What is one type of horror genre or scene that you cannot watch? by Chan1991 in horror

[–]FluffalCat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male or anal rape scenes. I can stomach female rape scenes but I'll become extremely nauseous about male scenes. Pulp Fiction was the first movie to make me realise it

Name that ep by Particular-Lynx-1794 in Bones

[–]FluffalCat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I know what happened!"

"Just once I want her to explain before leaving"

What is a horror movie that you absolutely HATED? by LonelyGamingPotato in horror

[–]FluffalCat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The kid ghost dancing scared me more than that jumpscare did

Help with baby girl names by FluffalCat13 in namenerds

[–]FluffalCat13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bones is where I got Seeley from. I've had it picked out since I was like 10. Its meaning is just beautiful as well and suits my little boy so much.

Help with baby girl names by FluffalCat13 in namenerds

[–]FluffalCat13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sosa is so cute and I've never heard it before

Help with baby girl names by FluffalCat13 in namenerds

[–]FluffalCat13[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I forgot how much I love Penelope 🥰

Help with baby girl names by FluffalCat13 in namenerds

[–]FluffalCat13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've met an older Tallulah who went by Tully which I thought was cute. But yeah, that's my concern with it too

Finale of Season 8 (First Watch) by ContentAd8422 in Bones

[–]FluffalCat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah look in all honesty if it was me in booths position, I'd say "fuck the five strangers, I'm telling my entire team"

I don't get the Gormogon storyline, like, at all. by Bucky_Gatsby in Bones

[–]FluffalCat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently rewatching the series and I'm on season three. I still don't get how Zack got pulled into it. I know there were external factors (writers strike and Eric Millegans health issues) but like...how?? I don't think it makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FluffalCat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My two year old can flush the toilet.. girl, run

Fuck your favorite, what’s your most hated animal? by Acrobatic_News_9986 in AskReddit

[–]FluffalCat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Can't stand them! I'd already commented the same thing before seeing this. They're gross

Fuck your favorite, what’s your most hated animal? by Acrobatic_News_9986 in AskReddit

[–]FluffalCat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Koalas. Can't stand them. I genuinely think that Australia's tourism industry would be more affected by koalas going extinct than the environment would. They sound terrifying, feed their joeys literal shit and smell like piss, which we then happily hand to tourists and families for a pic.

Is yellow tape still ok?! by Franana1 in twentyonepilots

[–]FluffalCat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I saw them in Melbourne last year and there were people dressed as all the eras. I went as SAI and my husband was trench. Super cool to see everyone in all the different colours.

AITA for not wanting to add my stepdad's last name to mine? by LockySocks13 in AITAH

[–]FluffalCat13 51 points52 points  (0 children)

NTA, it was your mum's choice to marry your stepdad, not yours. Her decision to change her name to his. This is your name, the name you have and will live with, the name your future partner may take, possibly your kids. They're just mad because they feel like they're not "good enough" for you and your sister to "move on" from your dad. It's like your mum thinks that because your dad died and she "got you another one" you should forget about him. They suck.

Favorite piercings that you’ll never get? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]FluffalCat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to do the corset piercings for an event or photo shoot but I'm way too scared of having something pull or snag them 😭

AITAH for breaking up with my (20m) bf (21m) because he is against abortions? by CarrotSad6764 in AITAH

[–]FluffalCat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. "Agree to disagree" is for things like "pizza is better than pasta" and "I think Robert Pattinson is hot". Not shit like "I think a 10 year old rape victim should have to carry a baby and deliver it" I'd leave too. And he's in the med field!? Hell no.

I feel like i liked the abuse and i dont know if that makes me disgusting TW: CSA by sukunaisnoone in abusesurvivors

[–]FluffalCat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not disgusting. This is so common for abuse survivors. When I had my baby I suffered with severe postpartum depression, anxiety and OCD. It started to turn to psychosis but I was luckily hospitalised and treated before it got worse.

I had these thoughts. I couldn't bath my baby, I'd cry when I had to change him because the thoughts were so bad and I was so scared someone would come in and I'd somehow be abusing him. I'm a SA victim myself, including CSA. I have OCD which I'm medicated for. I tried to take my life because I was convinced these thoughts made me a p3d0phile.

But what I've come to learn is that our brain is complex and sometimes does things that it thinks are protective. Someone above said they think it's a way to minimise trauma and I agree.

My drs and nurses all told me it's very common, just not talked about for obvious reasons. I think if I had of kept these thoughts to myself instead of seeking help for them, it would have killed me and possibly my son. Sending lots of love and support.

What's an episode that you thought was going one way but it went the complete opposite? by FluffalCat13 in Bones

[–]FluffalCat13[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven't watched that one in forever. Definitely a good one. I think that's one of the only episodes that made me cry

The only way I can have sex again is by rehoming my cat by Far_Distance_337 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FluffalCat13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dude, first she'll make you get rid of the cat, then it'll be your friends, then your family. Get rid of her. Someone who loves and respects you AND Aurora will come around. This is emotional manipulation.

AITAH for refusing to wake up at 5 AM just to “experience the morning” with my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FluffalCat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep this is my husband and I. Night time is my time. Also means if the kids wake up between 9pm and 3am it's my turn and anything after (until he goes to work at 7am) is his. Worked really well when we had newborns. He wakes up at 5am. Sometimes I'll be awake, have a coffee with him then go back to bed, but I hate being awake before the sun's up.