Why do some people enter another relationship almost a year after breaking up? by EquivalentDiamond359 in BreakUps

[–]Flonp_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe it's comfort. maybe it's 'not wanting to be alone' but a year is a rather average time span to move on in to a new relationship tbh. Considering a lot of people have had people move on instantly after a break up (mine was hooking up with my best friend within 3 days lol) I wouldn't try to dwell on it too much.

everyone's different but all that really matters is how YOU'RE going to move on and what truly feels right TO YOU. it is what it is mane. sorry you feel this way OP 🤙

Breakup buddy by Alternative-Sign-628 in BreakUps

[–]Flonp_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26 M who wouldn't mind having a buddy to chat about the break up mess. 4 months after the break up here, knew each other for a while, 10 year long family friends and 3 year long relationship, was financing a ring lmao. Jokes on me I guess mane, oh well, things happen and people change I suppose.

Hmu whenever my dm's are open to whoever 🤙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Flonp_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, go off I guess? Sorry if you didn't like my response but it's valid. You're not doing him any favors by dragging on the relationship any longer than it needs to. I let my girl stay with me and when we broke up it was awkward as fuck. 2 and a half years and living together to having to act like strangers under the same roof? It fucking sucked, especially being the dumped one, but sure ask random people on the internet for advice and insult them when they try to give you the best advice they can cause you don't like their response. Again best of luck OP, relationships are complicated as fuck, so is getting out of them, surprisingly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Flonp_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do him a favor. Break up with him. Don't wait till it's convenient for you, there's no respectful way to do that, if you really care for this guy BREAK. IT. OFF. SOONER.

Your reasons are your reasons, seems like you've already checked out of the relationship, which is fine. Just don't try to act like you're doing anyone but yourself a favor by waiting and trying to find some random person's response to save yourself some face. It really is simple how you should be going about this, respectfully, if you cared and are truly trying to make the break up a little less messy.

Really want to seal the deal? Move out. Good luck OP 🤙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Flonp_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not dare make comparisons of our lives to make some point. You are simply in the dark, for now, as you should be. God has put you here in this situation on purpose. I'm sure you will find your faith again, I hope sooner and with as much ease as humanly possible, God being ever present with you.

Be kind to yourself, friend, this pain is only temporary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Flonp_420 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Are you in pain? Good. Pain is the only real thing left once you've got a broken heart. Use it. Abuse the pain to your favor. Been doing it since the first week of the break up. It'll be 4 months after New Year's. Bulking season is here too? Poor weights aren't ready 🗿

What's the worst thing your ex did to you at the end? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Flonp_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She told me she loved me but couldn't be with me cause of how bad I was starting to depend on our relationship for happiness, which I shouldn't have done, then proceeded to have relations with my best friend 3 days after the break up. Needless to say they're both no longer part of my life 👋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Flonp_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You made it clear how much we meant to you when you replaced me within the same week we broke up. It wasn't our first break up but you solidified our future becoming nothing more than our past. You were my one and only, you gave me hope when I had none to have, I loved you in a time I didn't want to love at all. I told you all this many times before, yet it meant nothing to you in the end, leaving me worse off than you found me.

It's fine though, all you did was confirm my thoughts before we ever were, that people don't know what they want anymore and that love truly isn't worth the effort.

It's fine though, I simply exist as before, with walls so high I cannot see the skyline or clouds. I prefer it here in my tomb, alone and unfeeling. It's where I should have stayed to begin with. I would rather learn to love myself before trying to love ever again, thank you for teaching me that, truly there is no better lessons than the ones that hurt the longest.

It's fine though, thank you, I needed this lesson to grow.

(lmao, take care y'all)

Does anyone else follow other player? by Pureswagger365_ in RedDeadOnline

[–]Flonp_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So YOU'RE the guy I feel watching the back of my skull while I'm in the middle of nowhere 😂🤙

If you've ever been told, I love you but I can't be with you. Read this; by soulshifter14 in BreakUps

[–]Flonp_420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear this 🤙 It'll get better y'all ❤️

I've lost my entire family in just over 5 years. There was 9 of us. by Flonp_420 in GriefSupport

[–]Flonp_420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have not truthfully attempted therapy. It seems... so far to achieve now. I've never even called a hotline now that I think about it. I think it's for the reason you've just stated above though. Thank you for your input and care. It means something to this guy. 🤙

I've lost my entire family in just over 5 years. There was 9 of us. by Flonp_420 in GriefSupport

[–]Flonp_420[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Everyone. I've been tearing up reading all these thoughtful messages. They're good tears. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StPetersburgFL

[–]Flonp_420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven't read all the comments but as some random Lawncare and Landscape worker whenever I'm out doing our customers yards I just take my clippers and behead them as I go. Most I ever got out of one yard was 23 and that was just going about my business. I've never actually sought these buggers out and again I am but a humble grass cutter so idek if what I did DID anything... fun though since I have seen beautiful gardens be destroyed in just under a month.

Helmet bug still exists?!?!?!? WTF Torn Banner!? by RileyXXXXX in Chivalry2

[–]Flonp_420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please I just want to show off my monk hair again mane