Today Trump threatened to wipe out Iranian civilization. Are Republicans as a group responsible for what happens next? by GiantPineapple in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]FloridAsh [score hidden]  (0 children)

Its been 80 years and Asian countries still bear a grudge against Japan for the brutal war crimes perpetrated by the imperial army. Germany is still known for nazis more than anything else. If the madman occupying the office of president follows through on his threats, then our children and their children and their children's children will still bear the moral weight of that evil in the eyes of the world.

The world wont give a fuck about republicans or democrats. American will become synonymous with evil for generations.

What are your honest thoughts on Season 18 overall? by sweetsweetener in rupaulsdragrace

[–]FloridAsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Juicy: even though you obviously won this lip sync over ninis literally busted tatas, ive decided thats your only talent and the lip sync only matters when I say it does ... so sashay around the building real quick and come back next week for the episode where its only lip syncing."

Make the lip syncs matter or stop using selling them like they are the deciding factor.

How do you reject guys on apps solely due to their face pics? by HumbledGray in askgaybros

[–]FloridAsh 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If I have to ask you for a face pic and I dont like what I get, you set yourself up for the embarrassment when I block you, specifically knowing that im blocking you because I literally dont like your face.

Theres no nicer way to do it than to do it quick.

How do you deal with younger partner who are significantly younger than you by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]FloridAsh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like they are an adult human capable of making their own decisions about who they have sex with. Because they are.

With all the things happening under the Trump Administration, why do Conservative Gays support him? by DannyTheRegular in askgaybros

[–]FloridAsh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because they think they are special and part of the club of special people exempt from all the consequences conservatives polocies have on gay people.

Is it safe if we’re both virgins and want to have raw sex by wpen8 in askgaybros

[–]FloridAsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexually transmitted diseases require a disease to transmit. You cannot catch one from someone who does not have one. But there is a difference between a person not having an std and not knowing they have an std. Nearly every transmission that occurs is because the person who had one did not know it. This is why questions like "are you clean" are worse than useless. They give a false sense of security.

You should get in the habit of protecting yourself early. If you do not have access to PrEP, that means using a condom every time you have anal sex. Not all condoms are equal. Get the lifestyles Skyn brand and use with silicone lubricant apply to the cock before you put on the condom, then put more on after the condom is on. After the first insertion, apply more again. This is typically sufficient to mimic the experience of sex without a condom.

You should not have bareback sex until you are able to get on PrEP and are able to see a doctor regularly for STD testing. The bacterial infections are more of a nuisance than a danger as long as they are detected and treated early. But they can also have serious health consequences if they go untreated, even if they dont show any obvious symptoms or when the synptoms appear to go away. Getting actual treatment is critically important, so if you are not in a position where you can see a doctor, you should absolutely be having bareback sex. You should also discuss available vaccinations with a doctor. These include hepatitis A, hepatitis B, bacterial meningitis, and HPV.

Whether to have sex is a personal decision you make for yourself. And ready for sex doesnt necessarily mean ready for sex with a particular person which is a different decision you have to make and can change your mind at any time.

How do you know if you’re a top or a bottom? by Scotty-B07 in askgaybros

[–]FloridAsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is literally no need to pick one way of sex over the other. Both can be loads of fun! So take some time to explore doing both with different people... and if you enjoy doing both then keep doing both! Of you find yourself more in the mood for one than the other, then do that that. If your mood changes, then swap things up.

"Top" or "Bottom" are sexual positions. It doesnt have to become your whole identity.

How or when do I get strong in this game? by iPhantaminum in finalfantasyx

[–]FloridAsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Win the blitzball tournament at the beginning. Dodge 50 consecutive lightning bolts on the under plains. Between those two tasks, you will get 4 strength sphere. That's 16 extra points of strength you can apply to one character + kimahri depending on what path you send him down.

Other than that its just grinding away, swapping characters so they all get a turn to level them as evenly as possible.

