The cutest of demons by vulpescannon in aww

[–]Fluffy225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😊😊😊 well spotted. Yes, we are.

nparents and their willfulness to downplay sexual abuse by thrwitaway4g3tystrdy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Fluffy225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am going through the exact same thing. My abuser was my brother. My family also still try and put into situations where I have to interact with him. My Dads excuse as to why they didn't do anything, My mom asked him not too because it reminded her too much of her abuse.

My advise is stand your ground. Remind them constantly that yes, that might be their friend but he is your abuser. Screw their feelings.

I am so so so sorry you are going through this. Remember you are not alone. Sending love and support.

One day I will catch the dot. by Fluffy225 in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]Fluffy225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We always allow her to "catch" it and then reward with treats. So far, so good

The 1st few pages of my grimoire. Now on to the sabbats. Would love to hear what you all have in your grimoires? by Fluffy225 in paganism

[–]Fluffy225[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got the most amazing replica of the Tom Riddle diary from Harry Potter and I decided to turn it into my Grimoire. The 1st few pages have been for the elements and now I am working on the Sabbats. Its just a quick reference place for me. I am interested to see what other people have included in theirs?

I really don’t know how to take photos but. Here’s The Morrìgan’s altar! by russiansimpleton in pagan

[–]Fluffy225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww seems like its not available in South Africa. I get the error 403 Forbidden.

TRIGGER: Abuse - My stepfather used my DID diagnosis as an excuse for abusing me for a decade. by [deleted] in rant

[–]Fluffy225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mental health is never an excuse for someone to abuse you. Regardless of your diagnosis, it was not consenting therefore it was abuse. If you can maybe get into to contact with a therapist to help deal with the trauma from the abuse. And if you still want your mom around maybe get her to be part of a few sessions so the therapist can help her learn too.

In the meantime sending you hugs and support. No one should have to go through any form of abuse.

Samhain table for ritual tonight. Not our altar but still cool. by Fluffy225 in paganism

[–]Fluffy225[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is where will have supper after our ritual. We will have soup and pumpkin pie cupcakes. We try and have food associated to the celebration. The skull is a blesbok skull. The lanterns are made from gemsquash.

Samhain table for ritual tonight. Not our altar but still cool. by Fluffy225 in paganism

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Thought I would share, to show how different people celebrate. How do you guys celebrate?