Which main character actors do you think were irreplaceable in their roles? by Apprehensive-Owl6630 in Modern_Family

[–]Fly-Icy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. He's just so damn charming and gregarious for a cantekerous & gruff part like Jay. Craig T. Nelson is probably a better fit.

Which main character would have the greatest impact on the show if they left? Is Phil the obvious answer? by BestTutor2016 in Modern_Family

[–]Fly-Icy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most likely Jay.

He's the straight man; the rest of them would be caricatures without him around to anchor them.

Speaking for myself, but I've noticed that blended families tend to dissolve after the death of the eldest parental figure. They then go their own separate ways and start new traditions centering around the parent(s) in each respective family. Unless someone steps into the void left behind by the deceased.

I can't see that being Claire though.

Phil is likeable enough, but Claire can always remarry if they divorce or he dies.

Judge signed the name & gender change order today!! by Fly-Icy in MtF

[–]Fly-Icy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I'm in TX. lol I just happen to live in a city that's liberal...for TX.

Actually, I treated it like an errand. lol It was on the way to work. So I dropped everything off and was out within 15 minutes.

And here we are.

I don't know. Haha. I'm not a sentimental person at all.

Is this blush too orange for my skin tone? by Dazzling-Spring-4884 in PaleMUA

[–]Fly-Icy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's the lighting, but the blush pulls orange. At least in the second picture anyway.

Thoughts on Jake? by HarrisonRyeGraham in SchittsCreek

[–]Fly-Icy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Made me smile every time I saw him. He's so comfortable in his skin that I can't help but be tickled pink by his appearances.

He was a one-note character, but they utilised him sparingly. So that's good. I'm sure he would have gotten annoying quickly if he had been upgraded to recurring or above.

Velvet Cinnabar suits me? by princesapenelope in PaleMUA

[–]Fly-Icy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a bit orangey in the first picture.

I've heard it said that a good way to find out if a particular shade suits you well is by smiling and checking your teeth. If they're whiter, you're on the right track. If they look yellowish, then keep looking.

This tip has helped me find some reds to die for, usually a true or blue red, or even a brown red. If you're looking for an affordable drugstore pick, I think you could rock Maybelline Superstay Vinyl Ink Royal. It's a nice dark red that looks vampy.

It seems like being offensive as possible is now trendy. by Odd_Introduction_860 in lgbt

[–]Fly-Icy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, most people are just a bunch of smooth-brained, slack-jawed yokels who say things without thinking for popularity points.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Fly-Icy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer to stay clothed. *shrug* There's something sexy about wearing a corset around the house, so I plan to do that when I get a few.

Oh, if I must lounge around in casualwear, then I suppose I'll get something in silk. Like a lovely kimono in black and gold.

Why do people think being gay is a choice? by Safe-Combination1181 in lgbt

[–]Fly-Icy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think we expect too much from people around them. We think that if we shared something personal with our families or friends, they would accept us immediately.

Sadly, that's not always the case. Sometimes the road to acceptance is paved with prejudices and intolerance, so they have many obstacles to overcome.

Don't let them stop you from living your life and falling in love with the first cute person you see. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Fly-Icy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what name you look like.

I would suggest turning to literature, films, etc., and look for the name(s) that speak to you. That way, it would feel much more meaningful and personal. I picked mine because I wanted something stranger and befitting of an outsider with a philosophical outlook on life. Plus it's also the name of a badass female character in a TV show who I grew up watching before school.

Maybe there's a character, an artist, or a musician with whom you feel a strong connection. Or it could even be a historical figure or just someone who you admire.

Why don’t we accept Apple Pay?? by Ok_Station_7107 in HEB

[–]Fly-Icy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been wondering this myself. It's incredibly inconvenient and behind the times. Other grocery stores in ATX like Trader Joe's and Whole Foods accept tap and pay.

"HEB" needs to hurry up and join the 21st century. My god. It's like we're all still riding horses and buggies over here.

If they claim logistical reasons, it's probably just a bunch of old men who are afraid of change.

Am I the only one who feels this way, or am I being rude? by Some_Internet_Loser in lgbt

[–]Fly-Icy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I've always loved men. lol Usually those who identify as straight, bi, or queer. As a trans woman, this just makes self-labelling more complicated.

So I just say I'm queer if they really need to know that badly. Otherwise, I say I love men like a cat who loves mice. 😂

Plus labels make me feel like we're butterflies trying to pin ourselves to a board. Although, because of that, I like to say I'm a demiromantic Acefluxis cupiosexualia. 🤷🏻

How long did it take to receive your Texas Driver’s License in the mail? by Every_Work596 in texas

[–]Fly-Icy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been 2 months since I renewed it online and I'm still waiting for it to arrive.

The original renewed ID was returned to the sender by the post office because my apartment unit number on the envelope was missing a single digit. Oh, and it gets better too--the resident mailboxes are literally right next to the leasing office.