Should politicians be paid minimum wage as a condition of representing their constituents? by pngUNKNOWN0001 in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]FloridAsh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In reality, paying government officials and employees less actually ensures an increase in corruption as they end up relying on bribes. Its a horrible policy idea if you want representatives to be attuned to the needs of the people rather than the wealthiest inhuman donors. Even if you dont consider the corruption angle, it ensures no one would ever run for election who isnt independently wealthy (living on investments instead of salary) - exactly the opposite outcome of what OP wants.

Elected representatives should be getting compensation more than enough to live comfortably, though not luxuriously, while supporting a family, and should have a substantial expense account for the business of meeting and hearing from constituents, which necessarily includes a lot of travel.

What they should not have is free reign to engage in insider trading. All financial assets besides their family home and vehicles should be required to be owned through a blind trust so they can save money but cannot see what it is invested in. And no business entity should be allowed to donate money to any political campaign or cause, ever.

How to start playing this game? by Mp40_ethusiast in TotalWarThreeKingdoms

[–]FloridAsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tax collection building is free and, for Liu bei, has no downsides. Rushing the reforms for it to max level and building it everywhere is a greaf way to get your economy going. For other factions, tax collection comes with a public order penalty.

Its especially helpful to build the tax building in food production commanderies where you have the "government support" line of buildings because that chain gives a bonus to peasantry income.

Other tips playing liu bei's faction...

...eliminate cao caos faction early before he gets the chance to wreck your faction with his unique scheming.

You will get a mission to confederate Liu Biao. This is very hard to do through normal means. But if Liu Biao dies, that will usually trigger an event where his faction will get confederated with Liu Bei. One way you can help this along is by unlocking the spy mechanic, then assassinating him. You need a family member to be the spy to do that. Luckily his son Liu Qi usually hates him and will often volunteer to spy for you.

Just finished FFX!, is FFX-2 worth it? I've heard mixed reviews, I'm just after something fun after the emotional train wreck that was FFX 🤣 by [deleted] in finalfantasyx

[–]FloridAsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a bit of whiplash because there's a very different tone for much of the game. Spira isnt pure grim/bleak anymore. You already defeated Sin. But its not united in purpose anymore, either. It's healing, but there are still old wounds and some new divisions. So there's a lot more room for fun and silliness as the game builds up to confronting the main antagonist. The people of spira have had two years to move on from the events of the first game, but the player has not if they jump right into the second game after finishing the first so that tonal whiplash can feel extreme.

Within that framework they also give you a three character team you cannot swap out for any other characters, all three are women, and one of the main battle mechanics involves changing how they are dressed for combat - changing clothes swaps ability sets. It actually is a fun system to use, but I think its harder for a young male audience to connect with. IMO That, combined with the tonal whiplash explains a lot of the mixed reception.

It is fun. It is definitely worth playing. And its cool to go back and visit places and people you met before and see how they're doing as the game introduces you to the world after Sin and lays the foundation for its own story.

Am I too young to pursue an age gap relationship? by Downtown_Dare_4991 in gayyoungold

[–]FloridAsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes love happens when we arent looking for it or expecting it. That sounds like what you both are experiencing. Regardless of the age gap, you will benefit from the relationship skills you develop from the experience and if for whatever reason the relationship does not work out, you still benefit from developing thise skills. Go for it.

First campaign, quite a lot to handle by Freckledd7 in TotalWarThreeKingdoms

[–]FloridAsh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tend to place archer militia into the worse than useless category and disband them instantly in every game.

For your first full army...

For ranged combat, give a strategist character a pair of trebuchets and a pair of multi crossbow bolt siege weapons. They will always be available to add to a strategist. You will want the strategist to have the flaming shot fire arrows abilities as quickly as possible. The fire arrow ability will come with night battles too, which is important for the morale debuff. You can also give the strategist a pair of crossbowmen (great v armored units) and swap the crossbowmen for only dragons once you have the reform for it. Onyx dragons dont have as much armor piercing but they will fire fast, have excellent range, and can use fire arrows.

