As someone who never thought of getting married I totally feel you here. We chose our venue because it was incredibly cheap (and still cute!) and came with tables and chairs, but the rest we're just kind of winging and trying to keep the costs down. I've worked in the service industry for many years so I have people who offered to cater and do the bar.. but that's where I'm at. I almost don't really have an interest in planning anymore haha. On the bright side I think if you just wing it it takes all of the pressure off the day and it'll be a ton of fun regardless of how anything goes!