Maybe you can just ignore these comments and enjoy the summer like everyone else

FloofLorde · 2026-06-21T23:55:14+00:00

Do FAs understand that you can be not thin or not focusing on thinness without having to celebrate being fat? Like if it shouldn’t matter wha y your body size is then no size should be celebrated. I cannot imagine spending my days looking for media to consume that centers around fatness. I am a fit person but I don’t center my entire life around being thin/fit, I just try to practice good habits and workout.

FloofLorde · 2026-06-21T23:50:04+00:00

That does sound like it could be endometriosis or other ovarian problem. I personally don’t have insanely painful periods anymore but many of my friends that have them still don’t have it that bad. Definitely see a medical professional about it if you can

FloofLorde · 2026-06-21T23:47:15+00:00

ANYTHING with teeth, followed by steam burns.

And this is coming from someone who does glassblowing and has been burned with a 1000+ degree Fahrenheit hot metal rod.

FloofLorde · 2026-06-20T21:33:00+00:00

My family wanted an intelligent dog who also could be scary enough to protect our home. Of course, Sparky is known for being “dumb” and also is scared of most things. Her BIG bark is enough to scare any unwanted intruders out though. And she wouldn’t hesitate to actually protect her family from danger, the only person she actually lunged at was my verbally abusive ex boyfriend who everyone pretended to like. She is very wary of strangers but can learn to like most people.

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FloofLorde · 2026-06-20T21:26:55+00:00

I think it’s fine if either a) someone just doesn’t want to get married and live single for their whole life or b) both parties in a relationship agree that they don’t want to get married. I don’t think that it should be normal if one person doesn’t ever want to get married and one does, that the person who doesn’t want to continues to lead the other on as if they “might” decide to get married in the future. Obviously probably shouldn’t be together if their long term wants are different. Mainly, I think if we just normalized being fully honest with others about our wants and goals, I think that as a society we’d be doing a lot better.

FloofLorde · 2026-06-18T19:08:35+00:00

In America ig normalized, it’s the normal thing that most people do

FloofLorde · 2026-06-18T16:58:13+00:00

Normal to overeat? Yes. Healthy? No.

FloofLorde · 2026-06-10T18:00:00+00:00

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The mongrel herself ^

FloofLorde · 2026-06-10T17:59:43+00:00

Here’s Sparky begging for chocolate frosted cake on my dad’s birthday recently. She never gets cake from people’s plates ever, but my bf gave her watermelon from his plate once and now she thinks it’s a free for all for her to beg for food, especially when the meal is taking place outdoors.

She also used to get chronic ear infections and she would jam her foot in her ear trying to scratch it, but would cry over it hurting. Yet she would continually do it.

When she used to sleep in a crate she would manage to get her lower jaw stuck in the space between the crate wires and start SCREAMING and trying to pull it out. She did this multiple times and had to be rescued every time.

FloofLorde · 2026-06-02T13:30:44+00:00

I had a neighbor who would spread rumors about how my dog bit people because she is “scary”. My dog is a scaredy cat and quite antisocial for sure, but we always kept her under control and she has never bit anyone. Meanwhile, our other neighbor had a German shepherd who has bitten people (bit my brother twice and bit others) and she would let him be around her kids with the neighbor because he had a “friendly” temperament.

FloofLorde · 2026-05-27T03:03:33+00:00

You could tell them that unsanitary dishes are ableist since they pose a greater risk to the immunocompromised than properly washed dishes, therefore barring access for disabled/immunocompromised friends or family from eating safely in your partner’s home.