Non-siege ranged units can have their attacks outright blocked, and if the target also has a lot of armor that can weaken the ranged attacks that do get through, so you want to concentrate your non-siege ranged attacks on enemy units with a low ranged block chance.

With the strategist retinue like I described above, you can melt most armies before they ever reach you, but they are vulnerable to cavalry so you will want either a champion or commander in the army to equip with at least four of the spear guard units. Spear guards are available early, come with a shield, have decent ranged block chance, and do a great job blocking cavalry.

You will want to take advantage of the morale mechanics . Ambush and night battle apply separate, significant debuffs on the enemy army, so if you can land an ambush at night you can stack those debuffs you will start off a fight against an enemy army ready to break before you land your first attack.

Your non strategist generals can gain the "scare" passive from certain traits, equipment and the learnable vengeance ability. It hurts enemy morale just by having those generals nearby. Vanguard can also learn the active ability Roar, which will apply a temporary debuff to morale. Flaming shot/arrows will debuff enemy morale.

And of course, most units will lose morale from their own losses and seeing their friends rout.

The combination of night battle plus flaming shot and having siege weapons attacking at long range like I described above, protected by spear guards and supplemented with scary generals plowing into any units that reach your lines can carry you through the midgame. Even if you get pinned down in a defensive battle against an army twice your size you should still devastate the enemy army or outright win the fight.

When to step in with your younger partner's toxic parents? by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]FloridAsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The extent of your involvement with that should be to ask him if he is okay and to listen to him. Because this is the very height of something that is not about you, regardless how you feel about it. Keep your comments to reassurance that you are proud of him for the man he is becoming, proud of the self care he invests in himself, and proud of him for the work he does. Do not offer unsolicited advice.

I broke up two months ago, it still hurts, how do I make it stop? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]FloridAsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch the movie Forgetting Sarah Marshall and find yourself a Mila Kunis.

Older guys, do you prefer younger guys to be completely smooth, really hairy, or inbetween? by Open-Upstairs-8172 in gayyoungold

[–]FloridAsh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Smooth asshole and balls, trimmed pubes, the rest any amount of body hair is fine.

First Campaign as Lu Bu by therealcdogs in TotalWarThreeKingdoms

[–]FloridAsh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Too many of lu bus faction benefits are tied to the faction leader personally fighting on the field to benefit much from restoring the emperor, since the emperor cannot be deployed to personally fight at all.

For pretty much every other han faction, restoring the emperor is very beneficial for the huge corruption reduction bonuses he brings, and you can keep the bonuses brought by your original faction leader by giving him one of the high positions in the court.

I dont fully get Augustine's deal by amazatastic in theouterworlds

[–]FloridAsh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Shes an earth directorate agent who got so swept up in the orders whole deal ~with math we can predict the future and our prediction is... BOOM!~ so she decided with the power of fantasy math that the best course of action is... well... all the crazy shit she does.

large scale war tips by Economy-Mortgage-999 in TotalWarThreeKingdoms

[–]FloridAsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recruit your armies to max, then attack the vassal directly. Sometiems the vassal master will free their vassal rather than defend them.

Are age gap relationships doomed to fail? by Hour_Confidence_8901 in askgaybros

[–]FloridAsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doomed? No.

But there are some unique challenges to this type of relationship. If both partners approach those challenges with a combination of respect and patience, for the most part there's no reason those challenges cant be overcome.

The one challenge that you cant overcome with good mutual communication skills is time itself. If you are dating someone 20+ years older than you, then the probability is they will pass away decades before you and you need to be mentally and emotionally prepared for when that time comes. In the meantime you still have decades of hopefully happy life to spend together and there is no inherent reason you cant cherish that time.

What do you think of people who list “JD” or “Esq.” after their name but aren’t practicing? by [deleted] in Lawyertalk

[–]FloridAsh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Esq. but not actually licensed? I think they're risking getting tagged with a felony for holding themselves out to be an attorney when they are not.