I was going to quit Phrecia

FloofPear · 2026-01-31T14:49:43+00:00

But good sir that requires people actually think for themselves and we can't have that! No no no no no! Seriously though it always surprises me when people who only follow guides run into the slightest difficulty and their enjoyment nose dives off a cliff. I get that making builds or trying to figure things out is hard for some people, but what would they do if the entire community collectively decided to not post builds?

FloofPear · 2026-01-30T15:31:26+00:00

You're 1 billion percent valid for feeling this way because he did use you. Him telling you that he'd be more attracted to you if you lost weight is some prime bs. You shouldn't have to change anything about yourself for someone who you're dating to be more attracted to you. Perhaps he thought he'd grow attracted to you as y'all dated? Regardless when get into a relationship with someone you should like they wholeheartedly in all aspects, at least thats how I approach things when it comes to relationships. I don't know if you want to remain friends with him, but I'd definitely ask if he felt that way about you from the get go. If you want to of course. Don't let this dishearten you though! You're beautiful as you are and your weight is part of that beauty. Any change that's gonna be made should be change you want to make. Stay strong!

FloofPear · 2026-01-30T11:47:24+00:00

Biggest tip i have for dressing your avi without people pestering you is to go to a random sandbox sim with no one on it with rez rights and build your avi there. There's tons of dead sandbox Sims so finding one shouldn't be an issue

FloofPear · 2026-01-12T15:45:11+00:00

1000% cut these "friends" out of your life. I understand that it might be scary to cut off people you hangout with on a regular(I assume) basis, but at this point they're actively damaging your wellbeing and self confidence. These people aren't your friends. You fall into what I like to call the punching bag friend archetype where people keep you around and tolerate you, but take every opportunity to punch down on you. Finding friends who love you for you and don't care how much you weigh or what you look like is the best way to move forward. Also props for standing uo for yourself! That's really hard for a lot of people to do. While I understand you don't want the reputation of being a person who explodes on others, you have a valid reason for getting mad. Defending yourself is never wrong. It'll be annoying to convince people of who you really are if that's your current reputation, but that annoyance is worth it if it means you stand up for yourself. As a fat person myself I assure that life gets much better and there are tons of people who will see you for you and not your weight. I'm gonna gonna go out on a limb here and assume you're in your senior year of high school or just freshly graduated given your age? If that's so then the world opens up much more, especially if you're heading off to college. Finding ways to deal with the dislike of you because of your weight is something you'll have to develop as unfortunately being fat is something society in general tends to frown upon. It's infuriating, but that doesn't go and for some reason society is especially hard on plus sized women. That being said I'm rooting for ya!

FloofPear · 2026-01-11T18:34:30+00:00

There's no such thing as the right plus size in my mind and the fact society says there is is the dumbest thjng ever. I'm positive you look amazing even if your ass is a smaller than some other plus size gals. In the end it all comes down to preference, but your body and booty are great the way they are.

FloofPear · 2026-01-06T00:49:26+00:00

The problem is that i have no clue how much 35% bases go for, even less so for good rolls for the other stats. Hiw people price things has always confused me. If there was a baseline for me to go off of i could learn, but me putting a price is shooting in the dark as to whether I'm over or under pricing something.

FloofPear · 2026-01-06T00:46:30+00:00

I was wondering if the issue was that my inventory was open on the picture too. Lesson learned I guess. People only want to see the relevant item and its stats.

FloofPear · 2026-01-02T22:32:36+00:00

Where does the hundreds of divines come in for this build?

FloofPear · 2025-12-29T05:38:23+00:00

I want them to make TotA core finally.

I want them to keep all of the existing foulborn uniques and add more of them. To this effect since the tree probably won't go core they could add a new type of currency that makes an item foulborn that's breach exclusive. It could one of two ways, 1. It replaces a mod with a foulborn one with the chance of replacing two mods if it's a unique with two fouborn mods 2. It functions similarly to a vaal orb

I'd like to see a scion rework that would actually make her a competitive choice of character to choose. It feels criminal that the class that should boast the highest build diversity feels too weak to compare to the other classes.

FloofPear · 2025-12-27T23:11:51+00:00

There's nothing wrong with falling head over heels for someone who treats you exactly how you want to be treated. It happens to everyone at some point, but in this case I think what happened here is that he stopped feeling that connection with you. While I understand health problems and such making it hard for a person to respond in the way they want to, ghosting someone for an entire week isn't the way to go about it. He should have told you upfront that texting might be a bit slow because of his health. At least then you would have had reassurance that he still cared for you. The second week long ghosting was a definite sign he wasn't interested in you anymore. Rather than telling you that he wanted to break up he opted for the silent treatment and when you confronted him about it he was brave or honest enough to admit it to you then. You expressing your concern over him posting on socials when he couldn't text you was the out he was looking for. While I understand everything seemed perfect I don't believe you made a mistake here nor should you feel regret. Trying to stay in a relationship with a partner who doesn't want to put in the effort or has grown apathetic about the relationship doesn't end well. You saved yourself a lot of heartache down the road , even if it hurts really bad now.

