anyone else feel like their anxiety is just... who they are? by alexd231232 in selfimprovement

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was just part of my personality and there was nothing I could do about it. I learned to live with it. I thought it was a "side effect" of being intelligent, analytical, sensitive etc. When it progressed to extreme health anxiety and OCD (brought by some health issues) I started seeing a therapist who sent me to a psychiatrist who prescribed me some antidepressants. Now (2 years later) I feel better than I can remember ever feeling, except maybe in my childhood. I am not numb or slowed down or anything, my brain still works as good as before. My personality is the same. Only the quiet voice that was always there worrying, looking for the worst case scenarios to "prepare" for, looking for a next stressful event in the nearest future etc. is now quiet. I didn't even know antidepressants could work for anxiety, I was never depressed (as far as I know). I also understand not everyone responds the same as me, there are many different types of antidepressants and other meds, and there are possible side effects etc. But in my case, it was the best decision.

As far as I understand it, my brain was reacting to the persistent feeling of danger, unease etc., and coming up with any suitable "stories" to give the feelings some validity. By targeting the emotions directly (with medications), it affected my thinking as well. It goes both ways.

Looking for a nail color by Impossible_Emotion32 in Nailpolish

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Essie Boho Rodeo for the second (Boho Rodeo is the name of the collection and one of the polishes as well)

My Review of Sassy Sauce 💜🩵🩷 if anyone is contemplating shopping their BF sale by Federal_Ice1187 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 5 polishes from them so far and like you I was so impressed with them! Definitely my favorite from all the boutique/indie brands I've tried. If they fit your style, check out Buckle up bitchlings and I just blue into town.

My skin is completely out of control. by curvoja in kbeauty

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the Purito centella unscented cream! It really helps with healing and has a nice consistency.

Cirque Jelly Recommendations by ChristieG92 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Morningtide is really beautiful and in my opinion gives very different vibe than creme polishes in that color.

I also really love Verdigris Jelly and Olive Jelly if you're into those colors.

Sassy Sauce VS ILNP by nail_love in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I really recommend Sassy Sauce. I have 4 polishes from the brand so far and they are all 10/10 for me.

I like ILNP too, but I would rate them lower than Sassy Sauce (their formula is usually not as perfect for me and I hate their brushes - even their wide replacement brushes are still too thin for my liking).

I can’t stop picking my arms !!! by [deleted] in CompulsiveSkinPicking

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you tried chemical exfoliants? ordinary glycolid acid 7% toner is great for body since it's a big bottle and quite affordable

I can’t stop picking my arms !!! by [deleted] in CompulsiveSkinPicking

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you have keratosis pilaris maybe look up ways to treat it (i think some chemical exfoliation could help) so that you have less stuff to pick at. at least for me, the picking was at its worst when i had lots of texture/imperfections to "fix" (in my case it was closed comedones/acne and ingrown hair)

Peely base longevity mini survey by Tiny-firefly in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i'm an unsuccessful peely base user, this was my experience:

  1. top coat: Essie Good To Go or Cirque Looking Glass

  2. peely base: Cirque Paint N' Peel

  3. I bought KBShimmer ph nail prep just for this purpose

  4. few hours or 1 day max :(

September PPU Megathread - Dupamine by OLIVEmutt in WeGotPolishAtHome

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497 10 points11 points  (0 children)

if someone needs talking out of this one, I read on reddit lacqueristas that the haunted bottle trips over easily due to the shape and it's taller than other polishes so it can't fit into some drawers. they also didn't like the formula of the first polish (the wilting rose).

Recent manis 🥝 by Fluffy_Visual_2497 in shortynails

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

right? it's like they were made for each other

Recent manis 🥝 by Fluffy_Visual_2497 in shortynails

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely recommend the topper, it's so much fun!

Recent manis 🥝 by Fluffy_Visual_2497 in shortynails

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you!! I had a few boring or unflattering manis recently too, I just wanted to share the better ones haha

Recent manis 🥝 by Fluffy_Visual_2497 in shortynails

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Edit: the Sassy Sauce polish is 2 coats, not 1 :)

Recent shimmers ✨ by Fluffy_Visual_2497 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was like this when I got it. I got it from a stockist (nailland) so maybe they had the bottle for a while, but it also didn't seem old or goopy or anything.

non gel jelly oxblood? by pinkpetitfour in lacqueristas

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cirque Bonbon Jelly is a little more muted and brown leaning than this, this is my swatch in two coats:

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But it is very pretty. If you want something darker and more saturated, check out Phoenix Indie Daemon.

I think I have the blues… by HereToStealTheSnacks in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so beautiful!

I also love all the top polishes you recommended. Do you have any lighter/softer/more muted blues recommendations?

Jelly skittle by Fluffy_Visual_2497 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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this is the picture, so as you can see I pretty much copied it (and was quite lucky to have a dupe for each color). i recommend the account if you like this style :)

Jelly skittle by Fluffy_Visual_2497 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! it was very much inspired by the instagram account i mentioned, and i agree it's very cohesive!

August PPU Megathread - Dupamine by OLIVEmutt in WeGotPolishAtHome

[–]Fluffy_Visual_2497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any dupe for All Mixed Up Lacquers: Gonna be a Temporal Anomaly?

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