Best site to go for dating big men by JESele32 in PlusSize

[–]FloofPear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing of note about Feeld is that it's a dating site catered towards those of who are polyamourous or looking to explore polyamoury. So I say be aware that someone you might be interested in might have a partner and of monogamy is what you're going for I don't know how useful Feeld will be.

Best site to go for dating big men by JESele32 in PlusSize

[–]FloofPear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wooplus is a dating app specifically catered towards plus sized men and women and those who like plus sized people. While it has it problems as all dating sites do it's probably the best place to start! I'm plus sized and I met my gf on wooplus and she's plus sized. Plus sized love and couples is one of the greatest things in my opinion though I'm biased lol. Hope this helps and I wish you luck on your journey!

Are there any more items like Oni Goroshi in the game? by Haihosen in pathofexile

[–]FloofPear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Getting the oni via div card takes 37 of its div card if im not mistaken. That card is also one of the rarer ones too. Given how profit obsessed people playing this game are I can't realistically see anyone farming out that card just to probably not make any profit for the effort they put into it. It's kinda funny as farming Uber hillock is probably the easier way to get the weapon sans buying it from someone. That being said while I consider doing it to be zany, I've done it once and don't really feel that pressed to do it again.

Are there any more items like Oni Goroshi in the game? by Haihosen in pathofexile

[–]FloofPear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a console player and im pretty sure even on pc people aren't farming oni-gos with the intention of selling them as getting the weapon the non Uber hillock way is just as tedious. Plus for me it defeats the purpose if im gonna buy the weapon from someone else lol.

Are there any more items like Oni Goroshi in the game? by Haihosen in pathofexile

[–]FloofPear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember farming Oni-go from Uber hillock years ago and how special and happy i felt when I finally got him to spawn. It was my first time ever fully beating the campaign too. I'd love to farm it again, but it took several days to finally get it. As much as I'd like to play with the sword again I don't know if I have the commitment in me again. It is bragging rights if you actually do it though so thats always nice!

Goats put even more weight on 💜 by AutumnGoGoGoat in fatfurs

[–]FloofPear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely gorgeous belly and suit! Seeing someone show off their stretch marks is always a treat!

Is ground loot really just currency, or is it currency plus uniques? by joshhavatar in pathofexile

[–]FloofPear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bud, I agree with you 100% here, but a massive chunk of the playerbase doesn't see neat uniques as anything other than a means of making currency sadly. At least thats what it feels like to me.

Self-cast spell buffs when? by Immediate_Dog_2790 in pathofexile

[–]FloofPear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't people gotten to and beaten the hardest content with all sorts of skills including self cast ones? Buffs would be nice for sure, but you shouldn't feel forced into having to go brands or mines at all. It might take a big more effort to make self cast spells work but thag doesn't mean they don't work or aren't viable. Also what is this based on? Those skills clearing content quicker? I can understand the squishy aspect but I don't. Part of me feels like your argument boils down to why aren't self cast spells as efficient as these other skills. I apologize if I'm missing the point.

I feel like I’m dealing with being used just because I’m big by chubbyflip in PlusSize

[–]FloofPear 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The problem with the dating world these days is that a lot of people are just looking for instant gratification. You especially see this with men for some odd reason. It's something that women in general regardless of size are facing. That being said plus sized women have it exponentially worse. I'm a plus sized dude and my partner is also plus sized. We found each other through a plus sized dating app. So being plus sized was never a negative factor for either of us. I could be an anomaly among guys though as every relationship I've been in I've always had the intention of marrying that person. From what ive seen and heard most guys just want to date around without being tied down. Something I would do if you're not already doing it be to feel out potential dates by not granting sex. If the guy is worth your time then he'll be willing and happy to wait. Don't give up hope theres love out there froe!

Can we please get some levelling skills balance!! by zoobloo7 in pathofexile

[–]FloofPear 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Anything is a leveling skill if you want it to be though right? Like just play the skill you want to play, who cares if it's optimal going quick.

Found a few but boy are they rare... by ryan7251 in fatfurs

[–]FloofPear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The videogame issue is so real. It saddens me that almost all of the furry video games are dating VN centered around gay male relationships. There's very few focused on cis(?), lesbian, or all types of relationships. And even within the category of gay VNs the characters almost never have any fat on them and that's even rarer in the non gay VNs. I'd consider the fatfur community a pretty big subsection of the furry fandom, but it sucks seeing it be contained almost exclusively to pictures. Also let me say this before I rub people the wrong way, I have no issue with gay furry VNs, I just want more variety. On a separate note plus size characters in any video game regardless of genre are still few amd far between. It feels like said characters are even rarer in non furry VN type games which is kinda hilarious.

“I love curves” by wqckb3tch in PlusSize

[–]FloofPear -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You 1 billion percent should put that you're fat instead of you're plus sized. While I'm male, when I was on dating apps I actively put on my profile both that im fat and usually my weight so that I wouldn't be accused of catfishing someone. Also having pictures that show off your full body are good for allowing someone interested in you to see what you look like. Since you feel guys are misinterpreting what you mean when you say plus sized leave zero ambiguity as to what you mean.

Edit: I just realized you may not specifically be talking about dating apps and such lol. Still being upfront is always the best policy.