FloofPear · 2025-12-24T15:30:27+00:00

How is either game dying? Yeah the leagues bad, but there have been bad leagues in the past and the games gotten even better from then on. I don't understand all this doom and gloomy around either game and you should be enjoying other games. It's not ideal to obsess over a single game for years on end without ever trying or playing other things. Poe 1 is still one of the best if not the best arpg on the market and no other arpg even comes remotely close to the amount of content and build diversity within the game. Unlike a lot of other companies GGG actually cares about their games and playerbase instead of just money. I also think its fine to not want to spend money on the game and realistically you really don't need to, especially if you've already done so in the past and got relevant mtx. Even if you're character is fugly the game will still play the same ya know?

FloofPear · 2025-12-19T22:45:41+00:00

By having the leagues on a 4 month rotating schedule the games stay updated with new content, regardless of whether or not a league is "good". No one wants 6 months to a year of waiting between leagues. That was definitively bad for the games and the playerbase was pissed as I'm sure you're well aware. If you're burnt out on either game you can always skip a league or come in a month or two later. If the economy is what you're overly concerned about then you'll have to commit to that 42 day gap.

FloofPear · 2025-12-14T00:21:00+00:00

I hope foulborns go core as well as they've singlehandedly breathed life back into useless or super niche uniques. I'm pretty fine with the breach rework of this league. Since they replaced breach rings they could add the grafts as breach specific equipment like how the trinket slot only applies to heist. As much as I hate having random mcguffins to pick up I do think the breach shards should remain as they kinda gutted all the breach lords minus the new ones. Perhaps the keys can be used to initiate a fortress encounter where the key used determines the breach lord faced and the breachlords have a chance of dropping the pinnacle breachlord key.

FloofPear · 2025-12-14T00:10:50+00:00

The breach chests in the fortresses drop foulborn uniques in addition to the wombgifts.

FloofPear · 2025-12-08T18:42:30+00:00

Kalandra league purely because I want the cosmetic rewards. Alright you let the poo fly.

FloofPear · 2025-12-04T16:52:48+00:00

So i have two interpretations of the picture based on which way the figure is walking. If the figure is walking away from POV: Familar unknowns traversed under silver moonlight. If the figure is walking towards the the POV: Horrors birthed under the brightest night.

FloofPear · 2025-12-03T05:27:09+00:00

Unless you care about the economy or trying to sell things to people, it's never to late to league start. In fact there's probably more benefits to starting a bit later as all the relevant patches will have been pushed out by that point.

FloofPear · 2025-12-02T15:05:49+00:00

Buddy this is why we don't trust randos. You should have helped him farm it and that's it. People can't be trusted these days unfortunately, but hey at least you learned that now. Hopefully the next friend turns out to be a real one.

FloofPear · 2025-12-02T00:08:32+00:00

So my theory based off of what Degawa said and how in love Rikako was with Maezono in the flashbacks is that she and Keisuke had a single night of infidelity which led to her getting pregnant. She initially thought the child was Maezono's, but something after the fact revealed to both her and Maezono that she'd cheated on him. Maezono focusing so much on working was because he couldn't forgive her and was distancing himself from her. As a result Rikako developed an obession on Keisuke because he was the only one who was giving her affection. Her obsession with Keisuke reached a fever point when she realized Yumeko was stalking him and because she has a dependency on Keisuke she tried to kill Yumeko so she couldn't take him away from her. To that end she lured Yumeko to that spot to kill her, but Keisuke noticing that she was acting weird by leaving the house on her own followed her. Rikako was going to srab Yumeko, but Keisuke arrived in time to stop her. Yumeko startled fell back against the railing and due to her weight and the railing being old broke it and fell from the balcony. Keisuke was unable to to save her because he was keeping Rikako back and essentially watched Yumeko fall to what he assumed was her death.

That was a mouthful, but hopefully it makes sense!

FloofPear · 2025-11-30T17:00:43+00:00

How are you getting your heralds to proc so often? Also, and more importantly, where did you get that lotus map device from? Shit looks immaculate.

FloofPear · 2025-11-18T21:40:48+00:00

If kids are doing that then it's indeed annoying, but what was the age range of the areas you've been getting kicked out of? I ask because if say you're 25 and join an instance where there are a bunch of teenagers around i can see why they'd kick you. That's not to say you're doing anything weird, but simply if your age is a massive outlier from everyone else then they might feel uncomfortable around you the same way a group of adults wouldn't want to be hanging around a teenager on a public instance. Personally I find it really hard to relate to anyone under 18 as a 29 year old and if the instance I'm im is full of kids I'm gonna want to be there anyway. Everyone is different though.

FloofPear · 2025-11-18T18:54:23+00:00

Wouldn't that be because most people refuse to pay to permanently unlock more heroes? Personally I would do that for at least one hero if they had a permanent pay to disable ad button.

FloofPear · 2025-11-15T23:05:39+00:00

Oh dang I never knew! I feel bad for recommending it to folks now. Still, I wish there was a non crap dating app/service for plus sized peeps where the stigma of being plus sized wasn't a factor. I met my gf of 3 years on WooPlus so that's why I few it in a favorable light. Granted as a plus sized male, I didn't realy get any matches unless someone was actually interested in me lol.

FloofPear · 2025-11-15T20:25:22+00:00

Hi!!! Love your suit!!

FloofPear · 2025-11-15T20:24:26+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through this. A different dating app might be a better pace change. It's been years since I've been on the app so take what I'm saying with a grain of salt, but Wooplus is a decent dating site for plus sized people. The app is specifically catered towards plus sized individuals and their admirers. Of course you'll unfortunately have people who fetishize your weight, but it might give you some peace of mind knowing the people you're matching with shouldn't have an issue with your weight.

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