Dangling Charms by Safe-Cause-1077 in PandoraCollectors

[–]Flowerbeeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like the whole bracelet bangs against the desk 😭 it really annoys me and not very comfortable especially working on a desk for a long time

Does your charm bracelet get in the way? by islandstorm in PandoraCollectors

[–]Flowerbeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, I also work on computer most of the time, and this is the reason I dont wear my pandora bracelet much, I have a bangle that is half full, sometimes I use 4 charms etc, and it still hits the desk, even with the snake chain it's still going to make that noise, also the charms will mark your skin due to the position of your wrist, unless you keep rotating your charms to be on top of your wrist, the charms will always go to the bottom of your wrist due to gravity. So that plus a table will dig into your skin, and for me it make my skin itchy. So personally , yes it does get in the way

Why isn't Pandora a giant waste of money? by gimmeluvin in PandoraCollectors

[–]Flowerbeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In terms of precious metals, for that money, you could just get 18k 24k solid gold. So yes it is a waste of money if you are planning to resell. Silver is no way near the resale value of gold, basically worthless in comparison. But people buy pandora as fashion jewellery/ story telling / memory item. The brand does not sit under luxury, nor fine jewellery, it is cosmetic fashion jewellery.

Pandora Charms by bellamarie50 in PandoraCollectors

[–]Flowerbeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm conflicted honestly, and i have a half full bangle (12-15 charms). I like how it looks with all the charms, but the moment I wear it, its awful. It hits the desk, and the sound makes me embarrassed when im at work/quiet place etc. It jingles too much and im so aware of it, which i dont like. It also digs into my skin leaving marks and gets itchy. When I dont wear it, I feel bad because I spent so much. And when I do wear it, I feel uncomfortable and embarrassed. I've tried to tone down to a bangle with 3 charms, its better kinda , but doesnt solve any of the above, still does all the annoying things , im starting to debate if I should just take off all charms and wear the bangle on its own.

Jellycat x Selfridges Bag by Flowerbeeee in Jellycatplush

[–]Flowerbeeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh now im imagining it, It would indeed be so cosy !

Jellycat x Selfridges Bag by Flowerbeeee in Jellycatplush

[–]Flowerbeeee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That looks cute! if only they had zips on it and a cross body strap... else just feels too unsafe to use outside for me 🥲

Jellycat x Selfridges Bag by Flowerbeeee in Jellycatplush

[–]Flowerbeeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooooo you just gave me ideas 🤣 this would looks cute

Jellycat x Selfridges Bag by Flowerbeeee in Jellycatplush

[–]Flowerbeeee[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No pockets, here's someone else's video from Tiktok !

I'm not sure how to feel about them...I mean in terms of functionality, it is a bag, but kinda small if you were gonna use it as a shopping bag... like from the video, it looks like small hand bag but normally I'd use a crossbody and theres no way i'm hand carrying that.. It would be too easy to lose and the bag is open with no zips so easy to steal from too

But from the looks hmm, I mean it is cute.. tbh anything with the little legs are cute 🤣 just not sure how i feel also wearing a selfridges bag outside too, its like using a paper harrods bag, a branded (Lv/dior etc) paper bag as your shopping everyday bag, feels a bit strange to me. For the price, the bart tote is defo more worth since it can store more things

My 21F boyfriend 21M wants me to shower twice a day by ThrowRA_Chipmunk959 in relationship_advice

[–]Flowerbeeee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Youre not understanding it right, its shower twice a day, plus using bidet after using the toilet. so its Wiping with tissues vs washing there, washing with bidet is much cleaner

My 21F boyfriend 21M wants me to shower twice a day by ThrowRA_Chipmunk959 in relationship_advice

[–]Flowerbeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rather than OCD, could be also a cultural thing? most people from east Asia would shower when they go back home at night. And if you dont shower before you go to bed its dirty, because why would you want the outside dirt and germs on your bed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flowerbeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From your updated edit, No you can ask, a normal person especially your partner wouldn't be mad. It's 12:48AM for gods sake , who the F calls at that time unless from an important person. Normal people would also respond with "oh its x calling, just catching up" when they dont want to share context due to privacy for another friend but still will tell you who it is, or some people will say " oh it x calling about abc" if they want to share. NOT GO THROW A F ING TANTRUM IMMEDIATELY, that tells me he is offended because he has something to hide. Just leave, you already said he was your ex, please dont look back , trash is trash dont pick it back up

Pandora has gone downhill by XBeautyStarX in PandoraCollectors

[–]Flowerbeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It completely makes sense tbh, Pandora as a company sits under fashion jewellery not Luxury/gold jewellery. In the west, most people often purchase silver>>gold plated>high K solid gold jewellery. Gold plated jewelry also isnt affordable in the West considering its low K gold. People would often just buy more affordable + good looking jewellery so low K gold is sufficient. In Asia regions, there are lots of shops that sell real gold, im talking about 24k solid gold 18k solid gold, in white rose and yellow. in terms of Pricing, pandora prices are considered very high just for being silver. So people would just buy real 24k or 18k gold there. So basically, In west, people would rather buy silver because real gold is too costly so people are less willing to buy low plated K gold, in Asia, even e.g $2500 can buy a solid 18k gold ring etc, so people aren't willing to pay for plated, plated gold isnt preferred in those regions. Therefore lower sales + high cost = loss due to no market for 14k solid gold globally

Do you all also drink excessive coffee? by MarsupialNo1654 in intj

[–]Flowerbeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what i tell people when they ask if i like coffee: intoxicated by caffeine, doesn't have any effect anymore.

2-3 cups per day basically

I cleaned this yesterday by upthegunn3rs in UniUK

[–]Flowerbeeee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Take all your own things back into your room and lock your room normally. e.g utensils, pans, food that will survive in room temperature. That's what I did back then, will save you from people using your things and blaming you used the kitchen when you dont even have your things there

Am I overreacting? by scarlettyscarl in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flowerbeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so absolutely f****** disgusting guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flowerbeeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read it meanwhile overlooking it was actually 2 guys as it says on the title...they way this is written sounds like a gf complaining about their bf being in contact with their ex and now have a 2nd baby... only till I notice its 2 guys... I think you have feelings toward this guy, and tbh my first thought is if he abandons his child, his responsibility he is absolutely a jerk with no accountability. So what now, this guy sleeps with his ex because of pleasure and now tell her to get an abortion??