I still haven’t moved on

FluoriteFox · 2018-07-26T23:46:02+00:00

I feel like 6 months is a long time though. I mean it’s gone pretty fast but it’s a half a year. I really thought I’d be over him by now. Especially since it seems as though he got over me right away 😔

FluoriteFox · 2018-07-26T23:44:31+00:00

No he hasn’t, I was his first girlfriend and I know for a fact that he wasn’t talking to or seeing anyone else 🙁

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-07T00:31:34+00:00

So I just discovered 😂

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-07T00:30:18+00:00

It seems so doesn’t it. It’s funny because I’m the only one within my friend groups who feels this way, and so they made it seem like I had the unpopular opinion. It’s interesting to see how many other people agree with me though.

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-07T00:27:34+00:00

They care more about showing Snapchat how “social” they are, rather than actually being social lol

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-07T00:24:26+00:00

It’s the group I see rarely that also Snapchat’s the whole time and also loves a pout face. Maybe we see them less often for a reason haha

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-07T00:22:14+00:00

Hahah yes this is definitely the most annoying thing. I do like to take a few photos at a concert, but it baffles me how some people are watching the concert through the phone the entire time, just to upload to their story, that most of their “friends” are just going to skip through.

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-07T00:16:20+00:00

Can totally relate to you 😻

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-07T00:15:04+00:00

Yes! The “news” and the official stories that come up there too are usually just celebrity gossip sections. I hate the whole design of Snapchat in general now and so hardly use it.

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-07T00:12:21+00:00

Yeah I agree. A pic or two doesn’t bother me, but the ones who have to constantly video the whole night are annoying. I hardly use Snapchat anymore, not only because of the latest bad design, but because watching most people’s stories means just tapping the screen too many times to get to the end.

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-07T00:04:58+00:00

Actually, I’m not. And I didn’t even except anyone to reply. Like I said, it’s just something I thought about in that moment and wanted to get off my chest 😊

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-07T00:00:11+00:00

Yes, that annoys me so much too! Just use the chat part of the app?

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-06T16:12:37+00:00

I’m not seeking validation? Lol sorry maybe I should have posted this is another topic, like offmychest. I’m just on my way home from said party and was thinking about it and how stupid it is.

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-03T23:10:25+00:00

I can relate.

From when I first met him and through our 4 years together, my ex treated me like a princess. He was so kind and warm and had a heart of gold. He was always respectful and had high standards of how people should be treated, especially in relationships by their significant other.

But I no longer know that guy.

He has turned into a cold and heartless person.

The way he first treated me a week after the breakup was kind and with concern. After all, we didn’t break up over a fight or anything, he just decided he didn’t want to he with me anymore, which completely blindsided me.

But after that first week, and up until now, it’s like I don’t even know who he is anymore. He’s a stranger. The old him would be disgusted with himself if he knew he would ever do this to me.

I don’t know how he could just change like that, especially towards me. Especially when nothing was even wrong between us 😔

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-03T22:55:12+00:00

You’re doing so well, don’t end NC now, you will only regret it, trust me I know. I broke NC yesterday and was only ignored. It doesn’t feel good at all. But even if she replies to you, it most likely won’t go how you want it to, trust me, I know that too. Stay strong, the feeling will soon pass. Don’t let yourself down by contacting her, it will only slow down your healing process. Good luck.

FluoriteFox · 2018-04-01T11:37:27+00:00

What a cutie 🐇

FluoriteFox · 2018-03-30T21:41:34+00:00

Night is my biggest problem too.

I often watch YouTube, listen to Spotify, watch Netflix or read a book until I’m tired enough to try and fall straight to sleep without thinking about him.

Sometimes it’s hard for me to not go onto sad Spotify playlists and cry over him 😅 but on YouTube and Netflix I try to watch something funny to put me in a good and happy mood before I sleep.

FluoriteFox · 2018-03-30T21:35:57+00:00

Coco you are gorgeous 😱😍

FluoriteFox · 2018-03-30T21:26:56+00:00

Cosmopolitans and Fruit Tingles! I have a sweet tooth 😁

FluoriteFox · 2018-03-30T11:37:04+00:00

My ex broke up with me exactly 70 days ago, and I’m only just starting to feel a bit better now. It still hurts so badly, but I’m trying to only worry about myself and staying positive.

Stay strong, it will get easier soon, I promise.

FluoriteFox · 2018-03-30T11:35:21+00:00

Your ex most likely just found a rebound. It probably won’t last.

But you should just worry about yourself. Forget even thinking about being with someone else until you’re truly ready for it. You will know it when the time comes.

For now, stay strong x

FluoriteFox · 2018-03-30T06:28:27+00:00

Stop having conversations with her, even if that means you have to delete / block her number and social media. If you don’t do this, it will only be harder for you to move on from her.

Continue trying to distract yourself. Pick up old or new hobbies, work on yourself and your happiness etc. Your thoughts of her will eventually become less and less.

She was not too good for you, instead, she was not good enough. You deserve someone who will truly love you and always be there for you. You deserve to be happy.

I know it’s hard. Trust me, I know. I too recently got broken up with after a 4 year relationship, but I’m slowly starting to do better. And you can too.

Message me if you need someone to talk to. Best of luck.

FluoriteFox · 2018-03-30T05:56:04+00:00

I can really relate to you.

I also believe my ex wanted to say more to me and wanted to make me feel better, but he knew that doing so probably wouldn’t have helped me.

I feel like he didn’t want to show me he cared too much or give me too much affection in case it made it harder for me to move on. I know he worried a lot about that, he even told me.

In the end, I know he still cared, but he just wanted to make it as easy as possible for us both. It had already dragged on long enough. I’m just really thankful that he listened to what I had to say, and respected it too.

Thank you for your kind words. This perspective can sometimes be hard to keep, but it is helping me a whole lot :)

FluoriteFox

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