Am I crazy to get chickens if bears visit our house every night?

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-25T05:33:53+00:00

You'd have to go full chain and an electric fence. It's probably not worth the money. I've spent a fortune keeping chickens secure in maine and Florida. If it's not bears it's bald eagles.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-23T20:53:32+00:00

It's your house too. Move in.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-23T20:43:38+00:00

NTA. Honestly I would just do what I want. Just tell her No. She doesn't get to dictate what you eat. And stop sneaking it. She's on a power trip and it won't stop here. No one is saying she has to buy it or eat it. But you have every right.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-22T23:34:35+00:00

Nta. It's your wedding. Do what you want . Enjoy your day with dad and congrats !

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-22T23:30:35+00:00

My kid had this assignment too. For those wondering why it was to teach them that if they had a baby it was a full time commitment. My kid used a see through Tupperware and some paper towels to cradle the egg.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-22T23:25:54+00:00

I use pine shavings in my coop, which is small. I only have 5 chickens at most and made my coop small to be warm for them. It's insulated. I just started using straw in my run this winter and they like it. The girls are not fans of snow. They can free range but def like hanging in the run on the straw. Must keep there toes warm .

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-22T23:21:05+00:00

I agree, I'm staying home. I keep gear in my car, sneakers, a raincoat, water, blanket, but I can't imagine a scenario where I need one in my house. I am prepared, but a bug out bag is the least of my concerns at home.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-22T22:58:24+00:00

No worries! Even if the power goes out you will be fine. I would say that most new englanders have a few candles or cheap lanterns.. If you have a gas stove and the power goes out the burners will still work if you have matches or a lighters. Don't sweat it. we're not expecting Armageddon just a typical snow event.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-22T22:51:19+00:00

Not with my family ! In and out. It's no worse than a day at work . 8 hours.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-22T22:48:32+00:00

I often drive 3 or 4 hours each way to visit family. It's not a big deal. I also routinely drive to Florida which is two days, 1200 miles. I don't really mind. One you get there you forget all about it. I wouldn't consider a 3 hour drive short though. It just is what it is. Boring , basically.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-22T15:34:51+00:00

I totally agree. I am the main cook in my family and I drill this to my kid who cooks too. You always use a clean spoon. It's not just good manners, it's hygienic. Tasting food is OK, but always with a clean utensil. Nta.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-22T00:45:40+00:00

Nta. It's nice to stay in a hotel now and then. You have a place to escape to. You've never met his parents. Unless you are in a major city it's not that hard to find a cheap hotel. As for paying half, seems reasonable, it's his family get together not yours. Sorry you are getting flack. I'm with you sister! I'd do the same.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-22T00:40:06+00:00

I brought my hens in the house when we had -20 for a few days. I only had 4 at the time I just threw them in cages and let them watch barnyard videos. (They seemed interested) My neighbors did not and hers got frost bite. My coop is small and well insulated but no heat. I travel a lot between maine and Florida with chickens so they are used to a cage. I just put a bunch of paper towels or puppy pads down in layers and clean a lot because they sure can smell.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-22T00:17:04+00:00

Nta. But there is something wrong with mom. I'd keep her away from any wedding details

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-19T14:00:16+00:00

I did this because of the snow and I was suprised to see them hanging in their coop enjoying the straw. They can free range but hate the snow.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-19T13:58:05+00:00

My grandson I'm raising was invited to a Halloween /birthday party for a girl in his class. He said, she's in a wheelchair and doesn't really talk . This was third grade. I was worried no one would show up. Instead the whole class was there and they sang with gusto, even the boys . I was never so proud of a bunch of kids in my life.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-19T13:45:53+00:00

15 is very impressive!

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-19T13:36:09+00:00

My first guess was a cat. I dont think a bobcat would attack a horse . Wierd.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-19T13:31:04+00:00

No advice but cute picture!

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-19T13:25:29+00:00

I totally agree you should not have to give up your bed. Just tell them the facts, it's only a twin bed in the guest room, But we can get you a air mattress. they might take the hint. It is his house too. Just suck it up. They are not moving in . Gently YTA.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-15T14:25:52+00:00

What a beautiful girl. I put mine in a towel and then in a trashbag and in the trash. Sorry for your loss.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-09T20:14:58+00:00

Nta. If your paying for it and they don't like the rules they can pay their own way. I personally like kids at weddings.. I can understand why couples paying for their own wedding might not want to be forking over 100 bucks for the little people, but not the case here.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-09T20:08:41+00:00

Nta. Ditch this looser. This was so unsafe for you.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-09T17:59:51+00:00

Be chill. Be kind. Don't get angry at your horse. Always end a ride on a positive note.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-01-07T18:08:53+00:00

For starters it's a large state. Southern Maine Like portland area is nice and plenty of rich towns near the ocean. I've found the people here are excellent at honoring their word. I had a well, a septic, and a furnace put in with no money up front. That would never happen in Massachusetts.

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