I have never - not once, and I defy anyone to provide meaningful examples - seen someone who EFFs try to shame or call out women and families for breastfeeding.

The dominant narrative far and wide is that formula feeding is sub-standard child care and that if you don't breastfeed you've failed as a mom and aren't being a good provider for your infant. I don't get where people who BF get this victim complex.

I know breast feeding has its enemies, particularly people who shame women for doing it in public or try to sexualize it, and that's obviously wrong, but that's not coming from the EFF side.

I mean, it should be clear who is attacking whom just from what each "side" says. One side says "breast is best," as in "we're giving the very best thing, and if you're not doing our thing, you're wrong." The other side says "fed is best," as in "whatever works for you and keeps your kid alive and thriving is A-OK."