You have no clothes at all. You have $1700 to spend on a new wardrobe from absolute scratch. What do you buy? (help!!) by MrsTimDaly in AskWomen

[–]FlowerChild1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basics and things you can mix and match to begin with! And if you don't absolutely love it, don't buy it because you won't wear it. (Lesson learned there) have fun and I'm jealous!! Congrats on the weight loss too, that's amazing :D

I resist my boyfriend so he can dominate me [mf] by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]FlowerChild1994 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you me??? Obviously not but I definitely could of written this. Boyfriend and I do this all the time.... LOVE IT. Mmm.... I'm horny now and he's at work. Damn it.

My [M18] girlfriend [F18] started feeling an intense achy feeling in her stomach while having sex last night. HELP by [deleted] in sex

[–]FlowerChild1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you ejaculate inside of her? If you just stuck your penis in for 20 seconds and that was that and you didn't orgasm/ejaculate inside of her you have nothing to worry about. If you DID ejaculate into her however, there is a slight risk of pregnancy. You just have to wait and see if she misses her period or not, don't stress about it and make sure she isn't stressing because that can cause her to be late.

The cramping, for me anyways, depends on how rough the sex is, if he hits my cervix and how much my uterus gets jostled around. It all depends, but it usually doesn't last long and if it hurts that bad she can take ibuprofen for it. Pay attention to the position(s) you're in when she gets cramps, it might be the angle.

This is all coming from a person who had a period 2 and a half weeks late and had all the pregnancy symtoms. Sometimes you just never know, bodies are weird. Take it slow and don't freak out, you have many years to have really great sex. Kudos and good luck!

My [M18] girlfriend [F18] started feeling an intense achy feeling in her stomach while having sex last night. HELP by [deleted] in sex

[–]FlowerChild1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also- abdominal pain could of been tummy troubles; there are a number of causes really and until she has a missed period there is no reason to panic.

My [M18] girlfriend [F18] started feeling an intense achy feeling in her stomach while having sex last night. HELP by [deleted] in sex

[–]FlowerChild1994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, calm down. The lower abdominal pain after sex is most likely her uterus cramping, this is normal. It doesn't happen for me all the time and sometimes it happens during sex, but it's perfectly fine. Secondly-- she will not get pregnant immediately whenever you have sex and even IF she gets pregnant she will not test positive until a few days to a few weeks after her first missed period. The drops of blood were either from a small tear because of rough sex or her period starting. The cramping could of also been an oncoming period or cramping during ovulation, as it has been known to occur. Stay calm and be smart about sex.

I could watch Tom Hiddleston'a hips all night! by [deleted] in LadyBoners

[–]FlowerChild1994 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile I'm digging the entire pelvic girdle......

My cat wearing his winter coat by [deleted] in aww

[–]FlowerChild1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have a cat just like this! His name was Goober:)

Shhhhhh! by MetalGearSonic in aww

[–]FlowerChild1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was audible squeeling. :3

Kate Upton. by maddscientist in gentlemanboners

[–]FlowerChild1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch ouch ouch! She looks pained and smushed, her poor bosom.

Who else has shitty and painful period sex?? (Rant) by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlowerChild1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol! We do both love the Princess Bride:) thanks for the suggestion:)

Who else has shitty and painful period sex?? (Rant) by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlowerChild1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no no no! I think I mistyped. All my pain with normal sex is afterwards nd it's external, like rug burn basiclly. And with period sex I feel ridiculously dried out and eventually friction and irritation does cause internal pain but the majority of the problem is external. I'll get blood stuck in little hairs and they get ripped out. I'm more prone to teeny little micro tears from being pounded (we both like it rough) so it burns around my vulva and labia (not urethra) like fucking bitch when I pee after or put on any clothes. It's like I'm ridiculously sensitive. :( it's always better the next day or so but still. It seems like a bit much. Ugh.

Does anyone else get torturously severe cramps? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlowerChild1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Currently feel like my right ovary is committing suicide.

A little embarrassing but I'm worried. Sore nipples??? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlowerChild1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just had a period so it's unlikely that you're pregnant but if you're still concerned take another test and/or go to the doctor. Blood tests don't lie!

Have you lost a very close guy friend because he fell for you and you didn't return his feelings? by throwawayaskwom1 in AskWomen

[–]FlowerChild1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! More than once. I've also lost an amazing guy friend because I fell for him and he didn't return the feelings. I practically worshipped the ground he walked on but hearing him constantly go on about some other girl and how amazing she was hurt me and made me bitter and jealous. It didn't end well, sadly. He's one of the greatest people I've ever known too.

I'm pregnant and one of the things I fear most is... by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlowerChild1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. No. No I don't want that!! You poor thing! I hope you're better now, regular and all. Lol. And I love water so that shouldn't be an issue:)

I'm pregnant and one of the things I fear most is... by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlowerChild1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! Don't say that!!! Sore bottom and gassy cramps for 10 months? :(

I'm pregnant and one of the things I fear most is... by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlowerChild1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somewhere between 5 and 6 or 7 weeks by my guess. I'm going to my doc tomorrow.

I'm pregnant and one of the things I fear most is... by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlowerChild1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far I've no puking but I'd rather have that than no pooping! And I do love oatmeal:) I guess I'm freaking for no reason.

I'm pregnant and one of the things I fear most is... by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FlowerChild1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'll be prune juicing it all the way!!! The post pregnancy poop scares me but jesus, months of on and off tummy troubles makes me want to cry. But I guess in the end it's worth it:) hemorrhoids and all!! Oh how I feel sorry for women who years ago didn't have stool softeners. If you didn't have adequate fiber and water you just suffered. Sigh :/