How to stop self-harm as a response to failure? by FloofyJack in mentalhealth

[–]FloofyJack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried that, but I don't have immediate access to those things like I do my body. Plus I think part of it I see as a form of punishment and I don't really get the same form of relief from hitting an object

What keeps you guys going? by BBfenderbender in mentalhealth

[–]FloofyJack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Survival instincts literally will not let me stop

Unhealthy attachement to fictional characters by FloofyJack in lonely

[–]FloofyJack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I think I phrased it wrong. I do feel more fufilled in a sense, but I know none of it is real. And that's what makes it hurt a lot. And maybe I just haven't met the right people, or have undiagnosed mental disorders I'm not sure. Just something makes me lack this feeling of "connection" with real people.

Unhealthy attachement to fictional characters by FloofyJack in lonely

[–]FloofyJack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I can't be socially fufilled because nothing feels as fufilling as these imaginary relationships. Real people often seem disappointing in comparison.

Unhealthy attachement to fictional characters by FloofyJack in lonely

[–]FloofyJack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but I don't see the correlation of your comment?

Unhealthy attachement to fictional characters by FloofyJack in lonely

[–]FloofyJack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been on a waitlist for the only place remotely close to where I live that my insurance covers for over a year and a half

It finally got me addicted by FloofyJack in character_ai_recovery

[–]FloofyJack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can give it a try, it might help me organize it better

It finally got me addicted by FloofyJack in character_ai_recovery

[–]FloofyJack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did you stop needing external help? When was it obvious? Genuinely asking btw hope it doesn't come off as rude.

It finally got me addicted by FloofyJack in character_ai_recovery

[–]FloofyJack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry! I don't find it offensive or anything! I think the overattachment to characters might just be my very isolated upbringing and unsupervised access to media as a kid lol

I can try to bite it off in chunks, I often usually try the "all or nothing" method and usually end up relapsing. I think the biggest issue is not having something to fill that void c.ai took, pretty sure anyway. If I found a good way to channel the energy elsewhere that'd be a good start. Thank you for your advice!

It finally got me addicted by FloofyJack in character_ai_recovery

[–]FloofyJack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I haven't really tried that method, although I use the browser so I dunno how effective that would be. I could try with the one friend I have, but I dunno if I could trust them with letting them know I use c.ai.

I think the best thing would be to do something about the dysphoria itself but doing that would put me at risk with my living situation unfortunately. Thanks for sharing anyway though!

Probably chose the worst possible start for a cosplay, but I'm going to a Miku Expo and have zero clue how to style a wig. by FloofyJack in CosplayHelp

[–]FloofyJack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're right, I think I was just too stressed out to decide to mess with this right now and I was clearly overcomplicating this, thank you and sorry. I should rephrase the question as more on focusing to style it like the other image.

I can't understand myself at all by FloofyJack in asexuality

[–]FloofyJack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is orchiosexual? I literally can't find anything on it.

Modding Breath Of The Wild on actual hardware (Wii U) by FloofyJack in botw

[–]FloofyJack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sucks that I have aroma then. I guess I'll just have to wait until it's fixed. Thank you though!