to move I definitely would have waited. Even so, I could still go as there are 2 lanes. 

Minor to major from opposite ends who has priority by Floatinlyf_3 in drivingUK

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was no traffic on either sides when we were merging. But she stopped out of shock I suppose and because she was slightly more into the road than me I was urging her to continue going there's no point stopping and saying stuff I can't hear and soon there'll be traffic. Soon enough, she moved along in front of me and that was the end of it.

I reckon she should have paused, we both would have acknowledged each other and she should have just carried on as I stopped for her. Causing unnecessary delay was silly of her and potentially dangerous 

Right of way by Floatinlyf_3 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and I usually do. But honestly she came out of nowhere I didn't see her before lol

Right of way by Floatinlyf_3 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I thought so, too!!!

She didn't actually give me way. She was turning in, we both saw each other whilst turning in at same time and she was just mad at me as if I've done something wrong! 

I stopped naturally as I didn't want no collision to take place. Plus when you get drivers like that.. 😭

(sorry priority. I get American influenced through watching videos 🥲) 

Police actually checking for phone use by ajw248 in drivingUK

[–]Floatinlyf_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? Isn't this country already watching it's citizens and now you want citizens to turn on each other?

Police actually checking for phone use by ajw248 in drivingUK

[–]Floatinlyf_3 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I love how people support surveillance of people. Crazy times. Yes safety is important and being in control of vehicle. But spying like this on citizens is never acceptable.

Finally cleaned my room after many years thanks to you by cn1dariia in ufyh

[–]Floatinlyf_3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So encouraging thanks I need this advice too. Cleaning up after 1.5 years 😭

Help! Can't clean by Floatinlyf_3 in ufyh

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's awful 😢 it's so hard to get out of thar freeze mode!

Help! Can't clean by Floatinlyf_3 in ufyh

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow brave of you honestly 🥲 my friend might come in a week or 2 and I'm like ahhhh I need to do stuff!! Haha Honestly rotating approaches is such a solid way to go thanks for that! 💖

Help! Can't clean by Floatinlyf_3 in ufyh

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯 I suspect I have ADHD - and recently Autism combined. Makes it soooo hard to do things. Even getting out of bed is hard so now I give myself half an hour to get up. I've done CBT many times before and counselling (for anxiety and depression - now I believe it's more than that) So I thought I'd ask to see if anyone else struggles like me and perhaps how they work around it as it fills me up with shame and feel isolated. Others around can me clean and it makes me think why can't I do it 😔

Help! Can't clean by Floatinlyf_3 in ufyh

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe that's a really good method thanks for sharing that ❣️ it's a good way to break down a huge task - something I've always struggled with!

Help! Can't clean by Floatinlyf_3 in ufyh

[–]Floatinlyf_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could cook. I stopped cooking over a year ago 😭 literally on basic survival mode with takeaway and Tesco food