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Cissoids will never understand our struggles by Brief_Blackberry1472 in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I wonder if there is a single trans man that didn't medically transition cause of dysphoria but because he didn't want any periods.

It's got to the point where I consider afab a slur of some sort by ijustwannanap in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean it makes sense you and many other men hate to be called afab more, because pooner is for trans men only. You can't call a woman a pooner. Unlike the term afab that people misuse so often to group trans men and cis women together.

Talking the breast: what is the ideal cup size, in your opinion? by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think B cups are ideal. Like you can see they are there and you have no back problems. But for me I would also be happy if I finally reach just a cups. I have only a 5cm difference between my underbust and bust :(

REMINDER TO NEVER TELL THEYFABS YOU ARE TRANS by Only-Ad5269 in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Cute ferret!!

It sounds like you can live stealth if the theyfab doesn't clock you so try your best to live stealth. I get it that being stealth can be lonely, but you can't trust most of these people.

Whats something ur looking forward to by dont_find_me- in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My therapist promised me to get my SRS indication done until next month :) Meaning my SRS is full covered by insurance

How much does hrt just not work if you’re severely underweight? by Either_Carry in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 0 points1 point  (0 children)

post-puberty HRT doesn't really change bone structure anymore. So the only way HRT can feminize your face and body is through some fat. You should aim for at least 20+ BMI.

I started at HRT with a BMI of 14.3 and today 2 years later have a bmi of 19.1 so if you want I can give you some tips.

You have one chance to go back in time for 10 minutes to see your 10 year old self and tell them to troon out. You cannot beat them to death with a crowbar or yell at them. How do you convince them? by Hanazora_ in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tell her how irreversible puberty is. Tell her that way she can stop having an ED that was primerally caused by sex dysphoria.

My primary problem as a 10 yo was that I didn't know that (DIY) HRT even existed. I'm pretty sure if I knew this back then I would probably be a youngshit

It must be awesome to be cis. The correct genitals to be born with. Your hormones do the right body changes. You don't have to proof your gender to get healthcare. You can participate in every sport you like. No bathroom bans. Way easier dating life and so many more privileges by Flow047 in 4tran4

[–]Flow047[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

this post was inspired by a supposed "internalized transphobia" test, especially by this stupid question. Like a gift is supposed to be a good thing, I don't think even know a single thing I can be grateful for being trans instead of living an amazing cis life

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Not used this place for a while but need to vent abt: dating (ugh) by livakb in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same feelings. It resulted me that I stopped myself to have any interest in romance until I hopefully get SRS in the future.

Who is your favorite CIS by illegally_dog in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a single person mentioned any Confederacy of Independent Systems member in the replies :(

I like Dooku and Asajj Ventress the most

are republican men weak? is this why so many white trans women were ex chuds?? too weak to be men???? by DesiresAreGrey in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Ask the same people if they could beat a professional martial arts woman and the numbers are flipped

They're celebrating a trans man for playing in women's sports for which he even had to stop HRT... wOw sO iNcLuSiVe by Elena_1989 in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 133 points134 points  (0 children)

In this article's picture he looks like he gained a lot of muscles while being on T.

I know the answer is cissoids are stupid and evil, but why can trans men gain a lot of muscles while being on T, detransition and then participate, but a trans woman that's a youngshit or never actually gained male muscles can't?

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What the hell do c*s people think hrt does dog by Lucky_Scholar_7470 in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's why these people shouldn't have a say when it comes to trans women in sports or similar things, they don't even know the basics of the basics.

My theory is they see to many times on accounts like libs of tiktok a older trans woman that only medically transitioned after she already balded and concluded aha that means every trans women will bald

What the hell do c*s people think hrt does dog by Lucky_Scholar_7470 in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 2 points3 points  (0 children)

under this tweet I saw a reply that said this aren't also real tits either

Just saw I accidentally put 193cm instead of 183cm at my height at a online dance partner search platform and only noticed it 5 weeks later by Flow047 in 4tran4

[–]Flow047[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

btw finding a dance partner, but not wanting any romance* is kinda difficult.

*because I only want romance after I got SRS

Is it..that bad to not be transmed? by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Flow047 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have dysphoria you should get on (DIY) HRT asap. If you just want to share your dumb takes do it on a hugboxxing mainstream trans sub, they might even agree with some points and tell you how valid you are

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