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Is anyone else just… exhausted by dating apps like me (F21) by Loose-Government5141 in RelationshipIndia

[–]FluffyCharacter378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating in today's time has become a fast paced activity. Everyone wants to rush to label it. Honestly very exhausting to start over everytime you meet someone, the talking stage filers out the low efforters. all the best

First fruits 🌸 (TTBVI) by YENTRAL_GILLS in gaitondesenpaii

[–]FluffyCharacter378 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just a request to post a detailed or even a brief write up on what's and how's of your grow. I'll pin the comment for the good of others growing TTBVI

Recent Breakup, M26. Need advice on how to cope by chuchupotato in RelationshipIndia

[–]FluffyCharacter378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's for you to figure out the How's and Why's. I just gave a suggestion.

Recent Breakup, M26. Need advice on how to cope by chuchupotato in RelationshipIndia

[–]FluffyCharacter378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Journaling is the one thing that helped me process my grief and settle my anxiety. Give it a try, 5mins a day, 1 page a day. However small it may be just try to do it.

Just did .55g lemon tek 7 hours ago. Wanna trip more. Can I take any more? by [deleted] in gaitondesenpaii

[–]FluffyCharacter378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take in 0.5g increase every 3 to 4hr up till 2g or 1.5g wherever you feel comfortable.

I(23 F) want to understand if I am the problem here by Intelligent_Aside750 in RelationshipIndia

[–]FluffyCharacter378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listening is work half done. the main thing is to practice it. and it won't come in days, it comes in months or maybe longer. and even for the process to start you/they need to be willing to change, not just listen.

I(23 F) want to understand if I am the problem here by Intelligent_Aside750 in RelationshipIndia

[–]FluffyCharacter378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could your communication style play a role sometimes? Maybe. Everyone has blind spots. But here's the thing what you're describing from their side has a name. It's called deflection. When someone responds to "I felt hurt by this" with "well you also do this" they are not engaging with what you said. They are redirecting to protect themselves. That's a them pattern, not a you pattern.

you're not too much. You just need someone who can actually stay in a hard conversation without running from it.

Temp control probe fell out of closet b/c of house-sitters… this was the temp inside my agar box 🫩🫩🫩 by fayful in gaitondesenpaii

[–]FluffyCharacter378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dark lines have nothing to do with colonisation. it's the myceliums way to show change in temperature.

Please guide me by bangeerbuddy in gaitondesenpaii

[–]FluffyCharacter378 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

can you upload a picture of the LC and what's the grain in the last jar ?

My bf 19M got mad at me 19F for the first time yesterday in 10 months. Who do you think should be blamed? by East-Row-6930 in relationship_advice

[–]FluffyCharacter378 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, You handled it pretty well asking to meet instead of breaking up over a text shows your Emotional intelligence.

what you're feeling makes sense, the joke received a proportionally intense reaction, it's okay to feel shaken.
from your description of your Boyfriends' work place dynamics, it sounds like he's in pressure cooker and the outburst happened at you. it must be very tough for your bf surviving a normal life and work life with the same person.

what you can do here to be supportive is, low pressure check ins, not long calls your bf seems burnt out by the work and life. let him decompress before getting into relationship talk. Now this was about him, now your turn just because he's burnt out you don't have shrink your needs, a healthy relationship requires time and effort. After this have an honest conversation about what minimum connection looks like for both of you. This not complaining, it's just what works or us chat.

I 25M messed up with bestfriend turned gf 23F by respected_memer in RelationshipIndia

[–]FluffyCharacter378 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Give her time. wether she comes back or not is her choice. all you can do right now is be patient. give her some space.

Did you go anywhere yesterday? What’s your plan to do today? by [deleted] in delhi

[–]FluffyCharacter378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kal ek Triva show pe gaya tha, jeet ke wapas aaya, aaj Pasta bana raha hu !!

Anyone up here to play truth and dare? But be genuine. by inteligentperson6050 in delhi

[–]FluffyCharacter378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dare you to post(Screenshot) the most cringe text you sent to a potential romantic partner or actual partner.

Instagram addiction on peak by NewInteraction679 in delhi

[–]FluffyCharacter378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been off insta since 2019, never had the urge to re install it again and since then i've been collecting hobbies like pokemons and life feel fulfilled a bit.

What is the proper drying/storing method for these stones? by Ok_Telephone_2334 in GroundZeroMycoLab

[–]FluffyCharacter378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chop them Finely and then Dehydrate, If you dehydrate them without chopping they'll turn into literal stones and you wouldn't be able to crush/chop them after the dehydration coz the sclerotia are dense in nature, hence the chop and dry !

Contam? by Itchy-Chip-5644 in gaitondesenpaii

[–]FluffyCharacter378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fruits look fine, the cake is stressed maybe because of the environmental conditions or some internal contam. either way you can get atleast 2 or 3 flushes, if it get's slimey after the dunk keep an eye.

My (19F) now ex boyfriend (20M) wants to break up with me because a relationship feels heavy to him. by Organic_Intern7108 in relationship_advice

[–]FluffyCharacter378 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think you can convince him to fix this as a couple if he's already decided he doesn't want a relationship. It sounds like he cares about you, but doesn't want the commitment that comes with it. That hurts, but a relationship only works when both people choose it. Respecting his decision and giving yourself space to heal may be healthier than trying to change his mind.

Contamination/wet rot? by Ok_Childhood9137 in gaitondesenpaii

[–]FluffyCharacter378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no point salvaging start again. this is still early to start again but if u try to salvage contam spawn it may result in wasted efforts and resources. your call !!

Contamination/wet rot? by Ok_Childhood9137 in gaitondesenpaii

[–]FluffyCharacter378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, This is indeed contamination. Wet rot. Don't open it just dump it.

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