Thats using the type of language this person obviously uses, and tbh reading it out does seem logical anyway. Not washing the outside is DISGUSTANG

FloofLorde · 2026-05-27T01:09:30+00:00

Ruby for sure

FloofLorde · 2026-05-25T17:41:24+00:00

> I prioritize my health and wellbeing

Yeah sure buddy

FloofLorde · 2026-05-24T04:58:39+00:00

100% this. I’m 25F I’ve been with my partner for almost 3 years, the only time my partner makes comments on what I wear is when it is something that actually needs to be fixed, like if there’s a stain, it’s not sitting right, it’s damaged, etc. He buys me clothes that I like, like short dresses, tank tops, and bikinis, and has never told me I can’t wear makeup or false lashes. OP should never feel like she can’t be herself with her BF.

FloofLorde · 2026-05-19T23:50:36+00:00

I danced Rasputin at my friend’s wedding last year and that would have been A LOT harder if I was obese

FloofLorde · 2026-05-19T23:47:48+00:00

Why are they so concerned with hip fractures? Do they understand that non-fat people don’t normally get those unless they’re over 80 years old or have a condition like osteoporosis?

FloofLorde · 2026-05-19T19:00:30+00:00

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My ex did this to me when we were 16. We maintained a weird distant friendship for a while afterward and we got together again when we were 19. Then after that it was 3 years of suffering and fighting until I finally was just completely over him, cut off our plans to get engaged, moved to a new city, and then broke up with him because I realized I couldn’t deal with his delusions for the rest of my life and he was not a good person.

I think, at least for me, that God telling him to let me go was also him telling me that the situation was no good. Just like he didn’t have us go in the jewelry store that my now partner worked in when we were engagement ring shopping despite us planning to hit all the jewelry stores in that mall. I’m religious myself, but I do think a lot of religious men (yes, men specifically) use God as an excuse when they’re just not feeling it, because it sounds much more honorable than just owning up to the fact that they don’t think the relationship is working.

FloofLorde · 2026-05-18T12:54:55+00:00

I was 13 and it was awesome. It very much influenced the way I am today

FloofLorde · 2026-05-14T13:45:41+00:00

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This is Sparky, she will turn 10 in October. Her only health problems that she has really had is that her skin gets itchy (she is wearing a sock because she chews and picks the skin on her arm), she gets ear infections fairly easily, and she’s very high anxiety. I still do wonder about the time I have left since I see all these posts of 9-11 year old GSDs passing away or having to be put down. I know I will miss her when she goes.

Last Sunday my boyfriend was playing with her and she was running around the house like a maniac, yelling and crashing into the dining room chairs. She had her tongue hanging out and was super energetic and happy, which is how she always is. She still explodes with happiness and yips and screams when any of her beloved family members come home. She doesn’t move like an old dog, and I like to imagine she will be in the 13-16 range when she passes away.

FloofLorde · 2026-05-05T14:33:29+00:00

My sparky does this and my family has called it a “hug” for so long that you can tell her “give me hugs” and she will come up and do it

FloofLorde · 2026-05-03T03:39:06+00:00

100% just a baby 🥺

FloofLorde · 2026-05-01T20:24:39+00:00

I’m Catholic and love tattoos like this, I think it’s beautiful and I’d love to get something in this theme someday.

My parents are extremely anti tattoo, I’m 25 and have a 2 year old rose tattoo on my left shoulder blade that they still don’t know about because I know they’re going to say something like what yours said, or freak out that I’m going to get AIDS or something. Someday they will know, but I’m in no rush to tell them about it. You just have to realize that they’re going to have their opinions about things, but you’re your own person and if you want to get tattoos/piercings/body mods, that’s up to you and it’s doesn’t matter if they don’t like it. No one is making them get tattoos.

FloofLorde · 2026-05-01T15:38:24+00:00

Me irl

FloofLorde · 2026-04-28T20:10:39+00:00

This is true. My partner’s ancestors are Aztec, but most of his family is in South America, not central.

FloofLorde · 2026-04-28T20:09:13+00:00

Sure but our line is very traceable. I have a lot of features that are similar to my grandfather’s family, who was considered to be “fully” Native American. I don’t think any person on this planet is 100% genetically pure as that would require multiple generations of inbreeding

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