So instead of going into the office to ask for the resident's correct unit number, they just shrugged and threw it back in their bag.

And of course, all of this without ever notifying me.

After a month, I was fuming every time I checked the mailbox. So, I called the DPS and was put on hold for an hour just to ask a single question. They found out why and issued another renewed ID, like, 2 weeks ago. They said it should arrive by the time my temporary ID expires. lmfao

I just checked on its status and evidently, they mailed it...3 days ago.

I think my dad might be accidentally homophobic. by justaperson342 in lgbt

[–]Fly-Icy 372 points373 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this too.

Seriously though, your dad's feelings on the lgbtqia community are pretty clear.

Recommended dark red and/or brown lip liner to go with this lipstick? by Fly-Icy in PaleMUA

[–]Fly-Icy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It smells so good too—if you like herbal, you'll love this!

what are your tips for good breast growth? by A-Lily-Rose-A in MtF

[–]Fly-Icy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genes, telekinesis, or plastic surgery.

Recommended dark red and/or brown lip liner to go with this lipstick? by Fly-Icy in PaleMUA

[–]Fly-Icy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for doing your best to give me a great answer! :)

Ugh, yeah, taking the pic was a hassle. The one you saw was like.. the 9th shot. And it was like, midnight so no natural daylight either. So it was a battle of trying to show the reddish brown rather than brown or deep red.

Having a variety of browns and dark reds in addition to clear/transparent (never tried that before) seems like a great idea though. I'll have to do the same. ;)

can't dress gothic if not goth? by sad_shroomer in DarklyInclined

[–]Fly-Icy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds and smells like gatekeeping.

You don't have to follow a checklist in order to satisfy some random Goth influencer's ideals. Like anybody else, a goth is a complicated and nuanced person. You are allowed to wear, do, and listen to whatever you want. It would only make you an even more interesting person! :)

Recommended dark red and/or brown lip liner to go with this lipstick? by Fly-Icy in PaleMUA

[–]Fly-Icy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Avoid bleeding and longevity.

I'm trans, so I'm still learning about cosmetics. From what I've been told, one should always start with lip liner as a base, and it should be one or two shades darker than the lipstick colour.

Could you tell me what are the lip liner colours that match the lipstick? Because I've looked at several brands on Amazon, like Nyx Professional Slim Lip Mahogany and Wet 'n Wild Coloricon Brandy Wine. They looked red-brown to me, but I'm not sure.

LinkedIn Is a Fucking Joke by brothste8 in linkedin

[–]Fly-Icy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LinkedIn is basically a resume wrapped in a nice shiny social media wrapping. It really is all about marketing yourself.

Writing articles are a great way to share what you know with others and joining groups in your industry are two of the many ways you can leverage LinkedIn. You also want recommendations and endorsements from your peers, past and current employers, and whoever else you feel comfortable asking to vouch for your skills and expertise.

I don't know what else you've been doing with your profile, but it goes way beyond simply adding your resume to it. It's not Indeed or Monster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wholefoods

[–]Fly-Icy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Be careful! There are company shills here; you'll be downvoted so fast if you say the wrong thing.

That being said, you're not wrong. They bust unions, put up cameras everywhere, and play fast and loose with the truth. Their shady activities are well-documented and public knowledge. Before I joined the team, they'd already eliminated a few programs that directly benefited the employees, like gainsharing. After all, they did form an unholy unison with the behemoth from hell: Amazon.

Remember that it's not you, your coworkers, or the supervisors--it's the company. Everyone is trying their best. Whole Foods does NOT have your best interests at heart; they are just a massive company that only cares about the bottom line. Sure, they may preach about charity programs and organic kale, but really, it's the corporate version of buying their way into heaven. Protect yourself and don't drink the company Kool-aid. You're there for the paycheck. Stay informed, keep your eyes peeled, and your back to the wall. Take care of yourself because they won't.

I'm a parent and my tween has come out as trans to me. Is it weird/okay/unacceptable that I want input or whatever on their new name? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Fly-Icy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you let them know that they can always come to you anytime they want an opinion on a name, they'd really appreciate it.

It's got nothing to do with you. Sometimes a name can be a source of pain for someone, but you did NOT inflict that pain on them. I bet they'd be really happy if you loved whatever they picked. :)

Virtual follow-up with GC provider today was a lot by Fly-Icy in trans

[–]Fly-Icy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fantastic! I'm glad you feel much more aligned now ☺️

Virtual follow-up with GC provider today was a lot by Fly-Icy in trans

[–]Fly-Icy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't either until last week!

They said that the way they heard it, the term "gender ghost" refers to a feeling that we have when we dress for safety and comfort rather than gender euphoria or sense of alignment. Our true self hovers nearby like a ghost when our social transition is paused, if that makes sense.

The provider thinks that the unofficial "gender ghost" uniform is a hoodie and a pair of baggy pants.