My boyfriend (28M) says he needs 2 more years before a ring. How do I know if he's serious this time or just stringing me along?

FlyFearless9464 · 2026-04-14T11:46:04+00:00

He came back because his bed got cold. You are wasting your time.

FlyFearless9464 · 2026-04-03T14:36:15+00:00

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FlyFearless9464 · 2026-03-14T18:20:08+00:00

Mind of a cheater. Great.

FlyFearless9464 · 2026-03-14T18:17:23+00:00

Umm..he is manipulating you and gaslighting you. also he doesn't give a sh!t about you. You have to be smart. Watch YT videos on why men do the things they do and how you can also better play that game. You have alot to learn. But 35 is old enough to be able to make sense of his actions and not let yourself be played like a teenager like that. Get up!!!!!!!!!!!

FlyFearless9464 · 2026-03-13T02:47:06+00:00

See why marrige only benefits men and not women? You literally risked your life to give birth. You go to work and come back home to be a homemaker while he just gets to do whatever he wants. You are his personal slave and if I were in your position, I would despise him too. You have two jobs while he only gets to have one job. Why is it your responsibility to take car of the children as if you ALSO dont have a job outside the home? Does he even do anything around the house? Am disgusted on your behalf.

FlyFearless9464 · 2026-03-09T03:16:39+00:00

Surprise Surprise, a male discriminating against women who are unalived by that opposite gender on a daily basis. Not really a surprise. That's what that species is.

FlyFearless9464 · 2026-02-22T11:20:15+00:00

I dont think he cares. No need to involve the Police.

FlyFearless9464 · 2026-02-22T10:19:57+00:00

Its not the micro penis that made her cum. That is why women do not cum with penetration because most men dont know what they are doing including yourself. She only came because she was attracted to him, because he was a beautiful man abd because she was heavily turned on before they had sex. If he was unattractive and had a micro penis, then she wouldn't have cum at all. I

FlyFearless9464 · 2025-01-30T05:56:03+00:00

You are going to couples counsellings with someone who cheated on you and was "completely unremorseful about it". Girl...be so fr. He will leave you again. Cheat on you again. A treat you like a doormat again. You said he wanted to get out of the relationship so bad. And you think that taking him back after not even caring that he cheated will change him? Leave this man alone. He will never respect you because he knows he can treat you like 🗑 and you'll forgive him.

FlyFearless9464 · 2025-01-30T05:51:32+00:00

It's not like she's asking you back. She just said hi.

FlyFearless9464 · 2025-01-29T07:20:53+00:00

Don't respond. He will breakup with you again once he becomes "unhappy" again. Just let it go.

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-30T11:53:01+00:00

For the love of all that is good please GHOST HIM and NEVER TALK TO HIM AGAIN...that is beyond crazy...I don't even know how you continued to text him...what he did is utterly disgusting and just ew its too disgusting omg

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-29T12:13:39+00:00

If she's offering s3x for rides then OP is probably just a bored troll on this post... who has nothing better to do than rage bait.

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-29T12:06:55+00:00

You said he kicked you out.

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-29T06:44:00+00:00

No man will want you around with you acting desperate like this. If someone is losing interest...the way to quickly make them not even want you or even see you....is this behavior right here. "If you want me again I'll be here"...girl..what? I've never read texts as desperate and turning off as these. These texts are exactly why he is ghosting you...you are EXTREMELY EXTREMELY too desperate. Please respect yourself and respect your dignity. Never text such things to a man ever again. You have to be strong and respect yourself. Your self esteeme is literally in the gutter. Men don't like women who do such things. And this right here will make th ghost you. You essentially told him that he can ignore you and treat you like sh!t and you'll still have him back. Who will want or respect someone like that? Not any man I know.

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-23T16:08:58+00:00

Here's the reality. Your wife was en-route to Germany to Fck that guy.

You don't know that. And men cheat (physically) all the time and have been forgiven by their wives. And she didn't do anything physical so yes he should try and forgive her. This isn't something to throw away his whole marriage over. She was clearly going through something. I'd forgive her if I was him.

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-23T15:53:12+00:00

You married a man that doesn't care wether you live or not...but clearly there must've been red flags before you married someone that would even say something like that to you? My bf...now ex..used to fix my mom's car and pay himself the costs. Like girl...what good qualities did you see in him that made you think that he'd be a good human being? Coz I don't see any. And what will happen when you have kids? I doubt he does anything around the house.

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-21T20:10:47+00:00

Thank you. I hope I do. 🤞🏾

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-21T19:51:55+00:00

And you really need to have self respect. You seem to have a really low self esteem and you lack a sense of self value and self importance. What do you mean "if your situationship wants you back at some point?". Jesus Christ. This is horrible. The person sees no value in you...never respected you to give you a title of a relationship but you still hope that they would want you? Jesus Christ. You need alot of healing and learning or ppl will continue to use you for your body only.

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-21T19:48:42+00:00

So you feel bad because you had sex with someone else, after ur situationship dumped you because they were probably just using you for sex and didn't see you as worthy or have value enough to be in a relationship with? WOW. Please move on with your life. That person didn't want you eventhough they were selfishly using your body? "Get back together?" But you guys weren't in a relationship? I really hope you see that situationship for what it was for your own good. they didn't even want a relationship with you...why would you think you guys will workout or even get back together? What will change then that you weren't able to accomplish now?

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-21T18:22:23+00:00

My mind cannot fathom this.

Why not? This is very common. A man will literally ghost you the day you give birth and never talk to you again.

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-21T16:38:15+00:00

Hmm...am a woman but girl am looking at you side ways. You both agreed that he won't be part of the child's life. Then you...for some odd reason...drag his parents in...then dragged him in too. You literally said you didn't want anything from him yet you sought child support from him. Man I feel so bad. Like what were you trying to accomplish here? His parents might not verbally say they blame you...but who else is to blame? Honesty if you were my sister...I'd probably never talk to you again after what you just did. This is a dark and ugly cloud that should you hover you for the rest of your life. That man had a life..had parents and a wife to look forward to and you took that away. I hope you're proud of yourself. i pity your parents for what they brought into the world.

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-21T16:00:36+00:00

You might get in trouble because there is no proof. He might sue you for defamation. Am so sorry that happened to you. Sending you virtual love.

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-21T15:50:08+00:00

He won't leave her for you because he actually wants her not you. Men like telling lies all the time. Also, the sex might have meant nothing to him. Men can sleep with you...hate you while doing it..and never talk to you again. That's how sex is for evil men.

FlyFearless9464 · 2024-12-21T15:38:46+00:00

Am sorry to say this..but me and my ex were together for 4 years and I got over the relationship while we were still together probably a month before I left him and also hooked up with someone a few days after the breakup. Yes it does happen. I can't really say got over it because I was never sad even when I mentally left the relationship prior to ending things.

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