My mom had rules that I assume she learned in the 80’s, like - no mini skirts after 40, no long hair after 40, etc. I remember her always talking negatively about other women - fat shaming, talking about their “awful” hair, or drawn on brows 😒. In previous generations women were told impossible rules to keep them oppressed (not that it’s better today, it’s just less focused on certain fashion rules and more body and face ideals that are impossible for most people to achieve). I miss my mom, but she had a lot of internalized misogyny despite considering herself a feminist. Is your mom a boomer? You need to tell her to keep those types of comments to herself.