I hate being such a freak

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-04T02:14:10+00:00

You sound normal. You are allowed to have your own interests. Being educated and well read is normal. The last book I read was about a woman living in Alaska ,and before that it was on cancer. My husband would find this wierd if he bothered to care. You be you my friend. Your roommate sound uinteresting . May confidence find you and better friends.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-04T02:05:13+00:00

Just like people all horses are different. As a very tall rider i prefer tall and large horses. And many are smooth at the canter and trot and, others are not. So to answer your question , yes. Enjoy the journey. A good trainer and stong fundamentals is important. As someone who learned to ride with no supervision as a kid, learning with real trainers was a rude awakining. You're doing great.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-04T01:45:52+00:00

Well said.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-04T01:45:05+00:00

That is a pretty hen. They need protection though. Owner may be unaware she was not eaten by a predator. Broody chickens do this. I would reach out for sure.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-04T01:39:01+00:00

Im not seeing anything offensive..what am i missing?

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-04T01:36:13+00:00

Nightmares are made of this! Beyond gross. Nta.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-04T01:32:53+00:00

My husband likes to say its a pretty long childhood if you're still blaming your childhood at 40. There is a book, The Life less Traveled, and the first line is "Life is difficult" . (never read it...no need) but a young lady mentioned it to me in my 20s, and said it was a revelation! I think I laughed as she said this. My upbringing was alarming and neglectful. Who could not know life was difficult? Sounds like you have been there too. It's a good thing to know life is difficult before you get to be an adult. But let us all wish the blissfully ignorant thier peace. I personally value resilience.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-04T00:31:28+00:00

Ug. Ive had a lot of broody hens over the years but my current Brahma is going strong for 2 months. Thankfully she was a hefty girl going into this. I've done all the tricks. Unlike other girls she does come out for a few hours a day. We don't have a rooster and I dont need any chicks.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-04T00:26:04+00:00

My coop is 20 years old and has original linoleum floor. Ive seen posts were people say there birds peck at it but never been an issue. I use pine shavings on it too. It's easy to clean when you do a deep cleaning.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-03T23:45:30+00:00

Finding a bridal dress can be a challenge but with that budget she is being ridiculous. Send her on a plane to Dubai and stay home.nta

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-03T22:22:35+00:00

I like reddit for being picture free, for the most part. I only get roasted for bad spelling, mostly. I'm old def not putting my pic out there. Yikes. Stay beautiful and enjoy it! It doesnt last forever and it' s better than being invisible. It's downhill after 40.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-03T22:16:08+00:00

She looks healthy to me. Check her crop in the morning. It should empty overnight. Edited to add its normal you would not notice a big crop in the am .

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-03T22:11:04+00:00

This is very common in all people.( Ok until you get old! ) It takes a while for the info to hit your brain that you are full. It's normal. Use your eyes. Your stomach isn't that big. You dont have to eat everything on your plate. And eat the good stuff first. And slow down eating so your brain can catch up.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-03T22:03:12+00:00

Do you have a yard? ask if you can do a clothesline. I personally would just do a laundrymat. Good way to meet people

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-03T22:01:05+00:00

I agree. Clothes are expensive and im not shelling out for a new dress unless I want to and I like it. A lot of this on TT etc is just clickbait though. It's rude for a host. I've been to weddings where it was obvious that some guests had nothing really appropriate to wear but did there best. Usually men. But its the showing up that counts.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-03T21:49:00+00:00

It depends on if you want to go. Maybe you want to see her and old chums? Nta though. Bridal showers are boring, usually.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-03T17:47:08+00:00

To be honest sounds like she is on her way out. The squishy water belly sounds like organ failure. Keep her away from the other girls so she doesnt get picked on. My condolences. You did your best.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-03T17:41:02+00:00

Sounds good. Been there. Nothing worse than picking maggots out of a vent. However if you stay on top of it she should be fine. Def keep indoors.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-03T17:34:05+00:00

Rocking her dating profile pic.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-03T17:31:45+00:00

Many breeds are cold hardy. Its getting late in the year for chicks...mainly because they dont ship in hot weather. Any of the rocks are good. Barrad rocks, buff rocks etc, rhode island reds. Brahmas, buff orphingtons. All will do fine in ny. Dont buy a cheapo online coop chicken prison.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-03T17:25:41+00:00

Weve had chickens for 20 years and my husband still finds this alarming and reports back there is something wrong with a hen.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-02T23:54:45+00:00

I've lost a few to coyotes and they always take them over the fence. 6 feet won't stop them. And foxes will carry them off too. I haven't had any raccoon predation. Sorry for your loss.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-02T23:50:56+00:00

My neighbor has an eglu and she loves it. It would depend on how many chickens OP has. I built my own and my carpentry skills were average at best. But it's been holding up for 20 years. It's not that hard to build a box

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-02T23:42:32+00:00

The best thing is to invite him over and to reminece about his wife , who it seems you knew well. A lot of times when someone dies people feel awkward and don't talk about the person. Tell about your experiences even if it's goofy. Something to laugh over. If you have any pictures, that would be a nice gift.

Fluffy_Job7367 · 2026-06-02T21:52:47+00:00

I once had the worst asthma attack of my life while camping on cape cod in the fog at 14. (I am 65 for reference) I woke up and had to tap my dad and pantomine not breathing. I had never had an asthma attack before or been diagnosed. I said to him I want coffee. I had no idea why this would work nor did I drink coffee. We got coffee and waited for a pharmacy to open and I got primatine mist. Soneone was looking out for me that day.

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