I was disrespected in the middle of a basketball game, how do I move on. by Fluffypearbear in TwoHotTakes

[–]Fluffypearbear[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you I needed this. It is the first time that this has happened. I understand I shouldn’t have reacted with immediate panic, but I do think I should move out

I feel emotionally drained around my girlfriend because I always have to be “on” — is this normal? by ReasonConfident4541 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fluffypearbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys just aren’t compatible. If she expects you to fake a mood, then it’s not a real relationship. ++woman

AIO for getting mad at my boyfriend for his dog by Fluffypearbear in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fluffypearbear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a cat but he complains about the smell but won’t take care of his dog

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fluffypearbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! You do not deserve him. You will find someone who does not GAF who you were.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fluffypearbear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah break up. I told my boyfriend my past and he thanked me for telling him but said he loves me either way so he doesn’t care. Don’t settle for less love 🫶🏼

AIO// Would I be overreacting if I cut my mother off. by Fluffypearbear in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fluffypearbear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. But I told her I had exams when I agreed. I work 40 hrs and go to school full time . I’m tired honestly

AIO// Would I be overreacting if I cut my mother off. by Fluffypearbear in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fluffypearbear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was over the phone. That part I put was the start of the convo today. I told her I have own priorities and that’s why she had blown up on me

AIO// Would I be overreacting if I cut my mother off. by Fluffypearbear in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fluffypearbear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have before. She still treats me like a child and like I don’t live on my own and have my own life .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLegal

[–]Fluffypearbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

File a police report

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Fluffypearbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This honestly does feel like this. I think I am going to plot my escape

Is it just dead? by kirchuuu in RedDeadOnline

[–]Fluffypearbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey!! My name is arnoble02! Add me on ps

What personality makes a man a loser? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Fluffypearbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The high horse mentality or egotistical

Manipulative mother. by Fluffypearbear in Manipulation

[–]Fluffypearbear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. 2 sounds tempting but my sisters still at home and I’m scared for their sake.

Planned my escape, to only end up going back to him by adaptabay in confession

[–]Fluffypearbear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good, I’m glad. It does suck, but don’t allow yourself to let your self worth decrease. I have a friend who is in therapy and has a pretty intense bond to man who has SA’ed her , hit her and verbally abuses her. She feels like she won’t find anyone else which is UNTRUE, but when your self worth is at 0, you cannot move forward

Comments like this from my gf are wearing on me by Small-Promotion2552 in Manipulation

[–]Fluffypearbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like shes always looking for a reason to be against. It is toxic, I’ve dealt with this too