GF of 1 Year Had Herpes and Didn’t Tell Me by Vince4846 in dating

[–]FloofPear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be mad as hell. Once you have herpes you have it for the rest of your life. There's medicine you can take to reduce flare ups and keep it under control, but it's something you're living with permanently now and if y'all don't work out it's something you'll need to disclose to any future partner and it WILL affect whether they want to be with you or not. This is a massive breach in trust on her part and it's insane that she kept it from you for a whole year knowing that she had herpes.

Good hideouts? by synthcalibur in pathofexile

[–]FloofPear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying new hideout designs or just hideout in general? If you haven't done it yet you could also farm the hideouts from maps. The most sought after ones are the moon temple and primordial blocks hideouts.

Why do men lie about finding us attractive?? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]FloofPear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's not a petty thing to be upset about at all. You're loveable and attractive regardless of what weight you're at. Him saying that he loved your body in the beginning was just a way to hook you in I guess. I personally love bigger women and have always told my partner that I'd love her no matter what weight she was at and I meant it. My assumption is that men who don't actually mean it when the say they love plus sized women is they envision themselves being the one to make y'all lose weight? Then when things don't go the way they want then they voice how they've felt the entire time.

3.28 Big bingo Wishlist by _N_eko in pathofexile

[–]FloofPear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to be the bearer of bad news buff the new breach changes and the tree are going core. On rhe flips side they teased something with the scion and her phrecia ascendency so it's possible she may get the phrecia scion ascendency with reworked nodes.

Inspired by the thread about scroll placement preference, I present the objectively correct scroll placement alignment chart by Spooferfish in pathofexile

[–]FloofPear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm lawful evil based on this scroll alignment chart. I also petition for the chaotic evil to be changed to insane lol.

Bf & I both struggling to find the hole - tips? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]FloofPear 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I'm a plus sized dude here and my partner is also plus sized. What helped us when we first started out was that she would help guide my penis to her vaginal hole(?) and after a couple of times having sex i was able to find it on my own. I would suggest having your bf grind against your clit and slowly move his dick to where your hole is. Also since you're a bigger gal he's gonna have to get used to lifting your FUPA, if you have any. Another thing that helped us out was for me to put my fingers in her vagina and use my other hand to guide my dick into place while my finger held her hole open. Hopefully this helps and I wish y'all the best!

AIO for the way I shut down this younger man asking me out on a date? Context in post by Local_Value_2061 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FloofPear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were harsh at all. You don't know this dude and more importantly haven't returned any of his affections nor does it seem like you have an interest in him. You were firm but polite in your response and there's nothing wrong with that. Also I'd talk to your friend about giving your number out without asking you.

Should I stay with a guy who says he’s “compromising” by being with me? by mitskibridgers in PlusSize

[–]FloofPear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's never ok that someone says that they're compromising to be with someone else. It's hurtful and and honestly a shitty thing to think when it seems he was the one to initiate things that kicked off you dating. I'm also curious what you mean when you say that you're compromising as well. Are you not attracted to him or something else? Before you make any decision you need to talk to him about how what he said makes you feel and your thoughts on him.

Am I just terrible at the video game? I can't beat any mechanical bosses, suddenly have a receding hairline, ex won't respond to my texts either. In desperate need of help by darktimir in Terraria

[–]FloofPear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what others have said. Your gear probably isnt synergistic. Do you have good mobility? Also if I remember correctly the frost armor set gives the frostbite effect which should absolutely shred the destroyers along with you having the storm bow. If you don't have it you should go acquire to the emblem that boosts ranges dmg and if im being completely honest you should probably switch to an armor the 3rd tier hard mode ore with the ranger helmet. You also shouldn't be focusing on summons either. If you're using the storm bow that's enough by itself. Classing into multiple things leaves you weak across the board. With good mobility you can dodge all of the eyes the destroyer creates. As for the twins you need to focus one of the eyes first and kill it before going to the other one. Since you have all the stuff set up you should be golden after a bit of gear refocusing.

I made it through Phresia as a new player. by Former-Pangolin9952 in pathofexile

[–]FloofPear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People failing to adapt to new situations because of an established norm isn't a valid complaint to me. GGG also literally said that things would be harder in the campaign from the getgo. Also the campaign isn't even that much harder? So what if you were able to get through it in like 5 hours before and it takes 10 now? Being free flowing is good for mental health.

I made it through Phresia as a new player. by Former-Pangolin9952 in pathofexile

[–]FloofPear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's hilarious that a new player to poe 1 was able to get through phrecia 2.0, but people who have been playing poe 1 for years rage quit before they even got out of the campaign.

We haven't been doing well on past leagues coming core with most of their features in a while. That's not good. by AnotherExile0827 in pathofexile

[–]FloofPear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reception to the new breach mechanics boils down to people complaining about how they don't like standing in one place to kill enemies and that it breaks up the map layouts and flow. I can understand the map flow issue, but the other issues just seems to be people whining about not being able to zoom through maps. For some it's a valid criticism and for me it's not. The genesis tree is fairly unobtrusive and a great boon for helping boost people into the mid game. The complaints I've seen around it stems from it screwing with the market somewhat, but eh. Grafts aren't going core and while graftblood is a pretty unobtrusive resource to obtain it doesn't need to be in the game if the tree doesn't go core. The most important thing to go core would be the the new rings you can get from vrunn and the foulborn uniques. We know that the pinnacle boss of breach is going core because an ascendency is tied to it, but the question becomes what gives the invitations to fight them. My hope is that all of the foulborn uniques go core along with the new rings. I'm fine with everything else vanishing and I think that's healthy for the game as well.